Wives: Good: Duty of, to Unbelieving Husbands
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In the Christian tradition, the role of a wife is often discussed in the context of her relationship with her husband, including situations where the husband may not share her faith. The Bible provides guidance on how a believing wife should conduct herself in such circumstances, emphasizing her duty to live out her faith in a manner that reflects Christ's love and grace.

Biblical Foundation

The primary scriptural reference for the duty of a believing wife to her unbelieving husband is found in 1 Peter 3:1-2 : "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives when they see your pure and reverent demeanor." This passage underscores the importance of a wife's conduct as a testimony to her faith, suggesting that her behavior can be a powerful witness to her husband.

Submission and Respect

The concept of submission is often highlighted in discussions about the role of a wife. Ephesians 5:22-24 states, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." This submission is not about inferiority but about honoring the marital relationship as ordained by God. It is an act of respect and love, reflecting the order and harmony intended in marriage.

Living Out the Gospel

A believing wife's duty extends beyond mere submission; it involves living out the gospel in her daily life. Her actions, characterized by love, patience, and kindness, serve as a living testimony to her faith. Colossians 3:18 advises, "Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord." This submission is fitting when it aligns with God's will and reflects His love.

Winning Over the Unbelieving Husband

The ultimate goal of a believing wife's conduct is to win over her unbelieving husband to the faith. This is achieved not through coercion or argument but through the quiet strength of her character and the evident transformation in her life brought about by her relationship with Christ. Her demeanor, marked by purity and reverence, can soften the heart of her husband and open the door for the Holy Spirit to work.

Prayer and Perseverance

A believing wife is encouraged to remain steadfast in prayer for her unbelieving husband. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 exhorts believers to "pray without ceasing," and this includes interceding for the spiritual well-being of one's spouse. Through prayer, a wife can seek God's guidance, strength, and wisdom in her interactions with her husband.

Conclusion

While the Bible provides clear guidance on the duty of a believing wife to her unbelieving husband, it is essential to approach this role with a heart full of love, grace, and humility. By embodying the principles of Christ-like behavior, a wife can become a powerful instrument of God's love and a beacon of hope within her marriage.
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1 Corinthians 7:13,14,16
And the woman which has an husband that believes not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
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1 Peter 3:1,2
Likewise, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
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Ephesians v. 22-24
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1 Cor. vii. 1, 2
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Third Sunday after Easter
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On Friendship with the World
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Acts X
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Matt. xix. 27
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Resources
Why did God allow polygamy / bigamy in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

Why did David need Abishag to keep him warm when he had wives and concubines? | GotQuestions.org

Does the Bible truly teach monogamy / monogamous relationships? | GotQuestions.org

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