Woman: Unfaithfulness of, when Married Found out by the Waters of
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In the biblical context, the issue of a married woman's unfaithfulness is addressed in the Book of Numbers, specifically through the ritual of the "waters of bitterness" or "bitter water that brings a curse." This ritual is a unique and solemn procedure outlined in the Mosaic Law, intended to determine the fidelity of a wife accused of adultery when there is no direct evidence to confirm the accusation.

Biblical Reference:

The primary scriptural reference for this ritual is found in Numbers 5:11-31. The passage details the process by which a husband, suspecting his wife of infidelity, brings her before the priest. The text states:

"If a man's wife goes astray and is unfaithful to him by sleeping with another man, and this is hidden from her husband and her impurity is undetected, since there is no witness against her and she has not been caught in the act, and if feelings of jealousy come over her husband and he suspects his wife and she is impure—or if he is jealous and suspects her even though she is not impure—then he is to take his wife to the priest." (Numbers 5:12-15)

The Ritual Process:

1. Presentation to the Priest: The husband brings his wife to the priest along with an offering of barley flour, which is described as a "jealousy offering" (Numbers 5:15).

2. Preparation of the Bitter Water: The priest prepares a mixture of holy water and dust from the tabernacle floor, creating the "bitter water that brings a curse" (Numbers 5:17).

3. Oath and Curse: The priest makes the woman stand before the LORD and administers an oath. He pronounces a curse that, if she is guilty, the water will cause her abdomen to swell and her thigh to waste away. The woman is required to say, "Amen, Amen" (Numbers 5:21-22).

4. Drinking the Water: The woman drinks the bitter water. If she is guilty, the curse takes effect, and she becomes a curse among her people. If she is innocent, she will be unharmed and will be able to bear children (Numbers 5:27-28).

Theological and Cultural Context:

This ritual underscores the seriousness with which marital fidelity is regarded in the biblical tradition. It reflects the patriarchal structure of ancient Israelite society, where the husband's suspicions could lead to a public and religious examination of the wife's conduct. The ritual serves both as a means of divine judgment and as a deterrent against infidelity.

Theologically, the ritual emphasizes the holiness and justice of God, who is seen as the ultimate arbiter of truth and righteousness. It also highlights the importance of purity within the covenant community, as marital unfaithfulness is viewed as a breach not only of personal trust but also of the covenantal relationship with God.

Implications for Marriage:

The passage illustrates the gravity of the marriage covenant and the expectation of faithfulness within it. It serves as a reminder of the sanctity of marriage and the moral and spiritual responsibilities that accompany it. The ritual of the bitter water, while specific to the cultural and religious context of ancient Israel, reflects broader biblical themes of justice, truth, and the pursuit of holiness in personal relationships.
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Numbers 5:14-28
And the spirit of jealousy come on him, and he be jealous of his wife, and she be defiled: or if the spirit of jealousy come on him, and he be jealous of his wife, and she be not defiled:
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Letter Lxvi. To Pammachius.
... once she had entered upon the married state, her ... of want become an occasion of
unfaithfulness, and so ... a Moabitess [1965] she shall become an Israelitish woman. ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter lxvi to pammachius.htm

Book Nine the End of the Autobiography. ...
... control the wine; but when you are married and mistresses ... thou not bring forth from
another woman's soul a ... she had no cause to complain of unfaithfulness in him ...
/.../augustine/confessions and enchiridion/book nine the end of.htm

Godly Fear and Its Goodly Consequence
... not a less sacred thing to be the married wife than ... He trembled to impute wrong or
unfaithfulness to God; he feared ... heard some time ago of a poor woman who was ...
/.../spurgeon/sermons on proverbs/godly fear and its goodly.htm

Come and Welcome to Jesus Christ;
... Can a woman forget her ... and slayeth him, even so is this matter; for he found her
in ... faithfulness of God; the other may not, because of the unfaithfulness of men ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/come and welcome to jesus.htm

Tiglath-Pileser iii. And the Organisation of the Assyrian Empire ...
... in both instances, it is a woman who appeals ... too, inveighed against the perversity
and unfaithfulness of his ... It was found that the heavily fortified angles of ...
/.../chapter iitiglath-pileser iii and the.htm

The Memphite Empire
... had left his tomb unfinished, and a woman had finished ... and shafts of columns, which
were shaped out on the ... there true official stelas are to be found set apart ...
/.../chapter iithe memphite empire.htm

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