Enemies: The Friendship of, Deceitful
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In the biblical narrative, the concept of deceitful friendship with enemies is a recurring theme that serves as a cautionary tale for the faithful. The Scriptures provide numerous examples and teachings that highlight the dangers and consequences of forming alliances or friendships with those who harbor ill intentions.

One of the most illustrative examples is found in the account of Judas Iscariot, who betrayed Jesus Christ despite being one of His chosen disciples. In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus addresses Judas as "friend" even as Judas approaches Him with a kiss of betrayal: "Friend," Jesus replied, "do what you came for." (Matthew 26:50). This moment underscores the duplicity that can exist within relationships, where outward expressions of friendship mask inner treachery.

The Book of Proverbs offers wisdom on the nature of deceitful friendships. Proverbs 27:6 states, "The wounds of a friend are faithful, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful." . This proverb contrasts the genuine, albeit sometimes painful, counsel of a true friend with the insincere flattery of an enemy. The "kisses" symbolize false affection, which can lead to one's downfall if not discerned and guarded against.

The Psalms also reflect on the theme of deceitful friendship. In Psalm 55, David laments the betrayal of a close companion: "His speech is smooth as butter, yet war is in his heart; his words are softer than oil, yet they are drawn swords." (Psalm 55:21). This vivid imagery captures the dual nature of deceitful friends, who may speak kindly but harbor malicious intent.

The New Testament further warns believers about the dangers of forming alliances with those who oppose God's ways. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, Paul advises, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" . This admonition serves as a reminder to maintain spiritual discernment and avoid entanglements that could compromise one's faith and integrity.

The account of Samson and Delilah in the Book of Judges is another poignant example. Delilah feigns love for Samson, yet her true motive is to betray him to the Philistines. Judges 16:18 recounts, "When Delilah saw that he had told her everything, she sent word to the rulers of the Philistines, 'Come back once more; he has told me everything.' So the rulers of the Philistines returned with the silver in their hands." . Samson's downfall is precipitated by his misplaced trust in Delilah, illustrating the peril of deceitful friendships.

Throughout Scripture, the faithful are encouraged to seek wisdom and discernment in their relationships. The Apostle John writes, "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1). This exhortation emphasizes the importance of vigilance and spiritual insight in identifying those who may present themselves as friends but are, in reality, adversaries.

In summary, the Bible provides ample warnings and examples regarding the deceitful friendship of enemies. Believers are called to exercise discernment, seek godly counsel, and remain steadfast in their commitment to righteousness, ensuring that their relationships align with their faith and values.
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2 Samuel 20:9,10
And Joab said to Amasa, Are you in health, my brother? And Joab took Amasa by the beard with the right hand to kiss him.
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Proverbs 26:26
Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be showed before the whole congregation.
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Proverbs 27:6
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
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Matthew 26:48,49
Now he that betrayed him gave them a sign, saying, Whomsoever I shall kiss, that same is he: hold him fast.
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The Bloody and Deceitful Man
... them praying for the destruction of their enemies, which is ... His fair speeches and
professions of friendship are seen to be ... by them "the Bloody and Deceitful Man ...
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How the Samaritans Made a Tumult and Pilate Destroyed Many of Them ...
... commanded him to make a league of friendship with Artabanus ... who were already corrupted,
but were deceitful in the ... upon trial, to go over to his enemies, he made ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 4 how the samaritans.htm

"And Truly Our Fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son,"
... a sure foundation for eternal peace and friendship between God ... Am I so far bewitched
with the deceitful vanities of ... be agreed?" We are by nature enemies to God ...
/.../binning/the works of the rev hugh binning/sermon vi and truly our.htm

Righteous Hatred
... to it with the kid-glove of friendship, never talk ... man could bring forward for the
hatred of his enemies. ... tainted your heart and made it "deceitful above all ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 4 1858/righteous hatred.htm

The Last Pleading of Love
... ask with humble consciousness of our own deceitful hearts, 'Lord ... more than a picture
of human friendship it would ... in that He loves His enemies, blessing them ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture b/the last pleading of love.htm

Again in John v. 2, Etc. , on the Five Porches, Where Lay a Great ...
... Evil is its friendship, deceitful, it makes a man the enemy of ... brethren, the love
of the world, and the friendship of the world, make men the enemies of God ...
/.../sermons on selected lessons of the new testament/sermon lxxv again in john.htm

The Second Epistle.
... so is he who destroys (loseth) the friendship of his ... head, and a deceitful stroke
of the deceitful will make ... thy tongue, and fall before thine enemies that lie ...
//christianbookshelf.org/unknown/the decretals/the second epistle 2.htm

How Antony Made Herod and Phasaelus Tetrarchs, after they had Been ...
... his government, and made a league of friendship with Antigonus ... place, the young men
beat their enemies, and pursued ... dissembled with him in a deceitful way; and ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 13 how antony made.htm

On Eutropius, the Eunuch, Patrician and Consul.
... And inasmuch as deceitful things, and maskings and pretence ... relied upon than the
voluntary kisses of enemies. ... fled, they have disowned thy friendship, they are ...
/.../chrysostom/on the priesthood/homily i on eutropius the.htm

Of Some who are Mad Enough to Suppose that the Books were ...
... it is quite possible that either the enemies of the ... But in such most deceitful audacity
they have been so ... kept by Him on the most familiar terms of friendship. ...
/.../augustine/the harmony of the gospels/chapter x of some who are.htm

Resources
Does God love Satan? | GotQuestions.org

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