Grieving
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Grieving is a profound emotional response to loss, particularly the death of a loved one. It is a natural part of the human experience and is addressed in various ways throughout the Bible. Scripture provides both examples of grieving individuals and divine guidance on how to navigate this challenging aspect of life.

Biblical Examples of Grieving:

1. Job: The Book of Job offers a detailed account of a man who experienced intense grief. Job lost his children, wealth, and health, prompting a deep period of mourning. Job 1:20-21 describes his initial reaction: "Then Job stood up, tore his robe, and shaved his head. He fell to the ground and worshiped, saying: 'Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will return. The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name of the LORD.'"

2. David: King David experienced grief on multiple occasions, notably at the death of his son Absalom. In 2 Samuel 18:33 , David's sorrow is palpable: "The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. As he went, he cried out, 'O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you—O Absalom, my son, my son!'"

3. Jesus: In the New Testament, Jesus Himself grieved. John 11:35 simply states, "Jesus wept," as He mourned the death of His friend Lazarus, demonstrating His empathy and compassion.

Scriptural Guidance on Grieving:

1. Comfort from God: The Bible assures believers that God is a source of comfort in times of grief. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 states, "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God."

2. Hope in Resurrection: For Christians, the hope of resurrection provides solace in grief. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 encourages believers not to grieve like those without hope: "Brothers, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you will not grieve like the rest, who are without hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, we also believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in Him."

3. Community Support: The Bible emphasizes the importance of community in times of mourning. Romans 12:15 instructs, "Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep." This highlights the role of the Christian community in sharing both joy and sorrow.

4. Healing Over Time: Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4 acknowledges that there is "a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance." This passage suggests that grieving is a season that, while painful, will eventually give way to healing and joy.

Expressions of Grief:

Grieving in the Bible often involves physical expressions such as tearing one's clothes, wearing sackcloth, and fasting. These acts symbolize the depth of sorrow and the desire for divine intervention. For instance, in Esther 4:1 , Mordecai's response to the edict against the Jews is described: "When Mordecai learned of all that had been done, he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and ashes, and went out into the city, wailing loudly and bitterly."

Conclusion:

Grieving is a deeply personal and spiritual journey. The Bible provides numerous examples and teachings that offer comfort, hope, and guidance to those who mourn, emphasizing God's presence and the support of the faith community during times of loss.
Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary
1. (p. pr. & vb. n.) of Grieve.

2. (a.) Sad; sorrowful; causing grief.

3. (n.) The act of causing grief; the state of being grieved.

Greek
3076. lupeo -- to distress, to grieve
... to distress, to grieve NASB Word Usage cause...sorrow (1), caused...sorrow (2),
caused sorrow (2), distressed (1), grieve (3), grieved (7), grieving (2), hurt ...
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3600. odunao -- to cause or suffer pain
... Word Origin from odune Definition to cause or suffer pain NASB Word Usage agony
(1), am in agony (1), anxiously (1), grieving (1). sorrow, torment. ...
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Strong's Hebrew
3510. kaab -- to be in pain
... grieving, mar, have pain, make sad sore, be sorrowful. A primitive root; properly,
to feel pain; by implication, to grieve; figuratively ...
/hebrew/3510.htm - 6k

5110. nud -- to move to and fro, wander, flutter, show grief
... move to and fro, wander, flutter, show grief NASB Word Usage console (1), consoled
(1), drive away (1), flee (2), flitting (1), grieve (1), grieving (1), mourn ...
/hebrew/5110.htm - 6k

Library

Grieving the Spirit
... EPHESIANS GRIEVING THE SPIRIT. 'Grieve not the Holy Spirit of God, whereby
ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.'"Ephesians 4:30. ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture ephesians peter/grieving the spirit.htm

Grieving the Holy Spirit
... Grieving the Holy Spirit. A Sermon (No.278). Delivered on Sabbath Morning, October
9th, 1859, by the. REV. CH SPURGEON. at the Music Hall, Royal Surrey Gardens. ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 5 1859/grieving the holy spirit.htm

Hence it Is, that Grieving, Quenching, or Resisting the Spirit...
... Address 39: Hence it is, that grieving, quenching, or resisting the Spirit?
Hence it is, that grieving, quenching, or resisting ...
/.../address 39 0 0 hence it is.htm

Commandment Tenth. Of Grief, and not Grieving the Spirit of God ...
... The Pastor: Book Second."Commandments. Commandment Tenth. Of Grief, and
Not Grieving the Spirit of God Which is in Us. Chap. I. ...
/.../pastor/the pastor books first second third/commandment tenth of grief and.htm

On Grieving the Holy Spirit
... Fifth Series Sermon 138 On Grieving the Holy Spirit. "Grieve not the Holy Spirit
of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption." Eph.4:30. ...
/.../wesley/sermons on several occasions/sermon 138 on grieving the.htm

Letters Describing the Experience Preceding Death
... be restored to her by the sword, nor by cruelty or war, but by peace, and humble
continual prayers, tears and sweats, poured forth from the grieving desires of ...
/.../letters of catherine benincasa/letters describing the experience preceding.htm

The Spirit of Supplication
... pray, is praying, in us. The second lesson is: Beware above everything of
grieving the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:30). If you do, how ...
/.../murray/the ministry of intercession/chapter x the spirit of.htm

Power Hindered.
... Because you perhaps have heard some one say that there is such a thing as grieving
the Spirit of God, and resisting the Spirit of God until He has taken His ...
//christianbookshelf.org/moody/secret power/chapter v power hindered.htm

The Hindrances to Mourning
... In true mourning there must be a grieving for sin. But how can a man grieve for
that sin which his heart is in love with? ... Take heed of grieving the Spirit. ...
/.../the beatitudes an exposition of matthew 51-12/9 the hindrances to mourning.htm

How Contempt of Himself Can be Produced in a Man, and How Useful ...
... For in truth he who is really penitent and grieving before God hates to be honoured
and loved by all, and does not try to manipulate things so as to avoid ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/albert/on cleaving to god/chapter 15 how contempt of.htm

Thesaurus
Grieving (12 Occurrences)
... Multi-Version Concordance Grieving (12 Occurrences). ... Mark 16:10 She went and brought
word to those that had been with him, who were grieving and weeping. (DBY). ...
/g/grieving.htm - 10k

Enriched (13 Occurrences)
... Revelation 18:15 The merchants of these things, who had been enriched through her,
shall stand afar off through fear of her torment, weeping and grieving, (DBY ...
/e/enriched.htm - 10k

Lie (291 Occurrences)
... remain for a longer or shorter time; to be in a certain state or condition; as,
to lie waste; to lie fallow; to lie open; to lie hid; to lie grieving; to lie ...
/l/lie.htm - 48k

Grievingly (1 Occurrence)

/g/grievingly.htm - 6k

Grievance (7 Occurrences)
... injustice, tyranny, etc.; injury. 2. (vt) Grieving; grief; affliction. Int.
Standard Bible Encyclopedia. GRIEVANCE. grev'-ans (`amal ...
/g/grievance.htm - 10k

Grieveth (5 Occurrences)

/g/grieveth.htm - 7k

Weeping (237 Occurrences)
... 1. (p. pr. & vb. n.) of Weep. 2. (n.) The act of one who weeps; lamentation with
tears; shedding of tears. 3. (a.) Grieving; lamenting; shedding tears. ...
/w/weeping.htm - 37k

Relationships (1 Occurrence)
... 44:20), pitying (Psalm 103:13), and blessing his household (Genesis 27:41), rejoicing
over its triumphs (Proverbs 10:1; Proverbs 15:20), or grieving over its ...
/r/relationships.htm - 38k

Mourning (85 Occurrences)
... 3. (n.) Garb, drapery, or emblems indicative of grief, esp. clothing or a badge
of somber black. 4. (a.) Grieving; sorrowing; lamenting. ...
/m/mourning.htm - 34k

Mournful (3 Occurrences)
... Noah Webster's Dictionary (a.) Full of sorrow; expressing, or intended to express,
sorrow; mourning; grieving; sad; also, causing sorrow; saddening; grievous ...
/m/mournful.htm - 7k

Resources
How can I overcome grieving the loss of a pet? | GotQuestions.org

What sort of condolences should a Christian give someone who is hurting after the death of a loved one? | GotQuestions.org

How should I respond to unrequited love? | GotQuestions.org

Grieving: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Grieving (12 Occurrences)

Matthew 19:22
But when the young man heard the saying, he went away sad, for he was one who had great possessions.
(See NAS)

Mark 10:22
But his face fell at that saying, and he went away sorrowful, for he was one who had great possessions.
(See NAS)

Mark 16:10
She went and brought word to those that had been with him, who were grieving and weeping.
(DBY)

Acts 20:38
sorrowing most of all because of the word which he had spoken, that they should see his face no more. And they accompanied him to the ship.
(See NAS)

Ephesians 4:30
And beware of grieving the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you have been sealed in preparation for the day of Redemption.
(WEY)

Revelation 18:15
The merchants of these things, who had been enriched through her, shall stand afar off through fear of her torment, weeping and grieving,
(DBY)

Revelation 18:19
and cast dust upon their heads, and cried, weeping and grieving, saying, Woe, woe, the great city, in which all that had ships in the sea were enriched through her costliness! for in one hour she has been made desolate.
(DBY)

2 Samuel 14:2
And Joab sent to Tekoa and got from there a wise woman, and said to her, Now make yourself seem like one given up to grief, and put on the clothing of sorrow, not using any sweet oil for your body, but looking like one who for a long time has been weeping for the dead:
(See NIV)

2 Samuel 19:2
And the victory that day was turned into mourning unto all the people; for the people heard say that day: 'The king grieveth for his son.'
(See RSV NIV)

Jeremiah 31:18
Certainly Ephraim's words of grief have come to my ears, You have given me training and I have undergone it like a young cow unused to the yoke: let me be turned and come back, for you are the Lord my God.
(See NAS)

Ezekiel 28:24
And there shall be no more a pricking brier unto the house of Israel, nor any grieving thorn of all that are round about them, that despised them; and they shall know that I am the Lord GOD.
(KJV DBY WBS)

Joel 1:8
Make sounds of grief like a virgin dressed in haircloth for the husband of her early years.
(See NIV)

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