How should believers pray for enemies, considering Psalm 109:20's context? Setting the Scene Psalm 109 is David’s cry when slanderers and persecutors have turned his kindness into hatred (vv. 1-5). In verse 20 he pleads, “May this be the LORD’s reward to my accusers, to those who speak evil against me.” The psalm is an imprecatory prayer: David is not taking revenge himself; he is appealing to God’s covenant justice and leaving the outcome in the Lord’s hands. Why Imprecation Can Be Righteous • David acknowledges real evil and refuses to excuse it (vv. 2-5). • He entrusts judgment to God, not personal retaliation (cf. 1 Samuel 24:12). • His language reflects a covenant framework in which God defends the innocent and vindicates His name (Deuteronomy 32:35-36). New Testament Light on Praying for Enemies • Jesus: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). • Stephen: “Lord, do not hold this sin against them” (Acts 7:60). • Paul: “Bless those who persecute you…never avenge yourselves; leave room for God’s wrath” (Romans 12:14-19). • Jesus on the cross: “Father, forgive them” (Luke 23:34). These verses show that praying for enemies includes both mercy (their repentance) and trust that God will ultimately judge justly. Balancing Justice and Mercy in Prayer 1. Recognize the wrong honestly—God never asks us to pretend evil is good. 2. Ask God to bring repentance and salvation to the offender (1 Timothy 2:1-4). 3. Commit the demand for justice to the Lord, trusting His timing and righteousness (Psalm 94:1-2). 4. Pray for protection and deliverance for the victims, including yourself (Psalm 109:26-27). 5. Guard your own heart from bitterness; seek to overcome evil with good (Romans 12:20-21). Practical Steps When You Pray for an Enemy • Begin with worship: remind yourself of God’s sovereignty and goodness. • Name the offense before God, confessing any sinful anger in your own heart (Psalm 139:23-24). • Ask the Spirit to grant the enemy conviction of sin and a revelation of Christ’s mercy (John 16:8). • Release vengeance to God: “Lord, You see and You will act righteously.” • Pray for ways you can show practical kindness if God opens the door (Proverbs 25:21-22). • End by thanking God that His justice and mercy meet perfectly at the cross (Romans 3:25-26). Key Takeaways • Psalm 109:20 models righteous appeal to God’s justice, not personal retaliation. • The New Testament calls believers to combine that appeal with active love for enemies. • Biblical prayer for enemies holds two requests in tension: “Lord, save and transform them” and “Lord, vindicate Your righteousness.” • When believers pray this way, they imitate Christ, trust God’s perfect judgment, and protect their own hearts from revenge. |