How can we cultivate "the lips of the wise" in our lives?

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The Verse in View

“The lips of the wise spread knowledge, but not so the hearts of fools.” — Proverbs 15:7

Why Our Lips Matter

• Words reveal the heart (Luke 6:45)

• Words steer life’s direction (Proverbs 18:21; James 3:3-6)

• Words either build up or tear down (Ephesians 4:29)

How to Cultivate “the Lips of the Wise”

• Saturate Your Heart with Scripture

– Memorize and meditate on passages that shape speech: Psalm 19:14; Colossians 3:16

– Wisdom stored inside naturally flows outside (Proverbs 16:23)

• Guard the Input

– Limit voices that cheapen speech (1 Corinthians 15:33)

– Surround yourself with those who model godly talk (Proverbs 13:20)

• Practice Holy Restraint

– “When words are many, sin is unavoidable” (Proverbs 10:19)

– Be “quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19)

– Silence can be wisdom in disguise (Proverbs 17:27–28)

• Speak with Grace and Truth

– Season words “with salt” (Colossians 4:6) so they preserve and heal

– Never sacrifice truth for niceness, nor niceness for harsh truth (Ephesians 4:15)

• Aim to Edify

– Ask, “Will this comment spread knowledge or merely opinion?” (Proverbs 15:2)

– Encourage, instruct, or comfort—every word should serve one of those aims (1 Thessalonians 5:11)

• Seek the Spirit’s Help Daily

– Wisdom originates from God (James 1:5)

– Invite the Spirit to bridle the tongue and supply apt words (John 14:26)

Common Pitfalls to Avoid

• Gossip disguised as concern (Proverbs 16:28)

• Sarcasm that wounds (Proverbs 12:18)

• Complaining that spreads unbelief (Philippians 2:14-15)

• Flattery that manipulates (Proverbs 29:5)

Promises and Blessings for the Wise Speaker

• Protection: “The lips of the wise protect them” (Proverbs 14:3)

• Favor: “A gentle tongue can break a bone” (Proverbs 25:15)

• Influence: “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold” (Proverbs 25:11)

• Fruitfulness: “He who guards his mouth preserves his life” (Proverbs 13:3)

A Simple Daily Plan

1. Morning: Read one proverb aloud, asking God to make it govern your speech.

2. Midday: Pause before meetings or conversations—ask, “Is this wise, true, needed?”

3. Evening: Review the day’s words. Confess failures, thank God for victories, reset for tomorrow (Psalm 139:23-24).

Obeying Proverbs 15:7 transforms talk from idle chatter into life-giving knowledge—one deliberate, Spirit-led word at a time.