Divorce and Separation
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Divorce and separation are significant topics within the biblical narrative, reflecting both the sanctity of marriage and the complexities of human relationships. The Bible addresses these issues in various contexts, providing guidance and commandments that have been interpreted and applied throughout Christian history.

Old Testament Context

In the Old Testament, marriage is established as a covenantal relationship, intended to reflect the faithfulness and commitment between God and His people. The Mosaic Law addresses divorce in Deuteronomy 24:1-4, where it is permitted under specific circumstances: "If a man marries a woman but she becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, he may write her a certificate of divorce, hand it to her, and send her away from his house" . This provision was intended to protect the rights of the woman, ensuring she could remarry and be provided for.

The prophets, particularly Malachi, emphasize God's disdain for divorce, highlighting the spiritual and communal implications. Malachi 2:16 states, "For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence, says the LORD of Hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not break faith" . This underscores the belief that marriage is a sacred bond not to be broken lightly.

New Testament Teachings

In the New Testament, Jesus addresses divorce directly, reaffirming the sanctity of marriage and raising the standard for marital commitment. In Matthew 19:3-9, Jesus responds to the Pharisees' question about the legality of divorce: "Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female' and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate" . Jesus acknowledges Moses' concession for divorce due to the hardness of human hearts but emphasizes that it was not so from the beginning.

Jesus permits divorce only in the case of sexual immorality, as stated in Matthew 19:9: "And I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery" . This teaching highlights the gravity of marital vows and the limited grounds for divorce.

The Apostle Paul also addresses marriage and separation in his epistles. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Paul advises married couples: "To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife" . Paul acknowledges the challenges within marriage but encourages reconciliation and perseverance.

Theological Implications

The biblical teachings on divorce and separation reflect the broader theological themes of covenant, faithfulness, and redemption. Marriage is seen as a reflection of God's covenant with His people, characterized by steadfast love and commitment. The allowance for divorce, though present, is viewed as a concession to human weakness and sinfulness, rather than an ideal.

Throughout Scripture, the emphasis is on the restoration and healing of relationships, mirroring the redemptive work of Christ. The call to faithfulness in marriage serves as a testament to the faithfulness of God, who remains committed to His people despite their failings.

Pastoral Considerations

In pastoral care, the church is called to uphold the biblical teachings on marriage while extending grace and support to those experiencing marital difficulties. Divorce and separation are recognized as painful realities that require compassion, understanding, and guidance. The church seeks to provide a community of support, encouraging reconciliation where possible and offering healing and hope to those affected by broken relationships.
Topical Bible Verses
Malachi 2:16
For the LORD, the God of Israel, said that he hates putting away: for one covers violence with his garment, said the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that you deal not treacherously.
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1 Corinthians 7:15
But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God has called us to peace.
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Matthew 19:3-9
The Pharisees also came to him, tempting him, and saying to him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
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Matthew 5:32
But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery.
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Matthew 19:6
Why they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder.
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1 Corinthians 7:10-16
And to the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
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Matthew 5:31
It has been said, Whoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorce:
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Matthew 5:31-32
It has been said, Whoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorce:
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Deuteronomy 24:1-4
When a man has taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he has found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorce, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
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Mark 10:2-12
And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.
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Greek
3080. lusis -- a loosing (by divorce)
... a release, separation. From luo; a loosening, ie (specially), divorce -- to be loosed.
see GREEK luo. (lusin) -- 1 Occurrence. 3079, 3080. lusis. 3081 . ...
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The Sacrament of Marriage; Marriage Indissoluble; the World's Law ...
... [2092] For this is preserved in the case of Christ and the Church; so that, as a
living one with a living one, there is no divorce, no separation for ever. ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 11 x the sacrament of.htm

General Index
... 403 Divorce or separation in marriage . . . . . 284
Doubt of Thomas the Apostle . . . . . ...
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From Examples Tertullian Passes to Direct Dogmatic Teachings He ...
... separate by divorce, it is equally congruous that those whom God has separated by
death man is not to conjoin by marriage; the joining of the separation will ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter ix from examples tertullian passes.htm

His Decision on the Question of Divorce. --Celibacy. (Matt. , xix,
... this bear upon the Mosaic law, which admits of divorce?" He replied ... indissolubility
appeared so hard, and the responsibility (if every separation were adultery ...
/.../section 224 his decision on.htm

An Explanation that we May not Appear to Recommend Separation from ...
... that we may not appear to recommend separation from wives. But let no one imagine
that we have invented this for the sake of encouraging divorce, as we not ...
/.../cassian/the conferences of john cassian/chapter x an explanation that.htm

Whether it is Lawful for a Husband to Put Away his Wife on Account ...
... Therefore it ought to have been a cause of separation rather than fornication ... in
the state of unbelief, the husband has given his wife a bill of divorce and she ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether it is lawful for 22.htm

Whether the Husband Can on his Own Judgment Put Away his Wife on ...
... is no parallel, because then the sentence at law was not only divorce but also ... First,
he may seek a separation from bed before a spiritual judge, and then ...
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But I Marvel, If, as it is Allowed to Put Away a Wife Who...
... that the compact of marriage is not done away by divorce intervening; so that they
continue wedded persons one to another, even after separation; and commit ...
/.../augustine/on the good of marriage/section 7 but i marvel.htm

Mothers, Daughters, and Wives in Israel
... In case of separation (not divorce) he was bound to allow her a proper aliment,
and to re-admit her to his table and house on the Sabbath-eve. ...
/.../edersheim/sketches of jewish social life/chapter 9 mothers daughters and.htm

The Call of Levi the Publican Christ in Relation to the Baptist. ...
... no one does he baptize but a c??lebs or a eunuch; until death or divorce does he ... His
own [3845] ought not to have been branded [3846] as a separation [3847] of ...
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Resources
I am in the process of getting a divorce. Can I start dating, or do I have to wait until the divorce is final? | GotQuestions.org

What are biblical grounds for divorce? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? | GotQuestions.org

Divorce: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Divorce

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Divorce in the Old Testament

Divorce of Captives, Regulated by Law

Divorce of Servants, Regulated by Law

Divorce: Disobedience of the Wife to the Husband, a Sufficient Cause For, in the Persian Empire

Divorce: Figurative

Divorce: Forbidden by Christ Except for Adultery

Divorce: Forced on Those Who had Idolatrous Wives

Divorce: General Scriptures Concerning

Divorce: Illustrative of God's Casting off of the Jewish Church

Divorce: Jews Condemned for Love of

Divorce: Law of Marriage Against

Divorce: Not Allowed to Those Who Falsely Accused Their Wives

Divorce: Often Sought by the Jews

Divorce: Permitted by the Mosaic Law

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Divorce: Priests not to Marry Women After

Divorce: Prohibition of, offended the Jews

Divorce: Sought on Slight Grounds

Divorce: Women: Afflicted By

Divorce: Women: Could Marry After

Divorce: Women: Could Obtain

Divorce: Women: Married After, Could not Return to First Husband

Divorce: Women: Responsible for Vows After

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Bill (9 Occurrences)

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Written (323 Occurrences)

Notice (44 Occurrences)

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Law (670 Occurrences)

Taste (46 Occurrences)

Malachi (2 Occurrences)

Marriage (74 Occurrences)

Test (105 Occurrences)

Testing (46 Occurrences)

Divorced (10 Occurrences)

Command (442 Occurrences)

Asking (111 Occurrences)

Lawful (38 Occurrences)

Letter (112 Occurrences)

Question (153 Occurrences)

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Family (438 Occurrences)

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Messenger (235 Occurrences)

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Code (6 Occurrences)

Unseemly (9 Occurrences)

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Whether (239 Occurrences)

Whenever (123 Occurrences)

Turns (80 Occurrences)

Tiberius (1 Occurrence)

Repudiate (1 Occurrence)

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Divisive (1 Occurrence)

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Departs (16 Occurrences)

Displeasing (31 Occurrences)

Dislikes (3 Occurrences)

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Presently (25 Occurrences)

Permitted (31 Occurrences)

Proof (38 Occurrences)

Party (47 Occurrences)

Backsliding (19 Occurrences)

Beginning (187 Occurrences)

Bracelet (5 Occurrences)

Chooses (36 Occurrences)

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Committeth (22 Occurrences)

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Asunder (37 Occurrences)

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Seduce (8 Occurrences)

Sends (94 Occurrences)

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Separation (50 Occurrences)

Treacherous (34 Occurrences)

Happens (32 Occurrences)

Draw (212 Occurrences)

Latter (91 Occurrences)

Reason (438 Occurrences)

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Whereby (46 Occurrences)

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Treacherously (42 Occurrences)

Fornication (52 Occurrences)

Roll (57 Occurrences)

Nakedness (50 Occurrences)

Faithless (46 Occurrences)

Favour (171 Occurrences)

Dieth (192 Occurrences)

Prostitute (83 Occurrences)

Old (3966 Occurrences)

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