Topical Encyclopedia The narrative of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar presents a poignant example of family infelicity within the biblical patriarchal context. This account, primarily found in Genesis 16 and 21, highlights the complexities and challenges that arose from decisions made outside of God's initial promise to Abraham.Background and Context God promised Abraham that he would be the father of a great nation (Genesis 12:2). However, as time passed and Sarah remained barren, doubt crept into their hearts. In an attempt to fulfill God's promise through human means, Sarah proposed that Abraham take her Egyptian maidservant, Hagar, as a concubine to bear a child. This decision, though culturally acceptable at the time, was not in alignment with God's plan for Abraham's lineage. Genesis 16: The Birth of Ishmael The decision to involve Hagar led to immediate tension within the household. After Hagar conceived, her attitude towards Sarah changed, leading to strife. Genesis 16:4-5 states, "And when she saw that she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress. Then Sarai said to Abram, 'May the wrong done to me be upon you. I put my servant into your arms, and now that she is pregnant, she despises me. May the LORD judge between you and me.'" Sarah's reaction reflects the emotional turmoil and jealousy that arose from this arrangement. Abraham's response was to allow Sarah to deal with Hagar as she saw fit, leading to Hagar's temporary flight into the wilderness (Genesis 16:6). Divine Intervention and Ishmael's Role In the wilderness, the Angel of the LORD appeared to Hagar, instructing her to return and submit to Sarah, promising that her offspring would also become a great nation (Genesis 16:9-10). Hagar bore Abraham a son, Ishmael, who would later become the progenitor of a significant lineage. Genesis 21: The Birth of Isaac and Further Conflict The birth of Isaac, the child of promise, intensified the existing family discord. Genesis 21:9-10 recounts, "But Sarah saw that the son whom Hagar the Egyptian had borne to Abraham was mocking her son, and she said to Abraham, 'Drive out this slave woman and her son, for the son of this slave woman will never share in the inheritance with my son Isaac.'" This demand placed Abraham in a difficult position, as Ishmael was also his son. However, God instructed Abraham to heed Sarah's request, reassuring him that Ishmael would also become a nation because he was Abraham's offspring (Genesis 21:12-13). Resolution and Legacy Abraham's compliance with God's directive led to Hagar and Ishmael's departure, marking a significant turning point in the family dynamic. Despite the initial infelicity, God's faithfulness to His promises remained evident. Ishmael's descendants became a great nation, fulfilling God's word to Hagar. The account of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of deviating from divine promises and the ensuing familial discord. It underscores the importance of faith and patience in God's timing, as well as the complexities of human relationships when divine plans are approached through human reasoning. Nave's Topical Index Genesis 16:5And Sarai said to Abram, My wrong be on you: I have given my maid into your bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and you. Nave's Topical Index Genesis 21:10,11 Resources What does the Bible say about family? | GotQuestions.orgWhat does the Bible say about family conflict? | GotQuestions.org How does the Bible define a good Christian family? | GotQuestions.org Family: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com Bible Concordance • Bible Dictionary • Bible Encyclopedia • Topical Bible • Bible Thesuarus Subtopics Family of Saints: Be Duly Regulated Family of Saints: Deceivers and Liars should be Removed From Family of Saints: Live in Mutual Forbearance Family of Saints: Live in Unity Family of Saints: Punishment of Irreligious Family of Saints: Rejoice Together Before God Family of Saints: should be Taught God's Word Family of Saints: Warned Against Departing from God Family of Saints: Worship God Together Family: Good: Jailor of Philippi Family: Good: Lazarus of Bethany Family: Infelicity in David and Michal Family: Infelicity in Elkanah, on Account of Bigamic Feuds Family: Infelicity in Moses and Zipporah Family: Infelicity In of Abraham, on Account of Hagar Family: Infelicity In of Isaac, on Account of the Disagreement Between Jacob and Esau Family: Infelicity In of Jacob, the Bigamic Jealousy Between Leah and Rachel Family: Persian, Domestic Customs Related Terms |