Wives: Good are a Blessing to Husbands
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In the biblical narrative, the role of a wife is portrayed as a vital and honorable position within the family structure. A good wife is often depicted as a source of blessing and strength to her husband, contributing to the well-being and spiritual health of the household. The Scriptures provide numerous insights into the qualities and virtues of a good wife, emphasizing her importance in the life of her husband.

Proverbs 31:10-12 offers a vivid description of a virtuous wife, stating, "A wife of noble character, who can find? She is far more precious than rubies. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will lack nothing of value. She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life." This passage highlights the trust and confidence a husband places in a wife of noble character, underscoring her role as a source of good and not harm.

The book of Proverbs frequently extols the virtues of a wise and prudent wife. In Proverbs 18:22, it is written, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD." This verse suggests that a good wife is not only a blessing to her husband but also a sign of divine favor. The implication is that a harmonious and supportive marital relationship is a reflection of God's blessing.

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul provides guidance on the marital relationship in Ephesians 5:22-33. While the passage primarily addresses the mutual responsibilities of husbands and wives, it also highlights the significance of a wife's role in the marriage. Paul writes, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior." This submission is not a call to subservience but rather an invitation to mutual respect and love, mirroring the relationship between Christ and the Church.

The Apostle Peter also speaks to the conduct of wives in 1 Peter 3:1-4, encouraging them to exhibit a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. He writes, "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives when they see your pure and reverent demeanor." This passage underscores the influence a godly wife can have on her husband, even in matters of faith.

The biblical portrayal of a good wife is not limited to her relationship with her husband but extends to her role within the family and community. Proverbs 31:27-28 states, "She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband praises her as well." This depiction emphasizes the industrious and nurturing nature of a good wife, whose efforts are recognized and appreciated by her family.

In summary, the Bible presents a good wife as a profound blessing to her husband, characterized by her noble character, wisdom, and reverence for God. Her influence extends beyond her immediate family, contributing to the spiritual and moral fabric of the community. Through her actions and demeanor, she embodies the virtues that are esteemed in the biblical tradition, serving as a testament to the divine favor bestowed upon her household.
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Proverbs 12:4
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that makes ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
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Proverbs 31:10,12
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
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Blessing Children. Concerning Childlikeness.
... The prayers of a good man in our behalf have always been regarded as a blessing;
no wonder, then ... joy and pleasure to faithful husbands and wives, serve by ...
/.../the four-fold gospel/xcix blessing children concerning childlikeness.htm

Mothers, Daughters, and Wives in Israel
... couple, and more particularly to defend the good fame of ... Almighty Himself took the
cup of blessing and spoke ... Wives such as Priscilla, mothers such as that of ...
/.../edersheim/sketches of jewish social life/chapter 9 mothers daughters and.htm

Epistle xxvi. To Theoctista, Patrician
... Who answered, Give me a blessing, Thou hast given ... the latter may shew hereafter what
good words they ... from their children, husbands from their wives, and wives ...
/.../epistle xxvi to theoctista patrician.htm

The Teaching of the Apostle on this Subject.
... evil, should rejoice in the hope of future blessing; "and they ... is effected with greater
ease when the wives, too, are ... they are chaste, because they are good men ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 15 the teaching of the.htm

The People of the New Earth
... f -5-8. Things uttered { Good bestowed, verses 5-7 ... looked forward with a heavenly
hope to a heavenly blessing. ... that husbands "ought to love their wives as their ...
/.../bullinger/commentary on revelation/the people of the new.htm

Paul and his Praying (Continued)
... would bless his efforts to do good, but he ... must cement their affections and sanctify
wives and children ... sands of that shore, invoking God's blessing upon these ...
/.../bounds/prayer and praying men/xiv paul and his praying.htm

On Mutual Subjection {1} --(First Printed in 1744)
... directed to obey their masters, children their parents, and wives their husbands ...
And yet wisdom is a mighty blessing when it is applied to good purposes, to ...
/.../swift/three sermons three prayers/on mutual subjection 1first printed.htm

The First Epistle General of Peter
... even unreasonable masters, wives if good and gentle ... husbands, husbands must reverence
their wives: kindness must ... Christ's sufferings issued in blessing, in His ...
/.../pullan/the books of the new testament/chapter xxi the first epistle.htm

The Epistle to the Colossians
... begins the letter with the apostolic blessing, the usual ... husbands and husbands should
love their wives; children must ... There are no good reasons to doubt the ...
/.../drummond/introduction to the new testament/the epistle to the colossians.htm

Titus ii. 5-Feb
... who under pretense of continence separates wives from their ... may be traced the beginning
of his good fortune. ... part must go before, and then the blessing of God ...
/.../homily iv titus ii 5-feb.htm

Resources
What does it mean that husbands are to love their wives? | GotQuestions.org

Why did God allow Solomon to have 1,000 wives and concubines? | GotQuestions.org

If a man has multiple wives and becomes a Christian, what is he supposed to do? | GotQuestions.org

Wives: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Wives: Duties of, to Their Husbands: To Reverence Them
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