Family Leader
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In the biblical context, the concept of a family leader is deeply rooted in the structure and function of the family unit as ordained by God. The family leader, often the patriarch, is seen as the head of the household, responsible for guiding, protecting, and providing for the family, both spiritually and materially.

Biblical Foundation

The role of the family leader is first established in the creation narrative. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse underscores the man's role in establishing a new family unit, taking on leadership responsibilities.

Patriarchal Examples

Throughout the Old Testament, patriarchs such as Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob exemplify the role of the family leader. Abraham, for instance, is depicted as a man of faith who leads his family in obedience to God's commands. Genesis 18:19 states, "For I have chosen him, so that he will command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will bring about for Abraham what He has promised him."

Spiritual Leadership

The family leader is tasked with the spiritual nurturing of the household. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 instructs, "These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." This passage highlights the importance of the family leader in imparting God's laws and teachings to the next generation.

New Testament Perspective

In the New Testament, the role of the family leader is further clarified. Ephesians 5:23 states, "For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior." This analogy emphasizes the sacrificial and loving leadership expected of the family leader, mirroring Christ's relationship with the church.

Responsibilities and Duties

The family leader is responsible for providing for the family's needs, as seen in 1 Timothy 5:8 : "If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." This provision extends beyond material needs to include emotional and spiritual support.

Discipline and Instruction

The family leader is also charged with the discipline and instruction of children. Proverbs 22:6 advises, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." This training involves setting a godly example and correcting behavior in love and wisdom.

Servant Leadership

The biblical model of leadership is one of servanthood. Jesus taught in Matthew 20:26-28 , "Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many." The family leader is called to serve the family selflessly, prioritizing their well-being above personal interests.

Conclusion

The role of the family leader is integral to the biblical family structure, encompassing spiritual guidance, provision, discipline, and servant leadership. This position is not merely one of authority but of responsibility and love, reflecting the character of Christ in the home.
Topical Bible Verses
Genesis 18:19
For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring on Abraham that which he has spoken of him.
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Ephesians 6:4
And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
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Greek
3807. paidagogos -- a trainer of boys, ie a tutor
... who had charge of the life and morals of the boys of a family, not strictly a ... From
pais and a reduplicated form of ago; a boy-leader, ie A servant whose office ...
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Family Prayer.
... You should be a priest unto your family,"a leader in home-communion with
God. Your children have a right to expect this from you. ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/philips/the christian home/chapter xv family prayer.htm

How Samuel Found a Leader
... THE OLD TESTAMENT HOW SAMUEL FOUND A LEADER. ... answered and said, "Am I not a Benjamite,
of the smallest of the tribes of Israel, and is not my family the least ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/how samuel found a leader.htm

A Willing People and an Immutable Leader
... It cheers my heart to find that God has a family everywhere. ... He is not an old
Christ"a worn out Christ, but our leader still. He is as young as ever. ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 2 1856/a willing people and an.htm

Fellow-Followers
... Enoch's life cut straight across the grain of his time. He was the leader of the
first racial family, the chief one in the direct line from Adam. ...
/.../gordon/quiet talks on following the christ/fellow-followers.htm

Call for Volunteers.
... the call came they rallied to the leader's side. Gideon sent runners, criers, out
throughout that whole section. They went first to his own family clan, then ...
//christianbookshelf.org/gordon/quiet talks on service/call for volunteers.htm

Samuel, the Child of Prayer
... priest, a praying leader and a praying teacher and leader, but he was a praying
father. And any one who knows the situation so far as family religion is ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/bounds/prayer and praying men/ix samuel the child of.htm

The Way to Honor
... the great leader and teacher of our understandings. We are his disciples and disciples
of none else besides. We are affected by the love of family, the love of ...
//christianbookshelf.org/spurgeon/sermons on proverbs/the way to honor.htm

A Sight of the Crowned Christ
... He was the head of the leading family of the race, the racial leader. He had lived
well on into the seventh decade of his life. Then the change came. ...
/.../quiet talks on the crowned christ of revelation/iii a sight of the crowned.htm

Hillis -- God the Unwearied Guide
... Is the Shepherd and Leader of His little flock unequal to their guidance across
the ... prophet spoke to the exiles as to men who believed that the family was the ...
/.../various/the worlds great sermons volume 10/hillis god the unwearied.htm

Black and Wesley.
... Black poured out his heart in his letters to his venerable leader, who in turn ... Leaving
his family behind, William Black accompanied Dr. Coke to the West Indies ...
//christianbookshelf.org/maclean/william black/v black and wesley.htm

Resources
What does the Bible say about family problems? | GotQuestions.org

What should be the order of priorities in our family? | GotQuestions.org

Questions about Family & Parenting (All) | GotQuestions.org

Family: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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