Proverbs 17:21
New International Version
To have a fool for a child brings grief; there is no joy for the parent of a godless fool.

New Living Translation
It is painful to be the parent of a fool; there is no joy for the father of a rebel.

English Standard Version
He who sires a fool gets himself sorrow, and the father of a fool has no joy.

Berean Standard Bible
A man fathers a fool to his own grief; the father of a fool has no joy.

King James Bible
He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy.

New King James Version
He who begets a scoffer does so to his sorrow, And the father of a fool has no joy.

New American Standard Bible
He who fathers a fool does so to his sorrow, And the father of a fool has no joy.

NASB 1995
He who sires a fool does so to his sorrow, And the father of a fool has no joy.

NASB 1977
He who begets a fool does so to his sorrow, And the father of a fool has no joy.

Legacy Standard Bible
He who begets a fool does so to his grief, And the father of a wicked fool is not glad.

Amplified Bible
He who becomes the parent of a fool [who is spiritually blind] does so to his sorrow, And the father of a fool [who is spiritually blind] has no joy.

Christian Standard Bible
A man fathers a fool to his own sorrow; the father of a fool has no joy.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
A man fathers a fool to his own sorrow; the father of a fool has no joy.

American Standard Version
He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow; And the father of a fool hath no joy.

Contemporary English Version
It's never pleasant to be the parent of a fool and have nothing but pain.

English Revised Version
He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy.

GOD'S WORD® Translation
The parent of a fool has grief, and the father of a godless fool has no joy.

Good News Translation
There is nothing but sadness and sorrow for parents whose children do foolish things.

International Standard Version
The man who fathers a fool does so to his sorrow— the father of a fool has no joy.

Majority Standard Bible
A man fathers a fool to his own grief; the father of a fool has no joy.

NET Bible
Whoever brings a fool into the world does so to his grief, and the father of a fool has no joy.

New Heart English Bible
He who becomes the father of a fool grieves. The father of a fool has no joy.

Webster's Bible Translation
He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy.

World English Bible
He who becomes the father of a fool grieves. The father of a fool has no joy.
Literal Translations
Literal Standard Version
Whoever is begetting a fool has affliction for it, "" Indeed, the father of a fool does not rejoice.

Young's Literal Translation
Whoso is begetting a fool hath affliction for it, Yea, the father of a fool rejoiceth not.

Smith's Literal Translation
The foolish one was born for sorrow to himself, and the father of the foolish one shall not rejoice.
Catholic Translations
Douay-Rheims Bible
A fool is born to his own disgrace: and even his father shall not rejoice in a fool.

Catholic Public Domain Version
A foolish one is born into his own disgrace. But his father will not rejoice in one who is senseless.

New American Bible
Whoever conceives a fool has grief; the father of a numskull has no joy.

New Revised Standard Version
The one who begets a fool gets trouble; the parent of a fool has no joy.
Translations from Aramaic
Lamsa Bible
He who begets a fool does it to his own shame; his father will have no joy in him.

Peshitta Holy Bible Translated
He that begets a fool, it is to his own shame, neither will his father rejoice in him.
OT Translations
JPS Tanakh 1917
He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow; And the father of a churl hath no joy.

Brenton Septuagint Translation
and the heart of a fool is grief to its possessor. A father rejoices not over an uninstructed son; but a wise son gladdens his mother.

Additional Translations ...
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Context
Better a Dry Morsel in Quietness
20The one with a perverse heart finds no good, and he whose tongue is deceitful falls into trouble. 21A man fathers a fool to his own grief; the father of a fool has no joy. 22A joyful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones.…

Cross References
Proverbs 10:1
The proverbs of Solomon: A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish son grief to his mother.

Proverbs 15:20
A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish man despises his mother.

Proverbs 19:13
A foolish son is his father’s ruin, and a quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping.

Proverbs 23:24-25
The father of a righteous man will greatly rejoice, and he who fathers a wise son will delight in him. / May your father and mother be glad, and may she who gave you birth rejoice!

Proverbs 29:15
A rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to himself disgraces his mother.

Proverbs 29:17
Discipline your son, and he will give you rest; he will bring delight to your soul.

Ecclesiastes 2:18-19
I hated all for which I had toiled under the sun, because I must leave it to the man who comes after me. / And who knows whether that man will be wise or foolish? Yet he will take over all the labor at which I have worked skillfully under the sun. This too is futile.

1 Samuel 2:12-17
Now the sons of Eli were wicked men; they had no regard for the LORD / or for the custom of the priests with the people. When any man offered a sacrifice, the servant of the priest would come with a three-pronged meat fork while the meat was boiling / and plunge it into the pan or kettle or cauldron or cooking pot. And the priest would claim for himself whatever the meat fork brought up. This is how they treated all the Israelites who came to Shiloh. ...

2 Samuel 18:33
The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And as he walked, he cried out, “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!”

Genesis 26:34-35
When Esau was forty years old, he took as his wives Judith daughter of Beeri the Hittite and Basemath daughter of Elon the Hittite. / And they brought grief to Isaac and Rebekah.

Genesis 27:46
Then Rebekah said to Isaac, “I am weary of my life because of these Hittite women. If Jacob takes a Hittite wife from among them, what good is my life?”

Luke 15:11-32
Then Jesus said, “There was a man who had two sons. / The younger son said to him, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them. / After a few days, the younger son got everything together and journeyed to a distant country, where he squandered his wealth in wild living. ...

Ephesians 6:1-4
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. / “Honor your father and mother” (which is the first commandment with a promise), / “that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life on the earth.” ...

Colossians 3:20-21
Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord. / Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they will not become discouraged.

Hebrews 12:5-11
And you have forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons: “My son, do not take lightly the discipline of the Lord, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you. / For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastises every son He receives.” / Endure suffering as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? ...


Treasury of Scripture

He that begets a fool does it to his sorrow: and the father of a fool has no joy.

that

Proverbs 17:25
A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her that bare him.

Proverbs 10:1
The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.

Proverbs 15:20
A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish man despiseth his mother.

hath

Proverbs 23:15,16
My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine…

2 Corinthians 2:3
And I wrote this same unto you, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is the joy of you all.

3 John 1:4
I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.

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Proverbs 17
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A man fathers a fool
The Hebrew word for "fool" here is "כְּסִיל" (kesil), which often denotes someone who is morally deficient or lacking in wisdom. In the ancient Near Eastern context, wisdom was not merely intellectual but deeply tied to moral and ethical living. The act of "fathering" a fool suggests a failure in imparting wisdom and godly values, which was a significant responsibility in Hebrew culture. Fathers were expected to guide their children in the ways of the Lord, as seen in Deuteronomy 6:6-7. The grief mentioned here is profound, as it reflects a failure in fulfilling one's God-given role as a parent.

to his own grief
The Hebrew word for "grief" is "תּוּגָה" (tugah), which conveys deep sorrow or distress. This grief is not just personal but communal, as the family unit was central to Israelite society. The failure of a child to live wisely and righteously brought shame not only to the family but also to the community. In a conservative Christian perspective, this highlights the importance of raising children in the fear and admonition of the Lord, as emphasized in Ephesians 6:4. The grief is a reminder of the spiritual and emotional consequences of neglecting this duty.

the father of a fool
Reiterating the earlier phrase, this emphasizes the personal connection and responsibility of the father. In biblical times, the father was the primary educator and disciplinarian in the family. The repetition underscores the weight of responsibility on the father's shoulders. The fool's actions reflect back on the father, affecting his reputation and standing within the community. This serves as a cautionary tale for parents to diligently teach and model godly behavior.

has no joy
The absence of joy, "שִׂמְחָה" (simchah) in Hebrew, is significant. Joy in the biblical sense is often associated with righteousness and the presence of God (Psalm 16:11). The lack of joy here is not just emotional but spiritual, indicating a disruption in the relationship with God. In a conservative Christian view, this underscores the importance of raising children who walk in truth and righteousness, as this brings joy not only to the parents but also to God. The verse serves as a sobering reminder of the eternal impact of parenting and the joy that comes from seeing one's children walk in the truth (3 John 1:4).

(21) He that begetteth a fool (khesil).--See above, on Proverbs 1:32.

The father of a fool (n?bh?l).--See above, on Proverbs 17:7.

Verse 21. - He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow (comp. ver. 25). The words for "fool" in the two clauses are different. Here it is kesil, which implies bold, self-confident folly, the worst form of the vies; in the second hemistich it is nabal, which rather denotes dulness and stupidity, a want of mental power. A conceited, offensive fool causes infinite trouble to his father, both from his need of constant correction, and the watchfulness required to repair the consequences of his foolish actions. There is also the grief at seeing instruction and warning thrown away on a worthless object. Septuagint, "The heart of a fool is a pain to him who possesseth it." The father of a fool hath no joy. The contrast in the case of a good son is seen in Proverbs 15:20 and Proverbs 23:24. The LXX. adds a clause from Proverbs 10:1, with the view of improving the parallelism, "But a prudent son rejoiceth his mother."

Parallel Commentaries ...


Hebrew
A man fathers
יֹלֵ֣ד (yō·lêḏ)
Verb - Qal - Participle - masculine singular
Strong's 3205: To bear young, to beget, medically, to act as midwife, to show lineage

a fool
כְּ֭סִיל (kə·sîl)
Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 3684: Stupid fellow, dullard, fool

to his own grief;
לְת֣וּגָה (lə·ṯū·ḡāh)
Preposition-l | Noun - feminine singular
Strong's 8424: Depression, a grief

the father
אֲבִ֣י (’ă·ḇî)
Noun - masculine singular construct
Strong's 1: Father

of a fool
נָבָֽל׃ (nā·ḇāl)
Adjective - masculine singular
Strong's 5036: Foolish, senseless

has no
וְלֹֽא־ (wə·lō-)
Conjunctive waw | Adverb - Negative particle
Strong's 3808: Not, no

joy.
יִ֝שְׂמַ֗ח (yiś·maḥ)
Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 8055: To brighten up, be, blithe, gleesome


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