How to grow and share love daily?
How can we "increase and overflow in love" towards others in daily life?

Key Verse

1 Thessalonians 3:12

“And may the Lord cause you to increase and overflow with love for one another and for everyone else, just as ours does for you.”


What “Increase and Overflow” Means

• Increase – love that keeps growing, never content with yesterday’s measure

• Overflow – love so abundant it spills over to all around, not limited to our circle of friends


God Is the Source

Romans 5:5 – “the love of God has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit”

John 15:5 – abiding in Christ is the only way to bear this fruit

Galatians 5:22 – love is the Spirit’s firstlisted fruit, not self-manufacture


Daily Habits That Open the Floodgates

• Start each morning asking the Lord to enlarge your heart (Psalm 119:32)

• Read and meditate on passages that reveal Christ’s love (John 13; 1 Corinthians 13)

• Confess any bitterness quickly; clogged hearts can’t overflow (Ephesians 4:31-32)

• Keep a “gratitude log” so appreciation toward God fuels kindness toward people (Colossians 3:15)

• Memorize one “love verse” weekly to refresh your mind (Psalm 119:11)


Seeing People through God’s Eyes

• Remember every person bears God’s image (Genesis 1:27)

• View believers as family (1 John 3:14) and unbelievers as future family God may adopt (Acts 26:18)

• Ask, “How would I treat Christ if He stood in front of me?” (Matthew 25:40)


Concrete Ways to Overflow Today

• Speak life-giving words—compliments, thanks, Scripture reminders (Proverbs 18:21)

• Serve quietly—wash dishes, run errands, hold doors (Mark 10:45)

• Practice generous giving—time, money, possessions (2 Corinthians 9:7-8)

• Show hospitality—invite someone lonely for a meal (Romans 12:13)

• Forgive quickly—release debts as God did yours (Ephesians 4:32)

• Pray regularly—intercede for coworkers, neighbors, enemies (Matthew 5:44)

• Share the gospel—greatest act of love (Romans 1:16)


Love’s Protective Power

• “Above all, love one another deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8)

• Overflowing love guards unity in marriage, church, and community (Colossians 3:14)


Growing in Discernment

Philippians 1:9 – love should “abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight”

• Ask God for wisdom to act in each situation: tough love, gentle love, silent love, speaking love


Encouraging One Another

• Celebrate acts of love you see; affirmation multiplies them (Hebrews 10:24)

• Share testimonies of God’s love working through you; they inspire others (Psalm 66:16)


Looking to Christ’s Example

John 13:1 – Jesus “loved them to the end”

1 John 4:10-11 – His sacrificial love becomes our pattern and motivation


Anticipating the Finish Line

1 Thessalonians 3:13 shows the goal: “so that He may establish your hearts as blameless in holiness before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus.”

• Growing love prepares us for that day; every act of Spirit-empowered love is training for eternity.

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