How can we practically "obey" and "submit" to our church leaders today? The Call to Obey and Submit “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they watch over your souls as those who must give an account. Allow them to do this with joy and not with grief, for that would be of no advantage to you.” (Hebrews 13:17) Why This Matters • 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13—“acknowledge those who work among you… Esteem them very highly in love on account of their work.” • 1 Timothy 5:17—“Elders who lead effectively are worthy of double honor.” • 1 Peter 5:5—“be subject to the elders… clothe yourselves with humility.” Obedience and submission are God-ordained means for guarding souls, promoting unity, and displaying Christ’s order to a watching world. Practical Ways to Obey Leaders • Prioritize gathering—be present, punctual, and prepared for worship and teaching. • Listen actively—take notes, ask for clarification afterward, and apply the preached Word during the week (James 1:22). • Follow ministry direction—embrace church-wide initiatives, classes, service opportunities, and outreach plans without grumbling (Philippians 2:14-16). • Guard your tongue—refuse gossip or criticism that undermines leadership; instead, “let everything you say be good and helpful” (Ephesians 4:29). • Support discipline—stand with leaders when biblical correction must occur (Matthew 18:15-17; 2 Thessalonians 3:14-15). Practical Ways to Submit • Cultivate humility—daily remind yourself that God resists pride but gives grace to the humble (1 Peter 5:5). • Seek guidance—invite elders into major life decisions (marriage, moves, career changes) instead of presenting faits accomplis. • Defer preferences—yield personal tastes in music, programs, or schedules when leaders set a different course for the body (Romans 12:10). • Serve where needed—say “yes” to roles that advance the church’s mission even if they fall outside your comfort zone (1 Corinthians 16:15-16). • Give generously—faithfully tithe and contribute so leaders can minister without financial anxiety (2 Corinthians 9:7-8). Helping Your Leaders Lead with Joy • Encourage—offer specific words of thanks after sermons, counseling sessions, or visits. • Pray—intercede for their families, health, wisdom, and protection (Ephesians 6:18-20). • Protect their time—respect study days and rest periods; coordinate appointments through proper channels. • Share good news—let them hear how God used their labor in your life; it fuels their perseverance (3 John 4). Guardrails and Discernment • Submission is never blind: “We must obey God rather than men.” (Acts 5:29) • If a leader teaches error or commands sin, appeal humbly yet firmly to Scripture (Galatians 1:8). • Multiple elders and congregational accountability help prevent abuse (Acts 20:28; Matthew 18:17-20). Blessings that Flow from Obedient Submission • Personal growth—teachable hearts receive richer nourishment (1 Peter 2:2). • Church unity—shared direction minimizes division and maximizes mission impact (Philippians 1:27). • Leader joy—happy shepherds care more effectively, and everyone benefits (Hebrews 13:17b). • Gospel witness—a well-ordered, loving church displays Christ’s rule to the world (John 13:35). |
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