Lessons from Jesus on Mary's actions?
What can we learn from Jesus' defense of Mary's actions in John 12:7?

Setting of the Account

John 12:1-3

“Six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, the home of Lazarus, whom He had raised from the dead... Then Mary took about a pint of expensive perfume, made of pure nard, and anointed Jesus’ feet and wiped them with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.”

• Bethany, the village of dear friends—Lazarus, Martha, and Mary—just two miles from Jerusalem and buzzing with Passover pilgrims.

• The perfume (pure nard) was worth about three hundred denarii, roughly a year’s wages (Mark 14:5).

• Mary kneels, pours, wipes with her own hair—an act of extravagant humility.


The Objection Raised

John 12:4-6 recounts Judas’s protest that the perfume could have been sold and given to the poor, “but he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to take from what was put into it.”

• Judas masks greed with a pious-sounding concern.

• His words reveal a heart far from the Lord despite outward proximity.


Jesus’ Defense: Meaning and Implications

John 12:7

“Leave her alone,” Jesus replied. “She has kept this perfume in preparation for the day of My burial.”

• He protects Mary from criticism, showing that sincere worshipers are safe under His care (Psalm 91:14).

• He affirms that Mary’s act is prophetic—pointing to His imminent death and burial (Isaiah 53:9; Mark 14:8).

• He reveals that true disciples discern and respond to the cross before it happens; Mary perceives what the Twelve still struggle to grasp (Luke 18:34).

• He sets priority: honoring the Savior outranks even noble charitable projects when the two are in tension (Matthew 26:10-11).

• He highlights the fragrance of devotion that fills the house, anticipating the gospel’s aroma filling the world (2 Corinthians 2:15).


What We Can Learn Today

• Worship that costs something delights the Lord. Cheap, token gestures never carry the same fragrance (2 Samuel 24:24).

• Acts of love springing from a heart fixed on Christ may be misunderstood or criticized, yet Jesus notices and defends.

• Genuine compassion for the poor flows from, not in place of, wholehearted devotion to Christ (James 1:27).

• Spiritual discernment grows in those who linger at Jesus’ feet; Mary’s posture in Luke 10:39 prepared her for this moment.

• The cross is central. Even our good works lose focus if detached from the atoning death and resurrection of Jesus (1 Corinthians 2:2).

• Extravagant giving to Christ is never wasted; heaven’s record books differ from earth’s calculators (Philippians 4:18-19).

• Our Savior values inner motive above outward appearance; Judas sounded charitable, Mary looked wasteful, but the realities were reversed (Proverbs 16:2).


Related Scriptures for Further Reflection

Mark 14:6-9 – Parallel account confirming the memorial nature of Mary’s act.

Matthew 26:10-13 – Emphasis on preaching this story with the gospel worldwide.

Luke 10:38-42 – Mary choosing “the good portion” at Jesus’ feet.

Romans 12:1 – Offering ourselves as living sacrifices, “holy and pleasing to God.”

1 Peter 1:18-19 – We were redeemed “with the precious blood of Christ.”

2 Corinthians 9:7 – God loves a cheerful giver, illustrated perfectly in Mary.

How can we prioritize honoring Jesus in our daily lives like Mary?
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