Mourning: Laying the Hand on the Head
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In the cultural and religious context of the Bible, mourning is a profound expression of grief and sorrow, often marked by specific physical gestures and rituals. One such gesture is the laying of the hand on the head, a symbolic act that conveys deep personal loss and lamentation.

Biblical Instances and Symbolism

The act of laying the hand on the head is mentioned in several biblical passages as a sign of mourning and distress. This gesture is deeply rooted in the ancient Near Eastern customs, where physical expressions of grief were integral to the mourning process. The laying of the hand on the head signifies a personal acknowledgment of loss and an outward manifestation of inner turmoil.

In 2 Samuel 13:19, Tamar, after being violated by her brother Amnon, "put ashes on her head and tore the robe she was wearing. She put her hand on her head and went away, crying aloud as she went." . This poignant scene illustrates the depth of Tamar's anguish and the cultural practice of expressing such sorrow through physical gestures. The act of placing her hand on her head underscores her personal devastation and the public acknowledgment of her grief.

Cultural and Religious Context

In the ancient world, mourning was not only a personal experience but also a communal one. The physical expressions of grief, such as tearing one's clothes, wearing sackcloth, and placing ashes on the head, were often accompanied by wailing and lamentation. The laying of the hand on the head fits within this broader context of mourning rituals, serving as a visible sign of one's emotional state.

The gesture can also be seen as an act of humility and submission before God, acknowledging human frailty and the inevitability of suffering and death. In the biblical worldview, mourning is not merely an expression of despair but also an opportunity to seek comfort and hope in God's promises.

Theological Implications

From a theological perspective, the act of mourning, including the laying of the hand on the head, reflects the brokenness of the world due to sin and the resultant suffering. It serves as a reminder of the need for redemption and the hope of restoration through God's intervention. Mourning, in this sense, becomes a form of lament that turns the mourner's heart towards God, seeking solace and understanding in His presence.

The Bible acknowledges the reality of grief and provides a framework for expressing it, while also pointing towards the ultimate hope found in God's redemptive plan. The physical gestures associated with mourning, such as laying the hand on the head, are thus imbued with spiritual significance, offering a way for believers to process their sorrow in light of their faith.

Conclusion

While the Bible does not prescribe specific mourning rituals for believers today, the principles underlying these ancient practices remain relevant. The act of laying the hand on the head, as a symbol of mourning, invites reflection on the nature of grief, the communal aspects of lament, and the hope that believers have in Christ. Through understanding these expressions of sorrow, Christians are encouraged to support one another in times of loss and to find comfort in the promises of God.
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2 Samuel 13:19
And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colors that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying.
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Jeremiah 2:37
Yes, you shall go forth from him, and your hands on your head: for the LORD has rejected your confidences, and you shall not prosper in them.
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Joseph --The Savior of his People.
... and the old man gave them his blessing, laying his right ... of Ephraim, the youngest,
and his left hand on that ... when he died, and there was great mourning for him ...
/.../lathbury/childs story of the bible/chapter viii josephthe savior of.htm

The Joy-Bringer
... of Nazareth Jesus began His ministry by laying His hand ... for ashes, the oil of joy
for mourning, the garment ... there comes One who, with gentle hand, smoothes the ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture h/the joy-bringer.htm

Expatriation
... "Stay," Kenkenes said, laying his hand ... not and offend him, he hath a heavy and a
vengeful hand.". ... He repaired to the inn, a house of mourning, also, and awaited ...
//christianbookshelf.org/miller/the yoke/chapter xlii expatriation.htm

Psalm LXXXVI.
... He giveth His hand: in giving His hand, He giveth His ... who was furiously mad against
thee, laying aside his ... let your laughter be turned to mourning." [4022] Ye ...
/.../augustine/exposition on the book of psalms/psalm lxxxvi.htm

A Lecture for Little-Faith
... little faith is in itself a dangerous thing, laying us open to ... should the children
of a King go mourning all their ... When his left hand is under my head, and his ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 4 1858/a lecture for little-faith.htm

Meanwhile, Unconscious of the Miracle his Prayer had Wrought...
... to receive his benediction, which he gave by laying a hand ... and lives now for his
memory, ever mourning his loss. ... head, and put her sceptre in the hand of every ...
/.../corelli/the master-christian/vii meanwhile unconscious of the.htm

On the Words, and Rose Again from the Dead on the Third Day, and ...
... Let mourning be turned into gladness, and lamentation to joy: and ... Heaven, and sat
down on the right hand of the ... It in themselves, but also, by the laying on of ...
/.../cyril/lectures of s cyril of jerusalem/lecture xiv on the words.htm

The Prophetic Theme. Rev. Gervase Smith.
... among "the schools of the prophets;" and laying his hand ... to their windows?" There
is a storm at hand: the people ... light, and the days of thy mourning shall be ...
/.../the wesleyan methodist pulpit in malvern/the prophetic theme rev gervase.htm

The Healing of the Woman - Christ's Personal Appearance - the ...
... conviction on the part of Jairus, that the laying on of ... expression they went out
with a high hand' [2954] by ... dress, it need not be rent in mourning, [2971] and ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter xxvi the healing of.htm

God.
... had horns coming out of his hand, and there ... hands across, guiding them wittingly
and laying the chiefest ... than laughter, and the house of mourning better than ...
//christianbookshelf.org/bunyan/the riches of bunyan/i god.htm

Resources
What is the meaning of sackcloth and ashes? | GotQuestions.org

What is a garment of praise (Isaiah 61:3)? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about overcoming grief? | GotQuestions.org

Mourning: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Baldness (11 Occurrences)

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Wailing (44 Occurrences)

Sackcloth (47 Occurrences)

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Barefoot (7 Occurrences)

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Comforted (56 Occurrences)

Ashes (44 Occurrences)

Mourned (54 Occurrences)

Weeping (237 Occurrences)

Bitterness (37 Occurrences)

Lamenting (8 Occurrences)

Weed (3 Occurrences)

Wanton (20 Occurrences)

Waxed (57 Occurrences)

Inhabitant (54 Occurrences)

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Fetched (26 Occurrences)

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Everyone's (8 Occurrences)

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Mizraim (5 Occurrences)

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Played (50 Occurrences)

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Soever (24 Occurrences)

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