Wives: Good: Secure Confidence of Husbands
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In the biblical context, the role of a wife is often portrayed as one of partnership, support, and mutual respect within the marriage covenant. A key aspect of this role is the ability of a wife to secure the confidence of her husband, fostering a relationship built on trust and reliability. This concept is deeply rooted in the wisdom literature and teachings of the Bible, where the virtues of a good wife are extolled.

Proverbs 31:10-12 provides a foundational understanding of the virtuous wife: "A wife of noble character, who can find? She is far more precious than rubies. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will lack nothing of value. She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life." This passage highlights the intrinsic value of a wife who is trustworthy and whose actions consistently benefit her husband. Her noble character is a source of security and confidence for him, as he can rely on her integrity and wisdom.

The trust between a husband and wife is further emphasized in Proverbs 31:23, where it is noted, "Her husband is known at the city gate, where he sits among the elders of the land." The implication here is that the husband's reputation and standing in the community are positively influenced by his wife's character and actions. Her ability to manage household affairs and support her husband allows him to fulfill his roles and responsibilities with confidence.

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul addresses the relationship between husbands and wives in Ephesians 5:22-24: "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." This passage is often understood within the framework of mutual submission and love, where the wife's respect and support for her husband are reciprocated by the husband's love and care for her, as further elaborated in Ephesians 5:25: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her."

The Apostle Peter also speaks to the conduct of wives in 1 Peter 3:1-2: "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives when they see your pure and reverent demeanor." Here, the emphasis is on the transformative power of a wife's conduct, which can inspire and influence her husband positively, even in matters of faith.

The biblical portrayal of a good wife as one who secures the confidence of her husband is not merely about submission but encompasses a broader spectrum of virtues, including wisdom, diligence, and moral integrity. These qualities contribute to a harmonious and trusting marital relationship, reflecting the divine order and purpose for marriage as instituted by God.
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Proverbs 31:11
The heart of her husband does safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
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Letter xv. Social and Relative Duties.
... she reverence her husband." "Likewise ye wives be in ... affections of impenitent sinners,
and thereby secure their attention ... reasons: 1. I see no good likely to ...
/.../letter xv social and relative.htm

Blemished Offerings
... taken it to Court in order to secure favour there. ... the love that knits many husbands
and wives, many parents ... to 'the governor,' but we think it good enough for ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture a/blemished offerings.htm

Ephesians vi. 8-May
... masters, and the master's threat goes far to secure that ... common Lord and Master of
all, as doing good to all ... again over their own wives; again the wives and the ...
/.../homily xxii ephesians vi 8-may.htm

Twenty Third Sunday after Trinity Enemies of the Cross of Christ ...
... else and not imagining, like self-secure, besotted souls ... These fruits constitute
the good works acceptable to ... virtuous"lords and princes, wives and husbands ...
/.../luther/epistle sermons vol iii/twenty third sunday after trinity.htm

The People among whom we Labour (Continued).
... it is difficult, often impossible, to secure an interview ... prompting to sustained
effort for the good of man ... been most difficult for the wives of missionaries to ...
/.../life and work in benares and kumaon 1839-1877/chapter xxix the people among.htm

Letter xxxiii. (AD 396. )
... conference with me in the presence of good men ... Husbands and wives, agreeing together
at the family hearth ... They desire to be secure of the earthly inheritance of ...
/.../augustine/the confessions and letters of st/letter xxxiii a d 396.htm

2 Cor. xi. 1
... himself even to all, both husbands and wives, he speaks ... For so shall we be able to
secure a footing ... heaven and to obtain the countless good things; whereunto ...
/.../homilies on the epistles of paul to the corinthians/homily xxiii 2 cor xi.htm

A Corps Commander
... Their wives see to the children and the meals and send ... home she is a model of
cleanliness and good management. ... locals, where it is at all possible to secure it ...
/.../carpenter/the angel adjutant of twice born men/v a corps commander.htm

Storming the Battlements
... should he turn Christian he should thus secure the empire ... the desert, he shall not
see when good cometh; his ... wife too much: "Husbands love you wives, as Christ ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 1 1855/storming the battlements.htm

V. ...
... to perform,"namely, that they dwell with their wives, endear themselves ... said
above,"in which we shall be secure, and stand up with a good conscience. ...
/.../the epistles of st peter and st jude preached and explained/chapter iii v .htm

Resources
Why did God allow polygamy / bigamy in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

Why did David need Abishag to keep him warm when he had wives and concubines? | GotQuestions.org

Does the Bible truly teach monogamy / monogamous relationships? | GotQuestions.org

Wives: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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