How to Raise a Child
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Raising a child is a profound responsibility and privilege, deeply rooted in biblical teachings. The Bible provides guidance on nurturing children in a way that honors God and instills in them a foundation of faith, wisdom, and moral integrity.

Biblical Foundation

The Bible emphasizes the importance of raising children in the knowledge and fear of the Lord. Proverbs 22:6 instructs, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." This verse underscores the significance of early spiritual and moral education, suggesting that the values and teachings imparted during childhood have a lasting impact.

Parental Responsibility

Parents are seen as the primary educators and role models for their children. Ephesians 6:4 advises, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." This passage highlights the balance between discipline and nurturing, encouraging parents to guide their children with love and patience, avoiding harshness that could lead to resentment.

Discipline and Instruction

Discipline is an essential aspect of child-rearing in the biblical context. Proverbs 13:24 states, "He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently." This proverb suggests that loving discipline is necessary for a child's development, though it should be administered with care and compassion, reflecting God's own discipline of His children.

Teaching and Modeling Faith

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 emphasizes the importance of teaching children about God: "These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." Parents are encouraged to integrate faith into daily life, making it a natural and constant part of the family environment.

Love and Encouragement

The Bible also stresses the importance of love and encouragement in raising children. Colossians 3:21 warns, "Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they will not become discouraged." This verse highlights the need for a nurturing environment where children feel valued and supported, fostering their emotional and spiritual growth.

Prayer and Dependence on God

Prayer is a vital component of raising children according to biblical principles. Parents are encouraged to pray for wisdom and guidance in their parenting journey. James 1:5 assures, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." Dependence on God through prayer is essential for navigating the challenges of parenting.

Community and Church Involvement

The role of the community and church is also significant in a child's upbringing. Hebrews 10:24-25 encourages believers to "spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not neglecting to meet together, as some have made a habit, but encouraging one another." Involvement in a faith community provides children with additional role models and reinforces the values taught at home.

Conclusion

The Bible offers a comprehensive framework for raising children, emphasizing the importance of spiritual education, loving discipline, and reliance on God. By following these principles, parents can nurture their children in a way that honors God and prepares them for a life of faith and integrity.
Topical Bible Verses
Proverbs 22:6
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
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Ephesians 6:4
And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
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1 John 3:11
For this is the message that you heard from the beginning, that we should love one another.
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Proverbs 29:15
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself brings his mother to shame.
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Proverbs 22:15
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
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Proverbs 13:24
He that spares his rod hates his son: but he that loves him chastens him betimes.
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Proverbs 19:18
Chasten your son while there is hope, and let not your soul spare for his crying.
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Hebrews 12:1-29
Why seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which does so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,
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The Evil one Wailed "Where Now, is There a Place for Me to Flee to ...
... 6. Gehazi, with the staff that brought to life the dead, was unable to raise the
child. And how could the famous prophet have been brought up by the sorceress? ...
/.../ephraim/hymns and homilies of ephraim the syrian/hymn xlii the evil one.htm

Faith Rewarded.
... servant; she wanted the master himself. So Elisha went with her; it was a good
thing he did, for the servant could not raise the child. ...
/.../moody/to the work to the work/chapter iv faith rewarded.htm

Hebrews xi. 17-19
... to human calculation, I mean) from a womb which was dead and grown old and already
become useless for child-bearing to give a child, and to raise again one who ...
/.../homilies on the gospel of st john and hebrews/homily xxv hebrews xi 17-19.htm

Names
... regenerate the child in holy baptism, and dwells with his soul, his person, his
very self, that He may educate the child's character, and raise his affections ...
//christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/sermons for the times/sermon iv names.htm

King David's Little Boy.
... rise, nor let them raise him up, nor would he take any food. So he passed the dark
night in praying and in sorrow, while the mother watched the child by the ...
/.../anonymous/children of the old testament/king davids little boy.htm

A Rich Man who was a Thief
... The older men in his house stood over him to raise him up from the earth; but he
would not rise nor eat with them. When on the seventh day the child died, the ...
//christianbookshelf.org/sherman/the childrens bible/a rich man who was.htm

What the Flowers Say.
... spring-time, and God, who raised Jesus Christ from the grave, will raise us up ... Look
at the face of an innocent child, one who is gentle, obedient, loving, pure ...
/.../the life of duty a years plain sermons v 2/sermon lxi what the flowers.htm

A Sequel to the Same.
... As it was with the Servant of Elisha, who (2Kings, c.4.) being sent by the Prophet,
that with his Staff he might raise a dead Child; because of the complacency ...
/.../the spiritual guide which disentangles the soul/chap iv a sequel to.htm

The Life of Mr. Andrew Gray.
... God thinks fit now and then to raise up a child to reprove the sloth and negligence
of many thousands of advanced years, and shews that he can perfect his own ...
/.../howie/biographia scoticana scots worthies/the life of mr andrew 3.htm

The Lord and the Little Ones --Leaving Galilee.
... His power were they that they could not believe that One who could raise the dead ...
A little child stood near listening, and wishing, perhaps, that he might be a ...
/.../lathbury/childs story of the bible/chapter xxviii the lord and.htm

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