Children: Power of Parents Over, During the Patriarchal Age
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In the patriarchal age, the family unit was the central structure of society, and the authority of parents, particularly fathers, was paramount. This period, which spans from Adam to the time of Moses, is characterized by a familial hierarchy where the father held significant power over his household, including his children. This authority was both a cultural norm and a divinely instituted order, as seen in various scriptural accounts.

Patriarchal Authority

The patriarchal system placed the father as the head of the family, responsible for the spiritual, moral, and social welfare of his household. This is evident in the life of Abraham, who is described as commanding his children and household to keep the way of the Lord. Genesis 18:19 states, "For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will bring about for Abraham what He has promised him."

Discipline and Instruction

Parents, particularly fathers, were tasked with the discipline and instruction of their children. This responsibility is underscored in the wisdom literature and later biblical texts, reflecting a continuity of this principle. Proverbs 22:6 advises, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Although this text is from a later period, it echoes the enduring principle of parental guidance established in the patriarchal age.

Inheritance and Blessing

The power of parents extended to the distribution of inheritance and the bestowing of blessings, which were of great significance in the patriarchal age. The narrative of Jacob and Esau in Genesis 27 illustrates the profound impact of a father's blessing. Isaac's blessing, intended for Esau but received by Jacob, shaped the destinies of their descendants. Genesis 27:28-29 records Isaac's blessing: "May God give you the dew of heaven and the richness of the earth—an abundance of grain and new wine. May peoples serve you and nations bow down to you."

Obedience and Honor

Children were expected to obey and honor their parents, a principle that is foundational in the Decalogue given later at Sinai but rooted in earlier traditions. The account of Noah and his sons in Genesis 9 demonstrates the expectation of respect and honor towards one's father. When Ham dishonored Noah, it resulted in a curse upon Ham's son, Canaan, highlighting the serious consequences of failing to honor parental authority.

Marriage Arrangements

Parents, particularly fathers, also held authority over the marriage arrangements of their children. This is evident in the account of Isaac and Rebekah, where Abraham sends his servant to find a wife for Isaac, demonstrating the father's role in securing a suitable marriage for his son (Genesis 24). The involvement of parents in marriage decisions was a means of ensuring the continuation of the family line and the preservation of covenantal promises.

Conclusion

The patriarchal age established a framework of parental authority that was integral to the social and spiritual fabric of early biblical society. This authority was exercised with the intent of guiding children in the ways of the Lord, ensuring the transmission of faith and values across generations.
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Genesis 9:24,25
And Noah awoke from his wine, and knew what his younger son had done to him.
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Genesis 21:14
And Abraham rose up early in the morning, and took bread, and a bottle of water, and gave it to Hagar, putting it on her shoulder, and the child, and sent her away: and she departed, and wandered in the wilderness of Beersheba.
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Genesis 38:24
And it came to pass about three months after, that it was told Judah, saying, Tamar your daughter in law has played the harlot; and also, behold, she is with child by prostitution. And Judah said, Bring her forth, and let her be burnt.
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The Faith of Moses.
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The Foundations of Good Citizenship.
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Introductory Note to the Works of Origen.
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Mothers, Daughters, and Wives in Israel
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The People among whom we Labour (Continued).
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Resources
What does it mean that Jesus loves the little children? | GotQuestions.org

How should Christians discipline their children? What does the Bible say? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about disobedient children? | GotQuestions.org

Children: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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