Husbands: Duty of, to Wives: To Consult With Them
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In the biblical framework of marriage, the relationship between husbands and wives is characterized by mutual respect, love, and partnership. One of the key duties of a husband is to consult with his wife, recognizing her as a valuable partner in decision-making and family life. This duty is rooted in the biblical understanding of marriage as a union where both partners are called to work together harmoniously.

Genesis 2:24 provides the foundational understanding of marriage: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse underscores the unity and partnership inherent in marriage, suggesting that decisions should be made together as one entity.

Ephesians 5:25-28 further elaborates on the husband's role: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to Himself as a glorious church, without stain or wrinkle or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." This passage emphasizes sacrificial love and care, which naturally includes valuing the wife's perspective and wisdom in decision-making processes.

1 Peter 3:7 instructs husbands to "treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered." This verse highlights the importance of understanding and honoring the wife, which involves consulting her and valuing her input.

The book of Proverbs also provides wisdom on the value of a wife's counsel. Proverbs 31:10-12 describes a virtuous wife whose worth is far above rubies, and whose husband has full confidence in her. This implies a relationship where the husband seeks and trusts his wife's advice and insights.

In the biblical narrative, we see examples of husbands consulting their wives. For instance, in Judges 13:21-23, Manoah consults his wife after the angel of the Lord appears to her, demonstrating a partnership in understanding God's will for their family.

The duty of a husband to consult with his wife is not merely a practical consideration but a spiritual one, reflecting the unity and love that God intends for marriage. By seeking his wife's counsel, a husband honors her as an equal partner and acknowledges the wisdom that God has bestowed upon her.
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The Heroic Women of Early Indiana Methodism.
... Yet I well know I can not enjoy happiness with you, except in the way of duty;
therefore, my ... But these heroic wives and their heroic husbands were not ...
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Of Civil Government.
... whom they are enjoined to love and to spare as the weaker vessels; would children
be less bound in duty to their parents, and wives to their husbands? ...
/.../the institutes of the christian religion/chapter 20 of civil government.htm

On Matrimony
... Again, if husbands and wives could separate for this or that ... "Bring up their children."
This is their most important duty, and parents receive grace to ...
/.../kinkead/baltimore catechism no 4/lesson 26 on matrimony.htm

Continuation: with Texts from Scripture.
... Knowing, then, the duty of each, "pass the time of your sojourning here in fear:
forasmuch as ye know that ye ... And let husbands love their wives as Christ ...
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Letter cxxxviii. (AD 412. )
... men whose welfare rather than their wishes it is our duty to consult and ... them to
be; let them give us such subjects, such husbands and wives, such parents ...
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From the Commencement of the Revolution in 1776, to Its ...
... without giving evidence of repentance; and a third making it the duty of preachers ...
fate of their sons who were in the army, and wives for their husbands. ...
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Touching the First Subject of all the Forementioned Power of the ...
... But countrey huswives, and poore mens wives, whose husbands have ... to be instead of
many servants to their husbands. ... Nor was that a peculiar duty or privilege of ...
/.../chap vii touching the first.htm

A Case of Conscience Resolved
... but THEY shall pray apart, and THEIR wives apart ... if they will learn, they must ask
their husbands at home ... queen, performed, with her maidens, this duty of prayer ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/a case of conscience resolved.htm

Monos
... Husbands and wives are not ... the mere interchange of glances; a civilisation which
must make it easy for the Englishman, if he will but do his duty, not only ...
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Period I: the Imperial State Church of the Undivided Empire, or ...
... the functions of swineherd, and let themselves be held to the duty of swineherd ... But
there is no application of this benefit to husbands and wives as regards ...
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Resources
What does it mean that husbands are to love their wives? | GotQuestions.org

What are the roles of the husband and wife in a family? | GotQuestions.org

Does a wife have to submit to her husband? | GotQuestions.org

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