Ruth 4:6: Selflessness in decisions?
How does Ruth 4:6 illustrate the importance of selflessness in decision-making?

Verse in focus

“‘I cannot redeem it myself, lest I jeopardize my own inheritance. Take my right of redemption, because I cannot redeem it.’” (Ruth 4:6)


Setting the scene

• A nearer kinsman-redeemer is first in line to buy Naomi’s land and marry Ruth.

• He backs out when he learns that marrying Ruth may complicate his estate.

• Boaz, motivated by covenant love, steps in to redeem.


What the nearer redeemer’s words reveal

• His decision is governed by self-protection: “lest I jeopardize my own inheritance.”

• He weighs gain and loss strictly through a personal lens.

• The law allowed him to refuse, but love would have led him to sacrifice (cf. Leviticus 25:25; Deuteronomy 25:5-10).


Selflessness contrasted in Boaz

• Boaz risks resources and reputation for Ruth’s welfare.

• He embodies the spirit of Leviticus 19:18, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

• His choice anticipates the sacrificial heart of the ultimate Redeemer (Mark 10:45).


Lessons for decision-making today

• Self-interest can be lawful yet loveless; selflessness fulfills the deeper intent of God’s commands (Galatians 5:13-14).

• God honors those who seek another’s good above personal security (Philippians 2:3-4).

• Kingdom decisions count cost, yet trust God to replenish what is surrendered (Luke 6:38).

• True legacy is built not by preserving possessions but by investing in people and God’s purposes (Matthew 6:19-21).


Christ, the perfect Redeemer

• Like Boaz, Jesus was under no compulsion, yet chose the cross for the joy set before Him (Hebrews 12:2).

• Our salvation rests on His willingness to jeopardize everything for us (2 Corinthians 8:9).

• In every choice, believers mirror His love when they prefer others at personal expense.


Courage to choose selflessness

• Recall God’s past faithfulness—He replenishes what love expends.

• Rely on the Spirit’s power to crucify self-preservation instincts (Galatians 5:24-25).

• Remember that every selfless decision writes another line in the ongoing story of redemption God is telling through His people.

Why does the kinsman-redeemer refuse to redeem in Ruth 4:6?
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