Why avoid vows if you might break them?
Why is it better not to vow than to break one, according to Ecclesiastes?

Ecclesiastes 5:5

“It is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfill it.”


Immediate Context

• Verses 1-7 warn about careless words spoken “before God.”

• Vows are singled out because they are voluntary promises made directly to Him.

• Failing to keep them is treated as sin (v. 6), bringing judgment rather than blessing.


Why It Is Better Not to Vow Than to Break One

• Avoids the sin of lying to God—breaking a vow turns worship into hypocrisy.

• Protects God’s name from being taken in vain (Exodus 20:7).

• Prevents self-inflicted judgment: “Why should God be angry at your words and destroy the work of your hands?” (Ecclesiastes 5:6).

• Guards the heart from rashness; silence is safer than promises made in emotion or haste.

• Honors the principle that obedience is better than sacrifice (1 Samuel 15:22).


Reinforcing Scriptures

Numbers 30:2: “When a man makes a vow to the LORD… he must do everything he has promised.”

Deuteronomy 23:21-23: swift fulfillment required, “or you will be guilty of sin.”

Proverbs 20:25: “It is a trap for a man to dedicate something rashly, only later to reconsider his vows.”

Matthew 5:33-37: Jesus directs simple honesty—“let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes.’”

James 5:12: echoes Christ, adding that oath-breakers “fall under judgment.”


Practical Takeaways

• Speak less, listen more (Ecclesiastes 5:2); measure words in God’s presence.

• Commit only what you are ready to perform; integrity begins before the promise is made.

• If you have made a vow, keep it promptly—delayed obedience is disobedience.

• Cultivate plain, truthful speech daily; then vows become unnecessary.

• Remember every word matters to the One who hears all (Matthew 12:36).

How does Ecclesiastes 5:5 emphasize the importance of keeping vows to God?
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