Being Friends With Non Christians
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The topic of forming friendships with non-Christians is one that has been discussed and debated among believers throughout the history of the Church. The Bible provides guidance on how Christians should interact with those who do not share their faith, emphasizing both the importance of maintaining one's spiritual integrity and the call to be a light to the world.

Biblical Principles

1. Love and Kindness: Christians are called to love their neighbors, which includes non-Christians. Jesus taught, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 22:39). This commandment underscores the importance of showing love and kindness to all people, regardless of their faith.

2. Being a Light: Believers are encouraged to be a light in the world. Jesus said, "You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden" (Matthew 5:14). Friendships with non-Christians can serve as opportunities to reflect Christ's love and truth.

3. Avoiding Unequal Yoking: The Apostle Paul warns against being unequally yoked with unbelievers: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). This passage is often interpreted as a caution against forming binding partnerships that could compromise one's faith.

4. Influence and Witness: While Christians are called to be in the world, they are also reminded not to be of the world. Paul writes, "Do not be deceived: 'Bad company corrupts good character'" (1 Corinthians 15:33). This serves as a warning to be mindful of the influence that close associations can have on one's spiritual life.

5. Engagement with the World: Jesus Himself associated with sinners and those outside the religious community of His time. He was criticized for this, yet He stated, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners" (Mark 2:17). This highlights the importance of engaging with non-believers in a way that reflects Christ's mission.

Practical Considerations

· Discernment: Christians are encouraged to exercise discernment in their relationships. While friendships with non-Christians can be enriching and provide opportunities for witness, believers must remain vigilant to ensure that their faith is not compromised.

· Boundaries: Setting healthy boundaries is crucial. While engaging with non-Christians, it is important to maintain one's values and convictions, ensuring that these relationships do not lead one away from their commitment to Christ.

· Purposeful Engagement: Friendships with non-Christians should be purposeful, with an awareness of the potential to share the Gospel through words and actions. Christians are called to be ambassadors for Christ, representing Him in all interactions.

· Prayer and Support: Engaging with non-Christians should be accompanied by prayer and support from the Christian community. Seeking wisdom and guidance from God and fellow believers can help navigate these relationships effectively.

In summary, while the Bible encourages love and engagement with non-Christians, it also calls for discernment and caution to ensure that one's faith remains strong and uncompromised.
Topical Bible Verses
Ezekiel 33:9
Nevertheless, if you warn the wicked of his way to turn from it; if he do not turn from his way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered your soul.
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Perishing or Being Saved
... It means the withdrawal, or the non-bestowal, of all ... because, respectively, they
are perishing or being saved ... taken into account in your lives"oh, my friends! ...
/.../romans corinthians to ii corinthians chap v/perishing or being saved.htm

'Let Him Alone'
... Being the 'predominant partner,' its name was used ... and influence to be occupied only
by non-Christians. ... between us and our Christless friends and companions ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture a/let him alone.htm

Native Christians.
... assent to the action of their friends and neighbours, and ... Among the non-Aryan tribes,
the Kols and the ... be distinguished from them, their hue being often darker ...
/.../chapter xxvi native christians.htm

Non-Resistants.
... Like the friends of emancipation, or of total abstinence ... shall adhere to the
doctrine of non-resistance and ... at any period of the world, being contrary to ...
//christianbookshelf.org/hayward/the book of religions/non-resistants.htm

Native Christians (Continued).
... of hiding their Christian profession, and being ashamed of ... The friends of missions
would do good service by ... them of Europeans, both official and non-official. ...
/.../chapter xxvii native christians continued.htm

Easter Monday
... us to be reconciled unto himself, to be his friends, that we ... of faith, under the
pretense of being themselves the ... truly the Jews and the non-Christians have no ...
//christianbookshelf.org/luther/epistle sermons vol ii/easter monday.htm

Building in Troublous Times
... than drafting into it a mass of non-Christians, whatever their ... gained, and much is
in danger of being lost, by ... The would-be friends threw off the mask, and, as ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture g/building in troublous times.htm

The Preface.
... ever known to be: That some, being of opinion ... for the good conduct of their friends,
than of ... Tertulliano palam est profitendum, Legem novam non se vindicare ...
/.../lardner/a vindication of three of our blessed saviours miracles/the preface.htm

A Digression Upon the Imperfection of the virtues of the Pagans.
... point of death, he said to his friends that he ... had the lustre and appearance of them,
non-virtues, because ... only shine during the night, and day being come lose ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter x a digression upon.htm

Moral Characteristics.
... however, he was far from being headstrong. ... Constantine's trust in his friends and
generosity to the ... worked relative hardships to the non-Christians, and that ...
/.../pamphilius/the life of constantine/section 5 moral characteristics.htm

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