How Many Kids You should Have
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The question of how many children a couple should have is not directly addressed in the Bible with a specific number. However, various passages provide principles and insights that can guide Christian couples in making this decision.

Fruitfulness and Multiplication

The Bible begins with the command to "be fruitful and multiply" (Genesis 1:28). This directive was given to Adam and Eve and later reiterated to Noah and his sons after the flood (Genesis 9:1). This command suggests that having children is a natural and blessed part of human life. Children are often seen as a sign of God's blessing and favor. Psalm 127:3-5 states, "Children are indeed a heritage from the LORD, and the fruit of the womb is His reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them."

Stewardship and Responsibility

While the Bible encourages fruitfulness, it also emphasizes the importance of stewardship and responsibility. Proverbs 22:6 advises, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." This implies that parents have a duty to provide for their children’s physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. The Apostle Paul also writes in 1 Timothy 5:8 , "If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." Therefore, the decision on the number of children should consider the parents' ability to nurture and provide for them adequately.

Trust in God's Provision

The Bible encourages believers to trust in God's provision. Matthew 6:31-33 says, "Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles strive after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you." This passage reassures Christians that God will provide for their needs, including those of their children.

Cultural and Historical Context

In biblical times, large families were common and often necessary for agricultural and economic reasons. Today, the context may differ, and couples may face various factors such as financial constraints, health considerations, and personal convictions that influence their decision on family size.

Prayer and Discernment

Ultimately, the decision on how many children to have should be made prayerfully, seeking God's guidance and wisdom. James 1:5 encourages believers, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." Couples are encouraged to seek the Lord's will and discernment in this deeply personal decision.

In summary, while the Bible does not prescribe a specific number of children, it provides principles of fruitfulness, stewardship, trust in God's provision, and the importance of seeking divine guidance in making family decisions.
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Psalm 127:4-5
As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
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afterward ... And Laban said, "It is better that you should have her, than that a ...
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How Pekah Died by the Treachery of Hoshea who was a Little after ...
... he supposed to be gods; I exhort you, therefore, who ... many rams, with seven lambs,
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Of the Priesthood of Aaron.
... There were also many, and those of various kinds, of sweet ... For as to those stones,
[22] which we told you before, the ... with lambs of a year old, and kids of the ...
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