2 Samuel 11:21
Who was the one to strike Abimelech son of Jerubbesheth? Was it not a woman who dropped an upper millstone on him from the wall, so that he died in Thebez? Why did you get so close to the wall?' If so, then you are to say, 'Your servant Uriah the Hittite is dead as well.'"
Who struck Abimelech son of Jerubbesheth?

Abimelech, Gideon’s son, had seized power through murder and violence. At Thebez, a woman fatally wounded him with a millstone, and he commanded his armor-bearer to finish him so that no one could say a woman had killed him. His end displayed the shameful collapse of proud ambition and fulfilled the judgment brought upon his bloody rule.

Jdg 9:53 But a woman dropped an upper millstone on Abimelech’s head,…
Jdg 9:54 He quickly called his armor-bearer, saying…
Jdg 9:56 In this way God repaid the wickedness that Abimelech had done…

Was it not a woman who dropped an upper millstone on him from the wall,

The defenders of Thebez used what was available to resist a ruthless attacker. Abimelech’s strength, army, and royal claims could not protect him from God’s judgment delivered through an unexpected instrument.

Deu 24:6 Do not take a pair of millstones or even an upper millstone…
Mat 18:6 But if anyone causes one of these little ones…
Mrk 9:42 But if anyone causes one of these little ones…

so that he died in Thebez?

Thebez became the place where Abimelech’s violent campaign ended. David expected the account of soldiers approaching the wall to recall this well-known military disaster.

Jdg 9:55 And when the Israelites saw that Abimelech was dead,…
Jdg 9:57 And God also brought all the wickedness…

Why did you get so close to the wall?’

Approaching a fortified wall exposed soldiers to arrows, stones, and other weapons cast down by defenders. David anticipated criticism of Joab’s tactics, yet he had ordered Uriah placed where the fighting was fiercest. David used a military failure to conceal a calculated murder.

2Sa 20:16-22 a wise woman called out from the city, “Listen! Listen!”…
1Ki 20:30 The rest of them fled into the city of Aphek,…
Jos 6:20 So when the rams’ horns sounded, the people shouted.…

If he asks you this, then you are to say,

Joab instructed the messenger to reveal Uriah’s death only if David challenged the conduct of the battle. The report would assure David that his hidden purpose had been accomplished.

Gen 32:18 They belong to your servant Jacob. They are a gift,…
Gen 12:13 Please say you are my sister, so that I will be treated well…
Gen 20:13 So when God had me journey from my father’s house…

‘Your servant Uriah the Hittite is dead as well.’”

Uriah was a faithful soldier and a righteous husband, yet David treated his life as expendable to hide adultery with Bathsheba. The death of this loyal foreigner exposed the depth of David’s sin and brought consequences that would trouble his house.

2Sa 12:9 Why then have you despised the command of the LORD…
1Ki 21:19 Tell him that this is what the LORD says:…
Pro 6:17 haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed…

Persons / Places / Events
1. Abimelech
The son of Jerubbesheth (Gideon), who was killed by a woman dropping a millstone on him in Thebez, as recounted in Judges 9:53. His death serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of pride and ambition.

2. Jerubbesheth (Gideon)
A judge of Israel, known for his military leadership and faith in God. His son Abimelech's downfall is a stark contrast to Gideon's legacy.

3. Uriah the Hittite
A loyal soldier in King David's army, whose death was orchestrated by David to cover up his adultery with Bathsheba, Uriah's wife.

4. Thebez
A city where Abimelech met his demise, symbolizing the unexpected consequences of reckless actions.

5. Joab
The commander of David's army, who followed David's orders to ensure Uriah's death, highlighting the moral complexities of leadership and obedience.
Teaching Points
The Consequences of Sin
The account of Uriah's death reminds us that sin often leads to further sin, creating a cycle that can have devastating consequences.

The Importance of Accountability
David's actions demonstrate the need for accountability in leadership. Without it, even a man after God's own heart can fall into grave sin.

God's Justice and Mercy
While God is just and sin has consequences, He is also merciful and offers forgiveness to those who repent, as seen in David's later life.

The Dangers of Pride and Ambition
Abimelech's account serves as a warning against unchecked ambition and pride, which can lead to one's downfall.

The Role of Obedience
Joab's obedience to David's orders, despite their moral implications, raises questions about the limits of obedience and the importance of moral discernment.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does the account of Abimelech's death in Judges 9 relate to the events in 2 Samuel 11:21, and what lessons can we learn about the consequences of pride and ambition?

2. In what ways does David's handling of Uriah's death reflect a failure of accountability, and how can we apply this lesson to our own lives and leadership roles?

3. How does Psalm 51 provide insight into David's heart and God's response to sin, and what does this teach us about repentance and forgiveness?

4. What role does Joab play in the events of 2 Samuel 11, and how can we discern when to obey authority and when to stand up for what is right?

5. How can we ensure that our actions align with God's will, especially when faced with difficult decisions that may have significant consequences?
Connections to Other Scriptures
Judges 9:50-57
This passage recounts the account of Abimelech's death, providing context for the reference in 2 Samuel 11:21. It illustrates the theme of divine justice and the consequences of sin.

2 Samuel 12:9-10
Nathan's rebuke of David for his sin with Bathsheba and Uriah connects to the events of 2 Samuel 11, emphasizing accountability and repentance.

Psalm 51
David's psalm of repentance after his sin with Bathsheba, highlighting themes of forgiveness and restoration.
Warnings from HistoryB. Dale 2 Samuel 11:21
A Man's Weak HoursH. W. Beecher.2 Samuel 11:2-24
David and BathshebaH. Kollock, D. D.2 Samuel 11:2-24
David's Dark DaysW. J. Knox Little, M. A.2 Samuel 11:2-24
David's DownfallC. Ness.2 Samuel 11:2-24
David's FallR. E. Faulkner.2 Samuel 11:2-24
David's Great TrespassW. G. Blaikie, M. A.2 Samuel 11:2-24
Looking At a Wrong Thing PerilousA. Maclaren2 Samuel 11:2-24
Satan Ever Near the IdleJ. Trapp.2 Samuel 11:2-24
Sin, a Malicious GuestSpurgeon, Charles Haddon2 Samuel 11:2-24
Sloth and SinH. E. Stone.2 Samuel 11:2-24
Susceptibility to SinHomiletic Review2 Samuel 11:2-24
The Fall and Punishment of David IllustratedJ. Venn, M. A.2 Samuel 11:2-24
Transgression: its Progress And, ConsummationC. M. Fleury, A. M.2 Samuel 11:2-24
Watchfulness Against Riotous Appetites ImperativeE. P. Thwing.2 Samuel 11:2-24
Complicity in SinB. Dale 2 Samuel 11:16-21
People
Abimelech, Ammonites, Bathsheba, David, Eliam, Jerubbaal, Jerubbesheth, Joab, Uriah, Urijah
Places
Jerusalem, Rabbah, Thebez
Topics
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Dictionary of Bible Themes
2 Samuel 11:21

     4482   millstones

2 Samuel 11:1-27

     5714   men

2 Samuel 11:3-24

     5305   empires

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David's Fall 2Sam 11:27

John Newton—Olney Hymns

How those are to be Admonished with whom Everything Succeeds According to their Wish, and those with whom Nothing Does.
(Admonition 27.) Differently to be admonished are those who prosper in what they desire in temporal matters, and those who covet indeed the things that are of this world, but yet are wearied with the labour of adversity. For those who prosper in what they desire in temporal matters are to be admonished, when all things answer to their wishes, lest, through fixing their heart on what is given, they neglect to seek the giver; lest they love their pilgrimage instead of their country; lest they turn
Leo the Great—Writings of Leo the Great

The Sixth Commandment
Thou shalt not kill.' Exod 20: 13. In this commandment is a sin forbidden, which is murder, Thou shalt not kill,' and a duty implied, which is, to preserve our own life, and the life of others. The sin forbidden is murder: Thou shalt not kill.' Here two things are to be understood, the not injuring another, nor ourselves. I. The not injuring another. [1] We must not injure another in his name. A good name is a precious balsam.' It is a great cruelty to murder a man in his name. We injure others in
Thomas Watson—The Ten Commandments

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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