Divorce: Forbidden by Christ Except for Adultery
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In the teachings of Jesus Christ, divorce is addressed with a clear emphasis on the sanctity and permanence of marriage. The Gospels record Christ's teachings on this subject, highlighting the divine intention for marriage and the limited grounds upon which divorce is permissible.

Biblical Foundation

The foundational text for understanding Christ's teaching on divorce is found in the Gospel of Matthew. In Matthew 19:3-9 , the Pharisees approach Jesus with a question about the legality of divorce: "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?" Jesus responds by referring to the creation narrative, emphasizing that marriage is a divine institution: "Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

Jesus further clarifies the conditions under which divorce is permissible, stating in Matthew 19:9 , "And I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery." This passage underscores that the only exception to the prohibition of divorce is "sexual immorality," often understood as adultery.

Contextual Understanding

The context of Jesus' teaching is crucial for understanding its implications. In the first-century Jewish context, divorce was relatively common and could be initiated by a husband for various reasons. Jesus' teaching challenges this practice by reaffirming the original intent of marriage as a lifelong covenant. By restricting the grounds for divorce to cases of sexual immorality, Jesus elevates the standard of marital fidelity and underscores the seriousness of the marriage bond.

Theological Implications

From a theological perspective, Christ's teaching on divorce reflects the covenantal nature of marriage. Marriage is not merely a social contract but a sacred covenant that mirrors the relationship between Christ and the Church. Ephesians 5:31-32 echoes this sentiment: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church."

The allowance for divorce in the case of adultery acknowledges the severe breach of trust and covenant that sexual immorality represents. However, even in such cases, the emphasis remains on reconciliation and forgiveness, reflecting the redemptive nature of Christ's ministry.

Pastoral Considerations

In pastoral care, the teachings of Christ on divorce call for a compassionate and discerning approach. While upholding the sanctity of marriage, pastors and church leaders are called to support individuals and couples in navigating the complexities of marital relationships. The church is tasked with providing guidance, counseling, and support to those affected by marital breakdown, always pointing towards healing and restoration.

Conclusion

Christ's teaching on divorce, as recorded in the Gospels, presents a high view of marriage as a divine institution intended to be lifelong and exclusive. By allowing divorce only in cases of adultery, Jesus underscores the seriousness of the marriage covenant and calls His followers to a standard of fidelity and commitment that reflects the love and faithfulness of God Himself.
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Matthew 5:32
But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery.
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Matthew 19:9
And I say to you, Whoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery: and whoever marries her which is put away does commit adultery.
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On the Journey to Jerusalem - Departure from Ephraim by Way of ...
... no real comparison is possible between Christ and even ... another, was adultery, because,
as the divorce was null ... the Rabbinic Law would also have forbidden it. ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter xxii on the journey.htm

Whether the New Law Fulfils the Old?
... Now Christ fulfilled the precepts of the Old Law both ... delay, so that excessive eagerness
for divorce might cease ... Reply to Objection 3: It was forbidden by the ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether the new law fulfils.htm

The Sermon on the Mount.
... But the laws of the kingdom of Christ are given ... ourselves by absolutely refusing
to go to forbidden resorts, etc ... an adulteress [the mere fact of divorce did not ...
/.../mcgarvey/the four-fold gospel/xlii the sermon on the 4.htm

Mothers, Daughters, and Wives in Israel
... were extended over the whole line of forbidden kindred, where ... he had brought her
letter of divorce, or in ... was evidently customary at the time of Christ (Mark 12 ...
/.../edersheim/sketches of jewish social life/chapter 9 mothers daughters and.htm

V. ...
... virtue of the declaration, "The Church has forbidden it." Holiness ... give his wife
a bill of divorce and put ... make the offer of His grace except through Christ. ...
/.../the epistles of st peter and st jude preached and explained/chapter i v .htm

Index of Subjects.
... 499; insatiable, [428]499; miserable, [429]500; forbidden even in ... 505]81; intimated
in words of Christ, [506]95 ... Divorce, why allowed to the Jews, [539]119; why ...
/.../chrysostom/homilies on the gospel of saint matthew/index of subjects.htm

The Domestic Relation.
... Divorce. ... Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to ... attention
somewhere else, but, no, he keeps his eye on the forbidden object and ...
/.../orr/the gospel day /chapter xiii the domestic relation.htm

The Women of the Gospel Narrative the Study of the Early Christian ...
... would be a 'burden.' Women were also forbidden to look in ... on a far higher basis and
restricted divorce to its ... the priests in their designs on Christ's life was ...
/.../brittain/women of early christianity/i the women of the.htm

Formula Concordi??.
... this, nevertheless, is not to be understood except of the ... condemn that dogma that
faith in Christ is not ... Spirit, even though they fall into adultery or other ...
/.../schaff/the creeds of the evangelical protestant churches/formula concordiae.htm

Post-Nicene Mothers
... on the other side is marriage, not forbidden, but merely ... Jerome's defence of her
divorce shows such liberality of ... it is true, from the laws of Christ.... ...
/.../brittain/women of early christianity/v post-nicene mothers.htm

Resources
Is remarriage after divorce always adultery? | GotQuestions.org

Does the Bible say that abandonment is a valid reason for divorce and remarriage? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about remarriage if a divorce occurred before salvation? | GotQuestions.org

Divorce: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Divorce: Forbidden by Christ Except for Adultery

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Divorce: General Scriptures Concerning

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Divorce: Jews Condemned for Love of

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