Resignation: Loss of Children
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The theme of resignation in the face of the loss of children is a profound and heartrending topic within the biblical narrative. The Bible provides several accounts that illustrate the deep sorrow and eventual acceptance that comes with such a loss, offering both comfort and guidance to those who endure similar trials.

Job's Resignation

One of the most poignant examples of resignation following the loss of children is found in the account of Job. Job, a man described as "blameless and upright" (Job 1:1), experiences the devastating loss of all his children in a single day. Despite his immense grief, Job's response is one of worship and submission to God's sovereignty: "The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name of the LORD" (Job 1:21). Job's acceptance of God's will, even in the face of unimaginable loss, serves as a powerful testament to faith and trust in God's ultimate plan.

David's Mourning and Acceptance

King David's life also provides insight into the theme of resignation through the loss of a child. After his sin with Bathsheba, David is informed by the prophet Nathan that the child born to them will die. David pleads with God for the child's life, fasting and praying earnestly. However, upon the child's death, David's actions reflect a profound acceptance of God's judgment. He rises, washes, and worships the Lord, explaining to his servants, "Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me" (2 Samuel 12:23). David's response highlights a deep understanding of the finality of death and a hope in the afterlife.

The Shunammite Woman's Faith

In 2 Kings 4, the Shunammite woman experiences the sudden death of her promised son. Her reaction is marked by a determined faith as she seeks out the prophet Elisha. Despite her grief, she repeatedly affirms, "It is well" (2 Kings 4:26), demonstrating her trust in God's power and the prophet's ability to intercede. Her account concludes with the miraculous restoration of her son, underscoring the belief in God's ability to bring life from death and the importance of steadfast faith.

Rachel's Lament

Rachel, the beloved wife of Jacob, also embodies the sorrow of losing children. In Jeremiah 31:15, her lament is prophetically echoed: "A voice is heard in Ramah, mourning and great weeping, Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because they are no more" . This passage captures the depth of a mother's grief and is later referenced in the New Testament in the context of Herod's massacre of the innocents (Matthew 2:18), illustrating the recurring theme of maternal sorrow throughout Scripture.

Hannah's Prayerful Surrender

While Hannah's account in 1 Samuel does not involve the loss of a child through death, her initial barrenness and subsequent dedication of her son Samuel to the Lord reflect a form of resignation and surrender. Hannah's prayerful vow and fulfillment of that vow demonstrate her willingness to submit her desires to God's will, trusting in His greater purpose for her child.

These biblical accounts collectively offer a tapestry of human emotion and divine interaction, providing believers with examples of how to navigate the profound grief of losing a child. Through these accounts, the Bible affirms God's presence in times of sorrow and His ultimate sovereignty over life and death.
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Job 1:18,19,21
While he was yet speaking, there came also another, and said, Your sons and your daughters were eating and drinking wine in their oldest brother's house:
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Submission to Divine Providence in the Death of Children
... Providence before us may have a special Tendency to improve our Resignation to the ...
have heard, let us learn not to think of the Loss of our Children with a ...
/.../doddridge/submission to divine providence in the death of children/

Sorrow that Worships
... of Jerusalem weep for themselves and for their children. ... The thankful resignation
to God's loving administration of ... It recognises in loss and sorrow a reason ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture g/sorrow that worships.htm

Sermon
... not only of the sons but of the parents that they have willingly given their children
and have borne their loss with dignity and resignation, not repining and ...
//christianbookshelf.org/michelson/no 4 intersession/sermon.htm

Abraham, his Trial in Egypt; his Humility
... it and not amulets the true protection of children, [425]71 ... Goods, loss of, hard
to bear, [783]275; kept, are ... by the devil, [947]284; his resignation showed a ...
/.../abraham his trial in egypt.htm

The Bereavements of the Christian Home. [A]
... is not inconsistent with a confiding faith in God, nor with a meek: resignation
to His ... Many parents murmuringly mourn the loss of their children, and in ...
/.../philips/the christian home/chapter xxvi the bereavements of.htm

Letter xxxix. To Paula.
... holds good that the sins of the fathers must be visited upon the children, [802]
an ... I mourn my loss, but because it is His will I bear it with resignation. ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter xxxix to paula.htm

Certain General Rules for Mortification Sufficient for Some. ...
... external things, as injuries, disgraces, sickness, loss of friends ... by a vigorous
act of resignation and love ... God generally hath over His children, both perfect ...
/.../chapter iv certain general rules.htm

Man's Passions and God's Purpose
... How unlike the quiet resignation which should have marked ... doubt the hypocritical
condolences of his children were as ... No doubt the loss of Joseph had taken away ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture k/mans passions and gods purpose.htm

On the Feast of Martyrs
... suffering; in a dying and spiritual life, in true resignation. ... Now mark, dear children,
that, when we speak of martyrs ... Here man is often most at a loss, and he ...
//christianbookshelf.org/tauler/the inner way/sermon xxx on the feast.htm

On Patience
... of men; yea, and with all the children of God ... But, instead of counting this a loss,
as unbelievers would ... the fruit of this, the constant resignation of ourselves ...
/.../wesley/sermons on several occasions/sermon 83 on patience.htm

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