Divorce: Sought on Slight Grounds
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In the biblical context, divorce is a subject that is addressed with gravity and seriousness. The Scriptures provide guidance on the sanctity of marriage and the conditions under which divorce may be considered. The issue of seeking divorce on slight or trivial grounds is addressed in both the Old and New Testaments, reflecting the importance of marriage as a covenantal relationship instituted by God.

Old Testament Context

The Mosaic Law provided regulations concerning divorce, primarily to protect the rights and dignity of individuals within the marriage covenant. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 outlines the procedure for divorce, stating, "If a man marries a woman but she becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, he may write her a certificate of divorce, hand it to her, and send her away from his house." The term "something indecent" has been the subject of much interpretation, but it suggests a serious breach of marital fidelity or conduct, rather than trivial matters.

The prophets also spoke against the casual treatment of divorce. Malachi 2:16 declares, "For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence, says the LORD of Hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not break faith." This passage underscores the divine disapproval of divorce, especially when sought for insubstantial reasons, and emphasizes the need for faithfulness and integrity in marriage.

New Testament Teachings

In the New Testament, Jesus addresses the issue of divorce directly, reinforcing the sanctity of marriage and condemning the practice of seeking divorce on slight grounds. In Matthew 19:3-9, the Pharisees question Jesus about the legality of divorce for any reason. Jesus responds by pointing back to the creation narrative, stating, "Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female' and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

Jesus further clarifies that divorce was permitted by Moses due to the hardness of human hearts, but it was not intended from the beginning. He states, "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery." This teaching highlights that divorce should not be pursued for trivial reasons but is permissible only in cases of serious marital unfaithfulness.

Apostolic Guidance

The Apostle Paul also provides guidance on marriage and divorce in his epistles. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Paul writes, "To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." Paul emphasizes reconciliation and the permanence of marriage, discouraging separation and divorce except under grave circumstances.

Cultural and Historical Considerations

In the cultural context of the biblical era, marriage was a foundational institution, and divorce was not taken lightly. The Jewish community, particularly during the time of Jesus, had varying interpretations of the grounds for divorce, with some schools of thought allowing for divorce on relatively minor issues. Jesus' teachings challenged these interpretations, calling for a return to the original intent of marriage as a lifelong covenant.

The biblical perspective on divorce, especially when sought on slight grounds, reflects a deep respect for the marriage covenant and a call to uphold its sanctity. The Scriptures consistently advocate for commitment, reconciliation, and the resolution of conflicts within the marriage relationship, reserving divorce for situations of significant breach of trust or moral failure.
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Matthew 5:31
It has been said, Whoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorce:
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Matthew 19:3
The Pharisees also came to him, tempting him, and saying to him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
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On the Journey to Jerusalem - Departure from Ephraim by Way of ...
... In the one case, the benefit sought was the object ... an anti-climax giving permission
of divorce if another ... The same story is related, with slight alterations, in ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter xxii on the journey.htm

Jesus Sets Out from Jud??a for Galilee.
... to have said that a man might properly divorce his wife if ... her own sins may have,
in some slight measure, prompted ... by such a feeling, this woman sought to have ...
/.../mcgarvey/the four-fold gospel/xxvi jesus sets out from 2.htm

English Congregational Creeds.
... This is a slight modification of the Westminster Confession ... XXV.), 'Of Marriage and
Divorce,' and XXVI ... more weight to my statements, I have sought the assistance ...
/.../ 102 english congregational creeds.htm

Papal Tombs.
... of foreign universities respecting his divorce from Catherine ... for an age in which
statues were sought, not as ... injuries wrought by time are slight, and confined ...
/.../lanciani/pagan and christian rome/chapter v papal tombs.htm

Doctrinal and Moral Treatises. Index of Subjects.
... Barrenness, does not make divorce lawful, [493]402, [494 ... 542, [621]543, [622]550;
to slight, irreligious, [623 ... 943]383; forbears excuses, [944]384, sought of God ...
/.../on care to be had for the dead /doctrinal and moral treatises index.htm

Essay
... But they soon contrived a slight garment as for a ... God made man upright: but they
have sought out many ... to our Lord with a question about divorce, they being ...
/.../an essay on the mosaic account of the creation and fall of man/essay.htm

The First Epistle of St. Peter
... already outlined; now, after the slight digression in 19 ... charges were considered
and evidence sought for the ... Martyr) was obliged eventually to divorce her pagan ...
/.../moffat/the general epistles james peter and judas/the first epistle of st.htm

Disestablishment
... should be made, because, as capital sought investment, in ... writ of error, and in some
matters of divorce. ... seems to have been taken with slight alteration from ...
/.../chapter xv disestablishment.htm

Period I: the Imperial State Church of the Undivided Empire, or ...
... party appeared to understand distinctly the grounds on which ... their association with
the Donatists was at first slight. ... say that the military was sought by us ...
/.../ayer/a source book for ancient church history/period i the imperial state.htm

Period iv. The Age of the Consolidation of the Church: 200 to 324 ...
... in the case of a man who under slight torture had ... was mindful of the Christians;
for he sought out the ... of the Church regarding remarriage after divorce was as ...
/.../ayer/a source book for ancient church history/period iv the age of.htm

Resources
Is remarriage after divorce always adultery? | GotQuestions.org

Does the Bible say that abandonment is a valid reason for divorce and remarriage? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about remarriage if a divorce occurred before salvation? | GotQuestions.org

Divorce: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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