Woman: Young: Not to be Given in Marriage Considered a Calamity
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In the cultural and historical context of the Bible, marriage was often seen as a significant and expected milestone in the life of a young woman. The Scriptures reflect a worldview where marriage and family were central to societal structure and personal fulfillment. The absence of marriage for a young woman was frequently viewed as a misfortune or calamity, impacting not only her personal life but also her social standing and economic security.

Cultural Context

In ancient Israelite society, marriage was not merely a personal choice but a communal expectation. It was a means of securing alliances, ensuring the continuation of family lineage, and providing economic stability. A young woman who remained unmarried could face social stigma and economic vulnerability. The family unit was the primary social and economic unit, and marriage was integral to its perpetuation.

Biblical References

The Bible contains several references that highlight the importance of marriage for young women and the distress associated with remaining unmarried. In Isaiah 4:1 , the prophet describes a time of judgment and calamity, saying, "On that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, 'We will eat our own bread and provide our own clothes. Only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!'" This passage underscores the desperation and social disgrace associated with being unmarried, as women seek to remove their reproach by any means necessary.

In the book of Judges, the account of Jephthah's daughter (Judges 11:37-38) further illustrates this theme. Jephthah's daughter laments her fate, saying, "Let me wander the hills for two months and weep with my friends, because I will never marry." Her mourning reflects the deep sorrow and sense of loss associated with not fulfilling the expected role of a wife and mother.

Social Implications

The societal implications of a young woman not being given in marriage were profound. In a patriarchal society, a woman's identity and security were often tied to her role as a wife and mother. Without marriage, a woman might lack protection and provision, as well as the opportunity to bear children, which was considered a blessing and a means of legacy.

The book of Ruth provides a narrative of redemption from such a plight. Ruth, a widow, faces the potential calamity of remaining unmarried and childless. Her account highlights the importance of marriage and family in restoring her social and economic status. Boaz's willingness to marry Ruth not only redeems her but also secures her future and that of her mother-in-law, Naomi.

Theological Considerations

From a theological perspective, marriage is often seen as a divine institution ordained by God. Genesis 2:24 states, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This foundational view of marriage underscores its significance in God's design for human relationships and community.

The New Testament also reflects the importance of marriage, though it introduces a broader understanding of singleness and celibacy as viable and honorable states, particularly in the context of Christian service (1 Corinthians 7:8). However, the cultural backdrop of the Old Testament and much of the New Testament era still viewed marriage as the normative and desirable state for young women.

In summary, the biblical narrative and cultural context of ancient Israel reflect a worldview where not being given in marriage was considered a calamity for a young woman. This perspective was shaped by societal norms, economic realities, and theological beliefs about the role and purpose of marriage in God's creation.
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Judges 11:37
And she said to her father, Let this thing be done for me: let me alone two months, that I may go up and down on the mountains, and mourn my virginity, I and my fellows.
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Psalm 78:63
The fire consumed their young men; and their maidens were not given to marriage.
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Isaiah 4:1
And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by your name, to take away our reproach.
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Tit. 2:06 Thoughts for Young Men
... naturally in the heart of every man and woman alive (Eccles ... Young men, be jealous
on this point. ... let not the example of all around you,"let not the invitation ...
/.../chapter xix tit 2 6 thoughts.htm

The Women of the Gospel Narrative the Study of the Early Christian ...
... so thoroughly for the training of its young in the ... The woman was not allowed to withdraw
from the ... least one of the epistolary writers, did not corroborate the ...
/.../brittain/women of early christianity/i the women of the.htm

Concerning the Fortitude of Samson, and what Mischiefs He Brought ...
... of Timhath, out of a dread of the young man's strength ... rejoinder: "Nothing is more
deceitful than a woman for such ... performed, and said that this did not come to ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 8 concerning the fortitude.htm

V. ...
... clergy and laity, male and female, young and old ... eat thy bread;" and to the woman:
"In sorrow ... a spiritual significance throughout, within which is not flesh and ...
/.../the epistles of st peter and st jude preached and explained/chapter iii v .htm

Women who Witnessed the Fall of Rome
... slightingly of her ability; but it could not have been ... were wont to fall to the lot
of woman, even in ... The young princess was invested with this honor and rank ...
/.../brittain/women of early christianity/vii women who witnessed the.htm

Letter cxxv. To Rusticus.
... The Lord says: "whosoever looketh on a woman to lust ... way and at the expiration of
it the young man was ... Wherefore the same wise man says: "meddle not with them ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter cxxv to rusticus.htm

Compel them to Come In
... upon his horse in the highway, and the woman trudging about ... Young men, you do not
pray for yourselves, but your ... Does not the apostle say of such an one that he ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 5 1859/compel them to come in.htm

Croesus.
... the quiet composure and confidence which a woman might be ... remarkable manner; but
the impression was not a pleasant ... The other was a young man of uncommon promise ...
//christianbookshelf.org/abbott/cyrus the great/chapter iv croesus.htm

An Exhortation to Theodore after his Fall. Letter I.
... indeed fell and rose again while he was still young; but another ... the way to old age,
afforded I know not how a ... and although he had never seen a woman since he ...
/.../chrysostom/on the priesthood/an exhortation to theodore after.htm

Against Jovinianus.
... for the precious life," who causeth the young man's understanding ... to knowledge, giving
honour unto the woman, as unto ... Whose adorning let it not be the outward ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/against jovinianus.htm

Resources
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