Background:
Absalom was the third son of King David, born to Maacah, the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur (2 Samuel 3:3). Known for his striking appearance and charisma, Absalom played a significant role in the turbulent history of David's family. His account is marked by ambition, revenge, and tragedy.

The Incident:
The event leading to Absalom's killing of Amnon is rooted in a grievous family scandal. Amnon, David's firstborn son, developed an illicit desire for his half-sister Tamar, Absalom's full sister. Despite being advised against it, Amnon deceived and violated Tamar, an act that left her desolate and disgraced (2 Samuel 13:1-14).

Absalom's Response:
Upon learning of Tamar's plight, Absalom took her into his home, offering her protection and solace. He harbored a deep-seated hatred for Amnon but initially kept his intentions concealed. "And Absalom did not speak to Amnon, either good or bad, for Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar" (2 Samuel 13:22).

The Plot:
Two years after Tamar's assault, Absalom orchestrated a plan to avenge his sister. He invited all the king's sons to a sheep-shearing event at Baal Hazor, a festive occasion that provided the perfect cover for his scheme. Absalom instructed his servants, saying, "Watch now, when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine and I say to you, ‘Strike Amnon,’ then kill him. Do not be afraid. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous!" (2 Samuel 13:28).

The Execution:
During the feast, as Amnon was in high spirits from wine, Absalom's servants carried out the order, striking Amnon dead. The sudden act of violence caused panic among the king's sons, who fled the scene in fear of their lives (2 Samuel 13:29).

Aftermath:
Following the murder, Absalom fled to Geshur, seeking refuge with his maternal grandfather, King Talmai. He remained in exile for three years, during which time King David mourned for Amnon and longed for reconciliation with Absalom (2 Samuel 13:37-39).

Significance:
Absalom's act of fratricide set off a chain of events that would lead to further strife within David's household. It highlighted the complexities of familial loyalty, justice, and the consequences of unchecked desires. The incident also foreshadowed Absalom's eventual rebellion against his father, King David, which would have lasting implications for the kingdom of Israel.2 Samuel 13:22-29
And Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.
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