Absalom: David's Mourning For
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Absalom, the third son of King David, is a prominent figure in the narrative of the Hebrew Bible, particularly in the books of 2 Samuel. Known for his striking appearance and ambitious nature, Absalom's life is marked by rebellion and tragedy, culminating in a profound moment of mourning by his father, King David.

Background and Rebellion

Absalom was born to David and Maacah, the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur (2 Samuel 3:3). He is most famously known for his rebellion against his father, King David. The seeds of this rebellion were sown after the incident involving his sister Tamar and half-brother Amnon, whom Absalom killed in revenge for Tamar's rape (2 Samuel 13:28-29). Following this, Absalom fled to Geshur and stayed there for three years (2 Samuel 13:37-38).

After his return to Jerusalem, Absalom began to win the hearts of the people of Israel, eventually declaring himself king in Hebron (2 Samuel 15:10). This act of insurrection led to a civil war between the forces loyal to David and those supporting Absalom.

The Battle and Absalom's Death

The conflict reached its climax in the forest of Ephraim, where Absalom's forces were defeated by David's army. During the battle, Absalom was caught by his hair in the branches of a large oak tree as he rode his mule, leaving him hanging and vulnerable (2 Samuel 18:9). Joab, the commander of David's army, took this opportunity to kill Absalom, despite David's explicit instructions to deal gently with him (2 Samuel 18:14-15).

David's Mourning

The news of Absalom's death was brought to David by a Cushite messenger. Upon hearing of his son's demise, David was overcome with grief. The Bible records his lament in one of the most poignant expressions of parental sorrow: "The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. As he walked, he cried out, 'O my son Absalom, O my son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!'" (2 Samuel 18:33).

David's mourning for Absalom is a powerful moment that highlights the deep love and anguish of a father for his son, despite Absalom's rebellion and the threat he posed to David's reign. The king's lamentation reflects the complex dynamics of familial love, loyalty, and the pain of loss.

Aftermath

David's public mourning had significant implications for his leadership and the morale of his troops. Joab, recognizing the potential impact on the army, confronted David, urging him to address his men and restore their confidence (2 Samuel 19:5-7). David heeded Joab's advice and appeared before the people, but the sorrow over Absalom's death lingered.

The account of Absalom and David's mourning is a testament to the enduring themes of love, loss, and reconciliation found throughout the biblical narrative.
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2 Samuel 18:33
And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for you, O Absalom, my son, my son!
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2 Samuel 19:1-8
And it was told Joab, Behold, the king weeps and mourns for Absalom.
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David's Sorrow.
... "O my son Absalom! my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom,
my son, my son!". [Illustration: David mourning for Absalom]. ...
/.../lathbury/childs story of the bible/chapter xxv davids sorrow.htm

The Wail of a Broken Heart
... The Cushite with some tenderness veils the fate of Absalom in the wish that all
the king's ... But there were elements in David's mourning which were not good. ...
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How Absalom Murdered Amnon, who had Forced his Own Sister; and How ...
... 4. Now David had a design to send to Absalom, not that ... he suborned an ordinary woman,
that was stricken in age, to go to the king in mourning apparel, who ...
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2 Sam. 23:4-5. Without Clouds.
... Hear his hopeless cry, " O Absalom, my son, my son ... This is the great covenant which
David had in view. ... obeyed the summons, and said to his mourning friends, "It ...
/.../the upper room being a few truths for the times/chapter xiv 2 sam 23 4-5.htm

Sermon.
... down unto the grave unto my son mourning." And yet I ... were those which the Psalms
of David disclose, cannot ... If Absalom in the midst of upright walking and works ...
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Of the Loving Condolence by which the Complacency of Love is Still ...
... How much did David's soul commiserate the misery of his Absalom! Ah! ... Ah! said he,
I will go down mourning into hell, that is to say, to Limbo into ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter iv of the loving.htm

The History of David
... was dead, she mourned and wailed him; and after the mourning David sent for ... brother
Amnon; and anon it was told to the King David that Absalom had slain ...
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How David Reigned Over one Tribe at Hebron While the Son Of
... to the king, he left off his mourning, and inquired ... 4. About this time David was
become the father of six ... Abigail; the name of the third was Absalom, by Maacah ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 1 how david reigned.htm

Book 5 Footnotes
... of Ahithophel, and directly infatuated wicked Absalom to reject it ... entirely true
or not; nor does David now invite ... is this odd way of mourning that Mephibosheth ...
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"In the Volume of the Book it is Written of Me" (Heb. . .
... Sixth, Absalom sought to obtain the kingdom by ... of the faithful followers of David
being driven ... lamentation, and weeping, and great mourning, Rachel weeping for ...
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Resources
Summary of the Book of 2 Samuel - Bible Survey | GotQuestions.org

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