In what ways can we apply the principle of keeping promises in our lives? Anchoring Verse “ This is what we will do to them: We will let them live, so that wrath will not fall upon us for breaking the oath we swore to them.” — Joshua 9:20 Setting the Scene • Israel had been deceived by the Gibeonites, yet they had given their word before the LORD. • Even though the promise was made under false pretenses, Israel regarded the oath as binding because it was invoked in God’s name. • The narrative underscores that God’s people must honor their commitments, reflecting His faithfulness. Why Keeping Promises Matters • God’s character is perfectly faithful (Numbers 23:19; Hebrews 10:23). • When we keep our word, we mirror His reliability to the watching world. • Broken promises damage trust, invite discipline (Ecclesiastes 5:4-6), and blur the distinction between God’s people and the surrounding culture. Everyday Ways to Live This Out • Marriage vows: Guard covenant faithfulness “till death do us part” (Malachi 2:14-16; Matthew 19:6). • Parenting commitments: Be consistent with the guidance, discipline, and encouragement you promise your children (Ephesians 6:4). • Business agreements: Honor contracts even when it costs (Psalm 15:4). • Church service: Follow through on ministry roles, financial pledges, and volunteer responsibilities (2 Corinthians 8:10-11). • Simple speech: Let “yes” be “yes” and “no” be “no” (Matthew 5:37; James 5:12). • Civic duties: Pay taxes, keep laws, and fulfill public promises (Romans 13:1-7). • Personal goals: If you commit to pray for, visit, or help someone, schedule it and do it (Proverbs 3:27-28). Guarding Our Words Before We Speak • Pray first (Proverbs 16:3). • Count the cost (Luke 14:28-30). • Avoid hasty oaths (Proverbs 20:25). • Speak truthfully, avoiding exaggeration or flattery (Ephesians 4:25). When We Fail • Confess swiftly to God and to the offended party (1 John 1:9). • Make restitution where possible (Luke 19:8-9). • Learn to build margin, create reminders, and seek accountability so the same failure doesn’t recur. Reflecting God’s Faithfulness • God sealed His promises in Christ; every “Yes” is in Him (2 Corinthians 1:20). • By keeping our smaller human promises, we point people to the unbreakable covenant secured by Jesus’ blood (Hebrews 13:20-21). |
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