Lessons from Stephen's forgiveness?
What can we learn from Stephen's example of forgiveness in Acts 7:59?

Backdrop to Acts 7:59

Stephen, the first recorded martyr of the church, has just delivered a Spirit-inspired defense before the Sanhedrin. The crowd drags him outside the city and hurls stones. In the very moment of death, Scripture records: “While they were stoning him, Stephen appealed: ‘Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.’ ” (Acts 7:59). The next verse adds, “Falling on his knees, he cried out in a loud voice, ‘Lord, do not hold this sin against them.’ ” (Acts 7:60).


What Stephen Shows Us about Forgiveness

• Forgiveness flows from surrender. Entrusting his spirit to Christ (v. 59) sets the stage for pardoning his killers (v. 60). A heart yielded to Jesus naturally releases others.

• Forgiveness is offered before apology. The mob never repents, yet Stephen releases them. Genuine grace is proactive (Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13).

• Forgiveness coexists with suffering. Pain does not cancel the call to forgive; it provides the platform (Romans 12:17-21).

• Forgiveness is verbal. Stephen speaks it aloud, turning private mercy into public witness (Matthew 5:16).

• Forgiveness mirrors Christ. “Father, forgive them” (Luke 23:34) and “Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit” (Luke 23:46) appear again on Stephen’s lips, showing that the disciple reflects the Master (1 Peter 2:23).


How the Holy Spirit Enables Such Grace

• Filled before the council: “Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, gazed into heaven” (Acts 7:55). The Spirit empowers supernatural love (Galatians 5:22).

• Vision of Jesus standing: Assurance of Christ’s approval dwarfs the offense of men.

• Boldness and peace: The same Spirit who gave Stephen courage supplies forgiveness’s strength (2 Timothy 1:7).


Practical Takeaways for Today

• Keep eternity in view. When life is surrendered to Christ, offenses shrink.

• Speak blessing, not retaliation. Verbal grace shapes the atmosphere in families, churches, and workplaces.

• Pray for offenders. Interceding softens our hearts and invites God’s work in theirs.

• Let Scripture renew the mind. Meditate on passages like Matthew 5:44—“Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you”.

• Trust divine justice. Releasing vengeance to God frees us to love (Romans 12:19).


A Testimony That Still Speaks

The forgiven persecutor Saul stood nearby (Acts 7:58). Stephen’s final words echoed in Saul’s memory until the risen Christ met him on the Damascus road. Our forgiveness today can become the seed of someone else’s salvation tomorrow.

How does Stephen's prayer in Acts 7:59 demonstrate his faith in Jesus?
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