Chief Friends
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In biblical contexts, the term "chief friends" refers to individuals who hold a position of significant influence and closeness in one's life, often providing counsel, support, and companionship. The concept of friendship is deeply rooted in the Scriptures, highlighting the importance of relationships that are grounded in mutual respect, loyalty, and love.

Biblical Examples and References

1. David and Jonathan: One of the most notable examples of chief friends in the Bible is the relationship between David and Jonathan. Their friendship is characterized by a deep bond and loyalty, even in the face of political tension and personal risk. In 1 Samuel 18:1, it is written, "After David had finished speaking with Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as himself." This profound connection exemplifies the essence of chief friendship, where personal interests are set aside for the sake of the other's well-being.

2. Job's Friends: In the Book of Job, we encounter another perspective on chief friends through Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar. Initially, they come to comfort Job in his suffering, demonstrating the role of friends in times of distress. However, their subsequent dialogues reveal the complexities of friendship, as their counsel becomes misguided. Job 2:11 states, "Now when Job’s three friends heard about all this adversity that had come upon him, each of them came from his own country... They met together to go and sympathize with Job and comfort him." This narrative underscores the importance of wisdom and empathy in maintaining true friendship.

3. Jesus and His Disciples: Jesus' relationship with His disciples also reflects the concept of chief friends. In John 15:15, Jesus says, "No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not understand what his master is doing. But I have called you friends, because everything I have learned from My Father I have made known to you." Here, Jesus elevates His disciples to the status of friends, sharing with them the intimate knowledge of His mission and the Father's will. This passage highlights the transformative power of friendship in the context of spiritual growth and understanding.

Characteristics of Chief Friends

· Loyalty and Faithfulness: Chief friends are marked by unwavering loyalty and faithfulness. Proverbs 17:17 states, "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity." This verse emphasizes the steadfast nature of true friendship, which remains constant through life's challenges.

· Honesty and Counsel: True friends provide honest counsel and constructive criticism. Proverbs 27:6 notes, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful." This proverb illustrates the value of truthful advice, even when it may be difficult to hear.

· Sacrificial Love: The ultimate expression of chief friendship is sacrificial love. John 15:13 declares, "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." This principle is exemplified in the life and sacrifice of Jesus Christ, who laid down His life for humanity.

Theological Significance

From a theological perspective, chief friends serve as a reflection of God's relational nature and His desire for humanity to live in community. The friendships depicted in the Bible offer insights into the divine attributes of love, loyalty, and selflessness. They also provide a model for believers to emulate in their own relationships, fostering a sense of unity and mutual edification within the body of Christ.

In summary, the concept of chief friends in the Bible underscores the importance of deep, meaningful relationships that are characterized by loyalty, honesty, and sacrificial love. These friendships not only enrich personal lives but also serve as a testament to the relational nature of God and His desire for His people to live in harmony and support one another.
International Standard Bible Encyclopedia
Chief Friends

CHIEF FRIENDS; GOOD MEN

See CHIEF FRIENDS; GOOD, CHIEF; CHIEF.

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The Master's Friends
... He belonged to one of the chief families of the city. ... Dr. Tauler had also two faithful
friends, who, like himself, never openly left the Church of Rome. ...
/.../bevan/three friends of god/chapter xxxiv the masters friends.htm

The King, Hearing These Words, Answered, that He was Both Willing ...
... that he was both willing and bound to receive the faith which Paulinus taught; but
that he would confer about it with his chief friends and counsellors, to the ...
/.../bede/bedes ecclesiastical history of england/chap xiii the king hearing.htm

Love
... Sin makes God hide his face; it is like an incendiary, which parts chief friends;
therefore, the keenness of a Christian's hatred is set against it. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/watson/the ten commandments/1 2 love.htm

St. John Chrysostom (Ad 347-407)
... bloodshed. He, therefore took a solemn leave of his chief friends, giving
good advice and speaking words of comfort to each. He ...
/.../chapter xx st john chrysostom.htm

A Bundle of Proverbs
... An ungodly man diggeth up evil: and in his lips there is as a burning fire.28. A
froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.29. ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture g/a bundle of proverbs.htm

There were Some Bold Young Men of the Village of Dabaritta...
... when I had gotten clear of them, I sent for two of the principal men, Dassion, and
Janneus the son of Levi, persons that were among the chief friends of the ...
/.../josephus/the life of flavius josephus/section 26 there were some.htm

Grace Abounding to the Chief of Sinners.
... GRACE ABOUNDING TO THE CHIEF OF SINNERS ... though he were not worthy to go himself and
ask Christ to come to his house; so he asked some of his friends to beseech ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/moody/sovereign grace/chapter iv grace abounding to.htm

"Because the Carnal Mind is Enmity against God, for it is not ...
... There was a woful interposal between God and us, which hath separated these chief
friends ever since the beginning, and that is sin, the seeds of all enmity ...
/.../binning/the works of the rev hugh binning/sermon xx because the carnal.htm

A Caution against Bigotry
... The differences which begin in points of opinion seldom terminate there. They generally
spread into the affections, and then separate chief friends. ...
/.../wesley/sermons on several occasions/sermon 38 a caution against.htm

We Shall not be Curious in the Ranking of the Duties in which ...
... who have no other trade or occupation), to whisper into the ears of brethren, and
suggest evil apprehensions of them, they will separate chief friends, as we ...
/.../binning/the works of the rev hugh binning/chapter iv we shall not.htm

Resources
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