How to avoid pride as in Psalm 31:23?
In what ways can we avoid being "proud" as warned in Psalm 31:23?

The Warning in Psalm 31:23

“Love the LORD, all His saints. The LORD preserves the faithful, but fully repays the arrogant.” (Psalm 31:23)

Pride invites full repayment from the Lord, while faithfulness enjoys His preserving hand. The verse sets a clear motivation: cultivate humility to remain under God’s protection rather than His opposition.


Symptoms That Signal Hidden Pride

• Seeking personal praise more than God’s glory (Proverbs 27:2)

• Dismissing counsel or correction (Proverbs 12:15)

• Measuring worth by status, possessions, or achievements (1 John 2:16)

• Harboring an unforgiving spirit or keeping score in relationships (Ephesians 4:31–32)

• Speaking of self more than listening to others (James 1:19)


Heart Postures That Disarm Pride

• Acknowledge daily dependence on the Lord (John 15:5)

• Confess sin quickly and specifically (1 John 1:9)

• Remember that every good gift is from above (James 1:17)

• Treasure the cross, which levels everyone at the foot of Christ’s sacrifice (Galatians 6:14)


Practical Steps Toward Humility

• Begin each day thanking God for unearned mercies from the previous day

• Read a Gospel passage daily to keep Christ’s humility before the eyes (Philippians 2:5–8)

• Serve in unnoticed tasks at home, church, or community without mentioning them afterward

• Celebrate others’ successes verbally and sincerely (Romans 12:15)

• Give anonymously whenever possible (Matthew 6:3–4)


Scriptural Portraits of Humble Living

• Moses, called “very humble, more than any man on the face of the earth” while leading Israel (Numbers 12:3)

• David, who refused to seize the throne by force and waited on God’s timing (1 Samuel 24:10)

• Mary, who rejoiced that God “looked with favor on the humble state of His servant” (Luke 1:48)

• The tax collector who beat his breast, went home justified rather than the self-righteous Pharisee (Luke 18:13–14)


Daily Habits That Keep Pride at Bay

• Scripture memorization—verses such as Proverbs 16:18 and James 4:6 guard the mind

• Regular fasting—physical weakness reminds the soul of need (Matthew 6:16-18)

• Journaling answered prayer—reviewing them highlights God’s initiative, not personal ingenuity

• Weekly Sabbath rest—ceasing labor proclaims that the world keeps turning without personal striving (Exodus 20:8–11)


Promises Tied to Humility

• Grace in greater measure (James 4:6)

• Exaltation in God’s timing (1 Peter 5:6)

• Guidance and teaching from the Lord (Psalm 25:9)

• Peace and rest for the soul (Matthew 11:28-29)


Living the Call

Persistently loving the Lord and embracing humility positions believers to experience the preserving faithfulness declared in Psalm 31:23, avoiding the costly repayment reserved for the proud.

How does Psalm 31:23 connect with God's faithfulness in Deuteronomy 7:9?
Top of Page
Top of Page