How can we apply "all things are clean" while respecting others' convictions? Setting the Verse in Context Romans 14:20: “Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All things indeed are clean, but it is wrong for a man to let his eating cause another to stumble.” • Paul is addressing disputes about food laws and holy days within the church at Rome. • The Spirit-led point: liberty is real, but love limits liberty so that unity is protected. God’s Declaration: All Things Are Clean • Mark 7:19—Jesus “declared all foods clean.” • Acts 10:15—“What God has made clean, you must not call impure.” • 1 Timothy 4:4—“For every creature of God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving.” • Therefore, literal, God-given permission covers every menu item. The issue now is relational, not ceremonial. Why Some Believers Still Refrain • Background—from Jewish or other strict traditions (Romans 14:2). • Sensitive conscience—genuinely troubled by certain foods or practices (1 Corinthians 8:7). • Growing phase—new believers still sorting truth from habit; forcing them ahead of conscience harms their faith (Romans 14:23). The Heart of Love Above Personal Liberty • Freedom exists, but “it is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything that causes your brother to stumble” (Romans 14:21). • Love “builds up” (1 Corinthians 8:1), so liberty bows to edification. • Christ’s example: He laid aside His rights for others (Philippians 2:5-8). Practical Ways to Honor Both Truth and Conscience • At the table – Ask ahead about dietary concerns. – Provide options that everyone can eat without anxiety. – If a guest’s conscience forbids something, quietly abstain for that meal. • In conversation – Speak of your liberty humbly, not boastfully. – Share supporting Scriptures only when asked, never as a hammer. • In personal practice – Enjoy God’s gifts with gratitude when conscience is clear (1 Corinthians 10:30). – Privately review Romans 14:14-23 to keep motives pure. When Convictions Collide: Peacemaking Tips • Decide in advance to pursue “righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Romans 14:17). • “Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification” (Romans 14:19). • If tension surfaces, gently shift the focus to Christ, worship, and fellowship rather than the disputed item. Growing Together Toward Maturity • Over time, the Word and Spirit reshape consciences (Hebrews 5:14). • Mutual patience allows each believer to move from weaker to stronger faith without rupture. • The church that practices liberty wrapped in love displays the gospel beautifully to a watching world (John 13:35). |
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