How can we ensure our promises align with biblical teachings and commitments?

Holding Vows in Holy Reverence

“ It is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfill it.” (Ecclesiastes 5:5)

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God’s Unchanging Example

• Numbers 23:19 — “God is not a man, that He should lie….”

• Titus 1:2 — God “who cannot lie.”

• Hebrews 6:18 — “It is impossible for God to lie.”

God’s flawless integrity establishes the standard and shows why promises matter.

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Why Broken Promises Matter

• A vow is spoken before the living God (Deuteronomy 23:21–23).

• False or careless words invite judgment (James 5:12).

• Integrity reinforces witness (Proverbs 20:11; Matthew 5:16).

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Four Scriptural Principles for Making Promises

1. Speak plainly.

• Matthew 5:37 — “Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’”

2. Count the cost in advance.

• Luke 14:28 — Wisdom weighs resources before building.

3. Limit vows to what aligns with God’s revealed will.

• 1 John 5:14 — Confidence comes when requests match His will.

4. Commit immediately once spoken.

• Psalm 15:4 — The righteous “keeps his oath even when it hurts.”

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Practical Safeguards Before You Promise

• Pause and pray over the commitment.

• Search Scripture for related commands or principles.

• Seek counsel from mature believers (Proverbs 11:14).

• Evaluate time, finances, and abilities honestly.

• Say a clear “No” rather than a hesitant “Maybe” when uncertain.

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Living Out Kept Promises

• Record the vow and set reminders.

• Invite accountability partners.

• Prioritize fulfillment ahead of new ventures.

• Celebrate God’s faithfulness when the vow is completed (Psalm 50:14).

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Grace When We Fail

• Confess quickly and fully (1 John 1:9).

• Make restitution where possible (Numbers 5:5–7).

• Accept Christ’s cleansing and recommit to truthful speech (Psalm 51:10).