The Hair of Women: Neglected in Grief
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In biblical times, a woman's hair was often regarded as a symbol of beauty and glory. The Apostle Paul, in his first letter to the Corinthians, writes, "But if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her as a covering" (1 Corinthians 11:15). This cultural and spiritual significance of hair underscores its role in expressions of femininity and dignity.

However, the neglect of a woman's hair can serve as a poignant expression of deep sorrow and mourning. In times of grief, the usual care and adornment of hair might be set aside, reflecting an inner turmoil and distress that transcends concern for outward appearance. This neglect can be seen as a physical manifestation of the heart's lamentation and a visible sign of mourning.

The Bible provides several instances where the neglect of personal grooming, including the care of hair, is associated with mourning and grief. In the book of Job, we find a profound example of this practice. After receiving devastating news of the loss of his children and possessions, Job's response includes a physical expression of his grief: "Then Job arose, tore his robe, and shaved his head. He fell to the ground and worshiped" (Job 1:20). While this passage specifically mentions the shaving of the head, it highlights the broader cultural practice of altering one's hair as a sign of mourning.

Similarly, the prophet Isaiah speaks to the customs of mourning in ancient Israel, where the neglect of hair care is implied. In Isaiah 3:24, the prophet describes the consequences of judgment upon the daughters of Zion: "Instead of fragrance there will be a stench; instead of a belt, a rope; instead of styled hair, baldness; instead of fine clothing, sackcloth; and branding instead of beauty" . The transition from styled hair to baldness or neglect signifies a shift from normalcy to a state of lamentation and distress.

The neglect of hair during periods of grief is not merely a personal choice but often a communal expression of shared sorrow. In the book of Lamentations, the collective mourning of Jerusalem is depicted with vivid imagery: "The elders of the Daughter of Zion sit on the ground in silence. They have sprinkled dust on their heads and put on sackcloth. The young women of Jerusalem have bowed their heads to the ground" (Lamentations 2:10). Here, the act of bowing the head and the use of dust and sackcloth are indicative of a broader cultural expression of mourning, where personal grooming is abandoned in favor of visible signs of grief.

In the New Testament, the neglect of hair as a sign of mourning is less explicitly mentioned, yet the cultural understanding persists. The early Christian community, familiar with Jewish customs, would have recognized the significance of such practices. The emphasis on inner beauty and the heart's condition, as seen in 1 Peter 3:3-4, does not negate the cultural expressions of grief but rather complements them by focusing on the enduring qualities of faith and character.

Throughout Scripture, the neglect of a woman's hair in times of grief serves as a powerful symbol of mourning, reflecting both personal sorrow and communal lamentation. It is a testament to the depth of human emotion and the cultural practices that give voice to the heart's deepest pains.
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Luke 7:38
And stood at his feet behind him weeping, and began to wash his feet with tears, and did wipe them with the hairs of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment.
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John 12:3
Then took Mary a pound of ointment of spikenard, very costly, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair: and the house was filled with the odor of the ointment.
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Life and Conduct of the Holy Women, Xanthippe, Polyxena, and ...
... at his feet, and twisting her hair together she ... free will, since thou hast not neglected
thy preaching ... O violence, from this destroyer even women have received ...
/.../unknown/the acts of xanthippe and polyxena/life and conduct of the.htm

The Raising of the Young Man of Nain - the Meeting of Life and ...
... body has been laid on the ground; hair and nails ... that the widowed mother had not
neglected what, however ... wayfarer the simplest funeral, mourning-women would be ...
/.../edersheim/the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter xx the raising of.htm

How Absalom Murdered Amnon, who had Forced his Own Sister; and How ...
... that she surpassed all the most beautiful women; her name ... was polled every eighth
day; and his hair weighed two ... But when Joab neglected so to do, he sent some ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 8 how absalom murdered.htm

How Herod Slew Sohemus and Mariamne and Afterward Alexandra and ...
... Sohemus was faithful to Herod, and neglected none of ... disagreement and unpardonable
hatred among the women, and it ... outrageous as to tear her hair, this indecent ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 7 how herod slew.htm

Grundtvig's Later Years
... Till your hair turned white. ... he had become so absorbed in his wife that he neglected
other things ... him with a seven armed candlestick of gold from women in Norway ...
/.../hymns and hymnwriters of denmark/chapter sixteen grundtvigs later years.htm

Treatise iii. On the Lapsed.
... frequents the bathing-places with women; who, feeding at ... countenance, with changed
dress, with neglected hair, with clouded ... you would show the signs of grief. ...
/.../cyprian/the treatises of cyprian/treatise iii on the lapsed.htm

The Death of the Blessed virgin Mary at Ephesus
... whom he could certainly have helped, he neglected to assist ... off the Blessed Virgin's
beautiful locks of hair to be ... Then I saw that these two women washed the ...
/.../emmerich/the life of the blessed virgin mary/xviii the death of the.htm

Letter Liv. To Furia.
... Hurry from your house women who live by playing and ... His hair is already gray, his
knees tremble, his teeth ... insultingly to me, a maid has neglected my orders. ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter liv to furia.htm

Treatise on the Priesthood. Book vi.
... For even a neglected appearance, unkempt hair, squalid dress ... its straightforward
course; [209] and first of all is his social intercourse with women. ...
/.../chrysostom/on the priesthood/treatise on the priesthood book 6.htm

Letter ccxi. (AD 423. )
... Let your hair be worn wholly covered, and let it ... things which are practised by immodest
women in shameful ... and that if any rule has been neglected, the offence ...
/.../augustine/the confessions and letters of st/letter ccxi a d 423.htm

Resources
Why does the Bible speak against braided hair? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about shaving? | GotQuestions.org

Should Christian women wear head coverings? | GotQuestions.org

Hair: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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