What steps can you take to remove hatred from your heart today? Key Passage “Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him.” (1 John 3:15) Why Hatred Cannot Stay • Matthew 5:21-22—Jesus equates murderous anger with murder itself. • 1 John 4:20—“Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar.” • Proverbs 4:23—“Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life.” Hatred is spiritual murder; it blocks fellowship with God and others. Steps to Remove Hatred Today • Admit it honestly – Psalm 139:23-24—Invite God to search and reveal hidden motives. – Refuse excuses; call hatred what God calls it. • Confess and repent – 1 John 1:9—“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us…” – Turn from the sin, not merely the feelings. • Receive God’s love afresh – Romans 5:5—“God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit.” – Let His unconditional love displace bitterness. • Pray for the one you resent – Matthew 5:44—“Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” – Prayer softens the heart and invites God’s work in both lives. • Choose forgiveness – Ephesians 4:31-32—“Get rid of all bitterness… forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.” – Forgiveness is a decision before it is a feeling. • Speak blessing, not curse – Romans 12:14—“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.” – Replace harsh words with words of grace. • Act in love – 1 John 3:16-18—Love proves itself in tangible deeds. – Look for small, practical ways to serve the person. • Seek reconciliation when possible – Romans 12:18—“If it is possible… live at peace with everyone.” – Initiate conversation, own your part, pursue peace. • Guard your heart daily – Colossians 3:12-14—“Put on… compassion, kindness… above all, love.” – Make love your default clothing each morning. • Walk by the Spirit – Galatians 5:16, 22-23—The Spirit produces love that conquers hatred. – Stay yielded through prayer, Scripture, and obedience. Keeping the Momentum • Abide in Christ—John 15:4-5. • Store up Scripture—Psalm 119:11. • Stay accountable—Hebrews 10:24-25. As His life flows through you, hatred loses its grip. Jesus: The Perfect Model “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34) If the sinless Savior forgave His executioners, He will empower you to forgive anyone. |
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