What practical steps help us "put away...slander" in our interactions? The Command to Put Away Slander “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice.” (Ephesians 4:31) Understanding Slander • Slander is spreading damaging words—true or false—that diminish another’s reputation. • It violates the Ninth Commandment (Exodus 20:16) and undermines Christian fellowship. • Scripture repeatedly pairs slander with anger and malice because it flows from an unloving heart. Why Slander Is Serious • “Whoever spreads slander is a fool.” (Proverbs 10:18) • “I will destroy the one who secretly slanders his neighbor.” (Psalm 101:5) • Jesus warns that “men will give an account on the day of judgment for every careless word.” (Matthew 12:36) Heart-Level Changes: Renew Your Mind • Yield to the Spirit daily (Galatians 5:16). A Spirit-led heart produces gracious speech. • Fill thoughts with what is “true…honorable…right…pure…” (Philippians 4:8). • Let Scripture reshape attitudes: “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2) Practical Steps to Silence Slander • Pause before speaking. “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak.” (James 1:19) • Verify facts; if uncertain, stay silent. “When words are many, sin is unavoidable.” (Proverbs 10:19) • Speak directly to the person involved rather than about them (Matthew 18:15). • Replace accusations with intercession—pray for the person instead of talking against them. • Keep a gratitude list for people who irritate you; thanksgiving softens the heart. • Memorize key verses (see list below) and recite them when tempted. • Ask a trusted believer to hold you accountable for your words. • End conversations that drift toward character attacks: “I’d rather not talk about them that way.” • Each evening, review the day; confess any slander immediately (1 John 1:9). Words That Heal Instead • “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up.” (Ephesians 4:29) • Aim to bless: “A gentle answer turns away wrath.” (Proverbs 15:1) • Encourage openly, correct privately, and always speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Keeping Short Accounts with God and Others • The Spirit convicts quickly—respond just as quickly. • Seek forgiveness from anyone you’ve slandered; restore trust through humble apology. • Move forward in grace, refusing to rehearse past failures once they’re under Christ’s blood. Key Verses to Memorize |
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