Unsaved Husbands
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The topic of unsaved husbands is addressed in the Bible, particularly in the context of marriage where one spouse is a believer and the other is not. This situation is often discussed in terms of the challenges and responsibilities faced by the believing spouse, usually the wife, in maintaining her faith and potentially leading her husband to salvation.

Biblical Context

The Apostle Paul addresses the issue of mixed-faith marriages in his first letter to the Corinthians. In 1 Corinthians 7:12-14 , Paul writes, "To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy."

This passage emphasizes the sanctifying influence a believing spouse can have on an unbelieving partner. The presence of a believer in the household brings a measure of spiritual blessing and influence, which can extend to the children as well.

Role of the Believing Wife

The Apostle Peter provides further guidance in 1 Peter 3:1-2 : "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives when they see your pure and reverent demeanor." Here, Peter encourages believing wives to exhibit Christ-like behavior, suggesting that their conduct can be a powerful testimony to their unsaved husbands.

The emphasis is on living out one's faith through actions rather than words, demonstrating the transformative power of the Gospel through a life of purity, respect, and reverence. This approach can potentially lead the unsaved husband to a place of openness to the Christian faith.

Challenges and Encouragement

Living with an unsaved husband can present unique challenges, including differences in values, priorities, and spiritual practices. The believing spouse may face difficulties in areas such as raising children in the faith, participating in church activities, and maintaining a spiritual household.

However, Scripture offers encouragement and hope. The believing spouse is reminded of the power of prayer, the importance of patience, and the potential for God to work in the heart of the unbelieving partner. James 5:16 states, "The prayer of a righteous person has great power to prevail." This underscores the importance of persistent prayer for the salvation of the unsaved husband.

Practical Considerations

Believing spouses are encouraged to seek support from their church community, engage in regular prayer and Bible study, and maintain a strong personal relationship with God. They are also advised to set healthy boundaries and communicate openly with their spouse about their faith and its significance in their lives.

In summary, the Bible provides guidance and hope for those in marriages with unsaved husbands, emphasizing the power of a godly example, the influence of prayer, and the potential for spiritual transformation within the marriage.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Peter 3:1-7
Likewise, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
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1 Peter 3:1-6
Likewise, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
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1 Peter 3:1
Likewise, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
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1 Corinthians 7:13
And the woman which has an husband that believes not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
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Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
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Library

A Corps Commander
... was first admitted as an auxiliary in our efforts to attract the unsaved, it has ...
Their wives see to the children and the meals and send their husbands to their ...
/.../carpenter/the angel adjutant of twice born men/v a corps commander.htm

A Leap Year Sermon *
... mother, who is in heaven, and who died leaving her son unsaved, might seem ... you wives,
who have been praying for your husbands these many years, never give them ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 46 1900/a leap year sermon .htm

Healing for the Wounded
... We have known tender wives who have laid their husbands in the tomb, and who have ...
one breast, and yet the subject of them may be unpardoned and unsaved; but if ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 1 1855/healing for the wounded.htm

The Domestic Relation.
... how many husbands and wives, who fear to meet the responsibilities involved thus
upon them ... The child was at one time moved to plead with an unsaved relative to ...
/.../orr/the gospel day /chapter xiii the domestic relation.htm

The Way from Sin to Perfect Salvation.
... It forces confidence in the hearts of the unsaved and gains their attention. ... "Husbands,
love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself ...
//christianbookshelf.org/orr/the gospel day /chapter v the way from.htm

Nothing but Leaves
... they can sometimes get at the wives, yet there are thousands of husbands who are ...
of thousands every day who pass into the world of spirits unsaved, and inherit ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 10 1864/nothing but leaves.htm

Drunkenness.
... The downfall and ruin of this young man, and the unsaved fate of his brother ... Wives
need not expect their husbands to remain devoted and loyal until the saloon ...
/.../judy/questionable amusements and worthy substitutes/ii drunkenness.htm

Labors in a New Field
... Some of the women went to the door to beg their husbands and brothers ... that neighborhood,
this same young man and his brother, although unsaved, befriended me ...
/.../cole/trials and triumphs of faith/chapter xi labors in a.htm

Resources
What does it mean that husbands are to love their wives? | GotQuestions.org

What are the roles of the husband and wife in a family? | GotQuestions.org

Does a wife have to submit to her husband? | GotQuestions.org

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