Head of Household
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The concept of the "Head of Household" in the Bible is deeply rooted in the structure and order established by God for families and communities. This role is primarily associated with leadership, responsibility, and spiritual guidance within the family unit.

Biblical Foundation

The role of the head of household is first seen in the creation narrative. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This passage establishes the man as the initiator of the family unit, suggesting a leadership role within the household.

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul provides further insight into the responsibilities of the head of household. Ephesians 5:23 states, "For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior." Here, the husband's role is likened to that of Christ, emphasizing sacrificial love, leadership, and care.

Responsibilities

1. Spiritual Leadership: The head of household is tasked with guiding the family in spiritual matters. This includes teaching and modeling biblical principles. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 instructs, "These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."

2. Provision and Protection: The head of household is responsible for providing for the physical needs of the family. 1 Timothy 5:8 warns, "If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." This underscores the importance of ensuring the family's well-being.

3. Decision-Making: The head of household often holds the primary responsibility for making decisions that affect the family. This includes financial, educational, and spiritual decisions, always seeking wisdom and guidance from God. Proverbs 3:5-6 advises, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight."

Challenges and Considerations

While the head of household holds a position of authority, it is crucial that this authority is exercised with humility and love. Ephesians 5:25 commands, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This love is selfless and sacrificial, prioritizing the well-being of the family above personal desires.

The role also requires a balance between leadership and partnership. In Genesis 2:18 , God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." This indicates that while the man may be the head, the woman is an essential partner, and her insights and contributions are invaluable.

Cultural Context

In biblical times, the head of household was typically the eldest male, responsible for the extended family, including servants and relatives. This patriarchal structure was common in ancient Near Eastern cultures. However, the biblical model emphasizes a leadership style that reflects God's character—just, loving, and righteous.

Conclusion

The role of the head of household is a significant and multifaceted responsibility, requiring a deep commitment to God and family. It is a calling to lead with integrity, love, and wisdom, reflecting the relationship between Christ and the Church.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Corinthians 11:3
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
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Genesis 3:16
To the woman he said, I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; in sorrow you shall bring forth children; and your desire shall be to your husband, and he shall rule over you.
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1 Peter 3:7
Likewise, you husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
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Ephesians 6:4
And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
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Colossians 3:21
Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.
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Colossians 3:20
Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing to the Lord.
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1 Timothy 5:8
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
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Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
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Greek
3617. oikodespotes -- the master of a house
... Part of Speech: Noun, Masculine Transliteration: oikodespotes Phonetic Spelling:
(oy-kod-es-pot'-ace) Short Definition: a head of a household Definition: a ...
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3616. oikodespoteo -- to rule a household
... to rule a household. From oikodespotes; to be the head of (ie Rule) a family --
guide the house. see GREEK oikodespotes. (oikodespotein) -- 1 Occurrence. ...
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Library

a Catholic Household
... HERSELF: "THE STORY OF THE SPRINGTIME OF A LITTLE WHITE FLOWER" CHAPTER II - A CATHOLIC
HOUSEHOLD. ... I was so small that I had to lift up my head to see its whole ...
//christianbookshelf.org/therese/story of a soul/chapter ii - a catholic.htm

A Catholic Household
... CHAPTER II A CATHOLIC HOUSEHOLD. ... I was so small that I had to lift up my head to
see its whole length, and it seemed to me very big and very sad. ...
/.../martin/the story of a soul/chapter ii a catholic household.htm

It was Friday Night, and Diamond, Like the Rest of the Household.. ...
... It was Friday night, and Diamond, like the rest of the household, had had very ... old
horse arose with a scramble like thunder, shot his angry head and glaring ...
/.../macdonald/at the back of the north wind/chapter 32 it was friday.htm

Letter xv. Social and Relative Duties.
... commandment teaches the duty of subordination to the head of the family, not only
on the part of the children themselves, but of every member of the household. ...
/.../letter xv social and relative.htm

The Meal at Emmaus
... been constrained to enter in by the loving importunity of these people, becomes
the host, takes upon Himself the position of the head of the household, and in ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture e/the meal at emmaus.htm

Portrait of a Matron
... It is neither the ideal woman nor wife that is painted, but the ideal head of a
household, on whose management, as much as on her husband's work, its well ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture g/portrait of a matron.htm

Of Equitable Rule.
... And this is so much in accordance with the natural order, that the head of the
household was called paterfamilias; and this name has been so generally accepted ...
//christianbookshelf.org/augustine/city of god/chapter 16 of equitable rule.htm

His Murdered Father's Head
... news was also known to Aurelian, but he had kindly ordered his household to conceal
it ... Eutyches saw at once that the Hunnish prince was carrying the head of the ...
/.../chapter xxxvi his murdered fathers.htm

Household Salvation
... I were to go into a jail to-morrow evening, and were to preach to the jailer and
his household, should I ... I like to see a man renewed all over from head to foot ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 17 1871/household salvation.htm

Joseph's Eagerness to Help Others
... the house to do his work and when none of the men of the household were at ... something
in my dream: there were three baskets of white bread on my head, and in ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/josephs eagerness to help others.htm

Resources
What does it mean that you are the head and not the tail in Deuteronomy 28:13? | GotQuestions.org

Should Christian women wear head coverings? | GotQuestions.org

Who is the head of the church, biblically speaking? | GotQuestions.org

Head: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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