How to Treat Your Enemies
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The Bible provides clear guidance on how believers are to treat their enemies, emphasizing love, forgiveness, and kindness as central tenets. This approach is rooted in the character of God and the teachings of Jesus Christ, who exemplified these principles throughout His life and ministry.

Old Testament Foundations

The Old Testament lays the groundwork for understanding how to treat one's enemies. In Exodus 23:4-5 , the Israelites are instructed: "If you encounter your enemy’s stray ox or donkey, you must return it to him. If you see the donkey of someone who hates you fallen under its load, do not leave it there; you must help him with it." This directive underscores the importance of practical assistance and compassion, even towards those who oppose us.

Proverbs 25:21-22 further elaborates: "If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the LORD will reward you." This passage suggests that acts of kindness can lead to repentance and transformation in the heart of the enemy, while also bringing divine reward to the one who acts righteously.

Teachings of Jesus

The teachings of Jesus in the New Testament elevate the treatment of enemies to a central aspect of Christian discipleship. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus commands: "But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (Matthew 5:44). This radical call to love transcends mere tolerance, urging believers to actively seek the well-being of their adversaries through prayer and love.

Jesus' own life provides the ultimate example of this teaching. On the cross, He prayed for His executioners, saying, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34). This act of forgiveness, even in the face of extreme suffering, serves as a model for believers to emulate.

Apostolic Instructions

The apostles continue this theme in their writings, reinforcing the call to love and forgive. Paul, in Romans 12:17-21 , advises: "Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Carefully consider what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone. Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: 'Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.' On the contrary, 'If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head.' Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."

Peter echoes this sentiment in 1 Peter 3:9 : "Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing." The apostolic teachings emphasize that responding to hostility with kindness and blessing is not only a command but also a pathway to receiving God's favor.

Practical Application

The biblical instruction to love and forgive enemies is not merely theoretical but is intended to be lived out in daily life. This involves a conscious decision to reject retaliation and instead choose actions that reflect the love of Christ. It requires believers to rely on the Holy Spirit for strength and guidance, as such a response often goes against human nature.

In summary, the Bible consistently teaches that believers are to treat their enemies with love, kindness, and forgiveness. This approach is rooted in the character of God and the example of Jesus Christ, and it is reinforced by the teachings of the apostles. By following these principles, Christians demonstrate the transformative power of the Gospel and reflect the heart of God to a watching world.
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Matthew 5:1-48
And seeing the multitudes, he went up into a mountain: and when he was set, his disciples came to him:
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Matthew 5:38-39
You have heard that it has been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:
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Romans 13:4
For he is the minister of God to you for good. But if you do that which is evil, be afraid; for he bears not the sword in vain: for he is the minister of God, a revenger to execute wrath on him that does evil.
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Matthew 26:52-54
Then said Jesus to him, Put up again your sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword.
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Deuteronomy 28:47-48
Because you served not the LORD your God with joyfulness, and with gladness of heart, for the abundance of all things;
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Exodus 20:1-26
And God spoke all these words, saying,
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Genesis 4:1-26
And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived, and bore Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the LORD.
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On the Manner of Making a Good Confession
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overcome them. But above all, he is a physician, who will treat your soul for ...
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Ye have Heard Also that it was Said unto the Ancients...
... [707] And if ye do a kindness to those [17] who treat you well, where is your
superiority? for sinners also do likewise. ... [711] But love your enemies, and do ...
/.../hogg/the diatessaron of tatian/section ix ye have heard.htm

David's Anger
... their supposed enemies in this life, as they expected God to treat them in ... 'Gird
on your swords,' is ... in his heart, 'God do so and more to the enemies of David ...
//christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/david/sermon iii davids anger.htm

Love Thy Neighbour
... I am not bound to take him to my house; I am not bound to treat him as one of my ...
O, how can I expect you to love your enemies if you do not love your friends? ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 3 1857/love thy neighbour.htm

Christ, the Great Teacher
... do good to those who treat them well and whose help they need; but Christ, in carrying
out this new law of brotherly love said, "Love your enemies, bless them ...
/.../sell/studies in the life of the christian/study i christ the great.htm

Concerning Balaam the Prophet and what Kind of Man He Was.
... great presents: for whereas he came to curse their enemies, he had ... you for brave
and worthy men, we agreed to your request, that we might treat you with ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 6 concerning balaam the.htm

A New Age and New Standards
... It is now for his followers to treat the inherited ... If a man loved his enemies and
turned the other ... If you could purchase one single advance by your life, what ...
/.../rauschenbusch/the social principles of jesus/chapter vi a new age.htm

Psalm CXXXIX.
... be crushed by adversity, the man, being faithful, begins to treat this world ... consent,
communicate in their life and deeds?...But where is, "Love your enemies"? ...
/.../augustine/exposition on the book of psalms/psalm cxxxix.htm

To Gregory xi
... For it seems that your enemies are disposed to come, as Our ... I think he wants to treat
you as the ... persecution, to delude the childishness of your weak sensuous ...
/.../benincasa/letters of catherine benincasa/to gregory xi 5.htm

Pricked in their Heart
... Will you treat your Saviour thus ... If you resist the Lord, you do it at your peril;
but you do ... his right hand, and there he will remain while his enemies shall be ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 35 1889/pricked in their heart.htm

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