Wives: should be Adorned with Modesty and Sobriety
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In the Christian tradition, the role and demeanor of a wife are subjects of significant theological reflection and scriptural guidance. The Bible provides specific instructions regarding the conduct and appearance of wives, emphasizing virtues such as modesty and sobriety. These virtues are seen as expressions of inner godliness and reverence for God.

Modesty in Appearance and Conduct

The concept of modesty is deeply rooted in the biblical narrative, where it is often associated with humility and a focus on inner beauty rather than outward adornment. In 1 Timothy 2:9-10 , the Apostle Paul instructs women, "Likewise, I want the women to adorn themselves with respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, as is proper for women who profess to worship God." This passage underscores the importance of prioritizing spiritual virtues over external appearances.

Modesty, in this context, is not merely about clothing but encompasses a broader attitude of humility and discretion. It reflects a heart that seeks to honor God and others, avoiding any form of ostentation or vanity. The emphasis is on cultivating a character that reflects the values of the Kingdom of God, where inner beauty is of greater worth than external adornment.

Sobriety and Self-Control

Sobriety, often linked with self-control, is another key virtue highlighted in the Scriptures. Titus 2:3-5 advises older women to "be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or addicted to much wine, but teachers of good. In this way they can train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, managers of their households, kind, and subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be discredited."

Sobriety here implies a seriousness of purpose and a disciplined lifestyle that aligns with Christian values. It involves exercising restraint and wisdom in all areas of life, including speech, behavior, and decision-making. This virtue is seen as essential for maintaining a harmonious and God-honoring household.

The Inner Beauty of a Gentle and Quiet Spirit

1 Peter 3:3-4 further elaborates on the ideal adornment for wives: "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment such as braided hair or gold jewelry or fine clothes, but from the inner disposition of your heart, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight." This passage highlights the value God places on a gentle and quiet spirit, which is considered an imperishable quality.

A gentle and quiet spirit is characterized by peace, patience, and a calm demeanor. It reflects a trust in God and a willingness to submit to His will, fostering an environment of love and respect within the family. This inner beauty is not subject to the changing standards of the world but remains constant and pleasing to God.

Role in the Family and Church

The virtues of modesty and sobriety are integral to the role of wives within the family and the church. Ephesians 5:22-24 instructs, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything."

This submission is not about inferiority but about fulfilling a God-ordained role that mirrors the relationship between Christ and the Church. It involves mutual respect, love, and a commitment to the well-being of the family unit. By embodying modesty and sobriety, wives contribute to the spiritual health and witness of the Christian community.

In summary, the biblical call for wives to be adorned with modesty and sobriety is a call to reflect the character of Christ in their lives. These virtues serve as a testament to their faith and devotion, impacting their families and the broader community in profound ways.
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1 Timothy 2:9
In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with modesty and sobriety; not with braided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
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On Dress.
... Thou hast adorned thy wall with the money which might ... be won by the conversation
of the wives; while they ... follow the fashions of the world, should be avoided ...
/.../orr/food for the lambs or helps for young christians/on dress.htm

A Compendious view of the Christian Life.
... in the country, and often away from our wives, to seal ... 1688] how is it not impious
that they should fall into ... For when the soul is adorned by the Holy Spirit ...
/.../clement/the instructor paedagogus/chapter xi a compendious view of.htm

The Letter of the Church of Rome
... 3It was rivalry that estranged wives from their ... multiply." [91] ?^7We should observe
that all the righteous have been adorned with good ... No one should resent it ...
/.../richardson/early christian fathers/the letter of the church.htm

Book ii.
... while others are in great esteem, and adorned with all ... by his offering violence to
other men's wives, and gelding ... reason can there be why we should desire to ...
//christianbookshelf.org/josephus/against apion/book ii.htm

Period I: the Imperial State Church of the Undivided Empire, or ...
... This law, that Christians should not be compelled to sacrifice, was enacted just ...
But there is no application of this benefit to husbands and wives as regards ...
/.../ayer/a source book for ancient church history/period i the imperial state.htm

From the Close of the General Conference of 1812 to the Death of ...
... Surely I should not forget his helpers. ... Forty years have I known the retiring modesty
of this man of God ... to be deposited by the side of his two wives whom he ...
/.../chapter 2 from the close.htm

Resources
Why did God allow polygamy / bigamy in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

Why did David need Abishag to keep him warm when he had wives and concubines? | GotQuestions.org

Does the Bible truly teach monogamy / monogamous relationships? | GotQuestions.org

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