Authority Over Your Children
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Definition and Scope

Authority over one's children is a biblically endorsed responsibility and privilege granted to parents. This authority encompasses the guidance, discipline, and nurturing of children in accordance with God's commandments and principles. It is a stewardship role that requires parents to lead their children in the ways of the Lord, ensuring their spiritual, moral, and physical well-being.

Biblical Foundation

The Bible provides a clear framework for parental authority, emphasizing the importance of raising children in a godly manner. In Ephesians 6:4 , the Apostle Paul instructs, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." This verse highlights the dual responsibility of parents to avoid harshness while actively teaching their children about God.

Similarly, Proverbs 22:6 states, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." This proverb underscores the long-term impact of a parent's guidance and the importance of instilling biblical values from an early age.

Discipline and Instruction

Discipline is a critical aspect of exercising authority over children. Hebrews 12:7-11 draws a parallel between divine discipline and parental discipline, noting that both are expressions of love and are intended for the child's benefit. Verse 11 states, "No discipline seems enjoyable at the time, but painful. But later on, it yields a peaceful harvest of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."

Proverbs 13:24 further reinforces this concept: "He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently." This proverb suggests that appropriate discipline is an expression of love and concern for the child's future.

Role Modeling and Teaching

Parents are called to be role models, exemplifying godly behavior and character. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 commands, "These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." This passage emphasizes the importance of integrating God's commandments into daily life and conversations.

Respect and Obedience

Children are instructed to respect and obey their parents as part of the divine order. Ephesians 6:1-3 states, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother' (which is the first commandment with a promise), 'that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life on the earth.'" This commandment, rooted in the Ten Commandments, highlights the blessings associated with honoring parental authority.

Challenges and Responsibilities

While the Bible provides clear guidelines, exercising authority over children can be challenging. Parents must balance discipline with love, authority with compassion, and instruction with understanding. James 1:5 offers encouragement, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." Parents are encouraged to seek divine wisdom in fulfilling their role.

Conclusion

The biblical perspective on authority over children is one of stewardship, love, and responsibility. Parents are called to guide their children in the ways of the Lord, ensuring their growth in faith and character. Through discipline, teaching, and example, parents fulfill their God-given role, trusting in His guidance and wisdom.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Timothy 2:15
Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
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Titus 2:4
That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
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1 Timothy 5:14
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
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1 Timothy 3:5
(For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
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He Proves that Christ is the Lord of Hosts from Ps. xxiv. , and ...
... xxiv., and from his authority over demons. ... He has appeared to your joy, and they
shall be ashamed. ... for Zion has travailed and borne her children. ...
/.../chapter lxxxv he proves that christ.htm

Ephesians vi. 3-Jan
... the whole source of it to the head and chief authority. ... be king of the whole world
ten thousand times over? ... him these things, but to prevent your attending to ...
/.../homily xxi ephesians vi 3-jan.htm

The Fourfold Symbols of the Spirit
... the true Christian principle: 'Ye are all the children of God ... and fits you to be
kings, exercising authority over the little monarchy of your own natures ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture the acts/the fourfold symbols of the.htm

1 Timothy ii. 15-Nov
... woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man ... Mothers, be specially careful
to regulate your daughters well ... Be watchful over them, that they may be keepers ...
/.../homily ix 1 timothy ii.htm

The Form of Sound Words
... our feet, our eyes and our lips, hath but little authority over our judgments ... you,
parents, as much as lieth in you, to give your children sound instruction in ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 2 1856/the form of sound words.htm

Jesus Gives his Last Commands to his Helpers
... landed, they saw a charcoal fire burning, and over it a ... the Father has fixed by his
own authority; but you ... it is promised to you, and to your children, and to ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/jesus gives his last commands.htm

Demonstration xvii. --Of Christ the Son of God.
... the name of Kingship, and the name of authority; because He ... the Father of the created
things that are over the face ... of the Lord, if ye make fair your ways and ...
/.../aphrahat select demonstrations/demonstration xvii of christ the son.htm

The Rewards for Following Jesus' Teachings
... on your right hand and one on your left." But ... are rulers in foreign countries lord
it over those under them, and their great men have authority over them; but ...
/.../sherman/the childrens bible/the rewards for following jesus.htm

Stones Crying Out
... causality, Joshua's delegated but absolute authority, and the ... many prehistoric monuments
found all over the world ... attended to, 'Ye shall let your children know ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture f/stones crying out.htm

1 Cor. vi. 15
... members of Christ?" thenceforth speaking as to children of noble ... For you have no
authority over the flesh in the ... Let the thought enter your mind at least from ...
/.../homilies on the epistles of paul to the corinthians/homily xviii 1 cor vi.htm

Resources
What is the authority of the believer? | GotQuestions.org

Does the Bible give any one individual spiritual authority over another individual? | GotQuestions.org

Should Catholic tradition have equal or greater authority than the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

Authority: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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