Husbands: Bad: Solomon
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Solomon, the son of King David and Bathsheba, is renowned for his wisdom, wealth, and extensive building projects, including the construction of the First Temple in Jerusalem. However, despite his early devotion to God, Solomon's reign is also marked by significant moral and spiritual failings, particularly in his role as a husband.

Polygamy and Idolatry

Solomon's marital practices are a primary area of concern. The Bible records that Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines (1 Kings 11:3). This extensive polygamy was not only a departure from the monogamous ideal established in Genesis 2:24 but also a direct violation of the Deuteronomic law, which warned against kings multiplying wives for themselves (Deuteronomy 17:17). Solomon's marriages were often politically motivated, forming alliances with surrounding nations. However, these alliances came at a spiritual cost.

The influence of Solomon's foreign wives led him into idolatry. 1 Kings 11:4-6 states, "For when Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the LORD his God, as the heart of David his father had been. Solomon followed Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians and Milcom the abomination of the Ammonites. So Solomon did evil in the sight of the LORD; unlike his father David, he did not follow the LORD completely." This apostasy was a direct result of Solomon's failure to adhere to God's commandments regarding marriage and worship.

Consequences of Disobedience

Solomon's disobedience had far-reaching consequences. The Lord became angry with Solomon because his heart had turned away from the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice (1 Kings 11:9-10). As a result, God declared that the kingdom would be torn away from Solomon's son, leading to the division of Israel after Solomon's death (1 Kings 11:11-13). This division marked the beginning of a period of instability and decline for the nation.

Failure in Leadership and Family

Solomon's failure as a husband also reflected a broader failure in leadership. By allowing his heart to be led astray, Solomon set a poor example for the nation of Israel. His inability to maintain spiritual integrity in his personal life undermined his ability to lead the people in faithfulness to God. Furthermore, Solomon's domestic life, characterized by divided loyalties and spiritual compromise, likely contributed to the challenges faced by his successor, Rehoboam.

Lessons from Solomon's Example

Solomon's life serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of compromising one's faith and values for political or personal gain. His account underscores the importance of adhering to God's commandments, particularly in the context of marriage. The New Testament reiterates the call for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), a standard that Solomon's life ultimately failed to meet. Solomon's example reminds believers of the need for spiritual vigilance and the consequences of allowing worldly influences to lead one's heart away from God.
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1 Kings 11:1
But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, and Hittites:
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Of Two Degrees of Perfection with which this Commandment May be ...
... While the great King Solomon, possessing as yet the ... held captives by the multitude
of bad inclinations and ... even as young girls love their husbands properly if ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter iv of two degrees.htm

Fathers and Children'
... Of course he would tell bad parents and children to ... everyday earthly life of ours,
which Solomon sets forth ... 'Husbands love your wives, as Christ also loved the ...
/.../kingsley/sermons for the times/sermon i fathers and children.htm

The Christian Home
... at home, good, obedient to their own husbands that the ... scandal, going up from such
cases is bad, is unquestioned ... vines have tender grapes" (Song of Solomon 2:15 ...
/.../sell/studies in the life of the christian/study x the christian home.htm

Post-Nicene Mothers
... It is on such that Solomon in the Book of Proverbs ... of the time give this woman an
exceedingly bad name, and ... The ladies of rank urged their husbands to petition ...
/.../brittain/women of early christianity/v post-nicene mothers.htm

A Compendious view of the Christian Life.
... sobriety," [1689] "subject to their own husbands; that, if ... Such a one is called by
Solomon "a foolish ... mouth of Moses, recognising companionship with bad men as ...
/.../clement/the instructor paedagogus/chapter xi a compendious view of.htm

Letter cxxiii. To Ageruchia.
... worthy of praise because she is not so bad as the ... is harder still if they suppose
their husbands to be ... not enough, David had many wives and Solomon a countless ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter cxxiii to ageruchia.htm

Of Hell
... and dearest relations; their wives, husbands, parents, children ... not of this, chiefly,
that Solomon speaks, when ... fact, will receive his own bad reward, according ...
/.../wesley/sermons on several occasions/sermon 73 of hell.htm

Letter xv. Social and Relative Duties.
... wives be in subjection to your own husbands." There can ... by one whose character you
know to be bad. ... Solomon, also, speaking of the naughty person and wicked man ...
/.../letter xv social and relative.htm

The Seventh Commandment
... Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the ... Solomon besotted himself
with women, and they enticed him to ... fire of lust is kindled in bad company ...
/.../watson/the ten commandments/2 7 the seventh commandment.htm

Letter cxxv. To Rusticus.
... is drawn of the difference between a good monk and a bad. ... did she herself believe,
and after her six husbands find one ... [3400] Was ever man wiser than Solomon? ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter cxxv to rusticus.htm

Resources
What is Christian domestic discipline (CDD)? | GotQuestions.org

What does it mean to be a godly husband? | GotQuestions.org

Do women have to remain silent in church? | GotQuestions.org

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