Flattery by Jacob
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Flattery, as depicted in the Bible, is often viewed as insincere praise or excessive compliments given with the intent to deceive or manipulate. It is a form of deceit that can lead individuals away from truth and righteousness. The Scriptures provide numerous warnings against the use of flattery, highlighting its potential to corrupt and mislead.

Biblical References and Context

1. Proverbs on Flattery: The Book of Proverbs frequently addresses the dangers of flattery. Proverbs 26:28 states, "A lying tongue hates those it crushes, and a flattering mouth works ruin." This verse underscores the destructive nature of flattery, equating it with deceit and harm. Similarly, Proverbs 29:5 warns, "A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet." Here, flattery is likened to a trap, suggesting that those who engage in it may lead others into peril.

2. Flattery in the Psalms: The Psalms also caution against flattery. Psalm 12:2-3 declares, "They lie to one another; they speak with flattering lips and a double heart. May the LORD cut off all flattering lips and the tongue that speaks proud things." This passage highlights the duplicity associated with flattery and calls for divine intervention against those who use it.

3. New Testament Warnings: The New Testament continues to warn against flattery. In Romans 16:18, Paul writes, "For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery, they deceive the hearts of the naive." This verse emphasizes that flattery is often used by those who seek to serve their own interests rather than the interests of Christ, leading the unsuspecting astray.

4. Flattery and False Prophets: Flattery is also associated with false prophets and teachers. In 2 Peter 2:18, it is written, "For they mouth empty, boastful words and, by appealing to the lustful desires of the flesh, they entice people who are just escaping from those who live in error." This passage suggests that flattery can be a tool used by false teachers to lure individuals away from the truth.

Moral and Ethical Implications

From a biblical perspective, flattery is not merely a social faux pas but a moral failing that can have serious spiritual consequences. It is often linked with pride, deceit, and manipulation, all of which are condemned in Scripture. The Bible encourages believers to speak truthfully and to avoid the temptation to use flattery for personal gain or to manipulate others.

Practical Application

Believers are called to be discerning and to recognize the difference between genuine encouragement and insincere flattery. Ephesians 4:15 advises, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Christ Himself, who is the head." This verse encourages Christians to prioritize truth and love in their interactions, avoiding the pitfalls of flattery.

In summary, the Bible presents flattery as a dangerous and deceitful practice that can lead individuals away from truth and righteousness. It is a tool often used by those with ulterior motives, and believers are urged to be vigilant and to uphold truth in their speech and actions.
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Genesis 33:10
And Jacob said, No, I pray you, if now I have found grace in your sight, then receive my present at my hand: for therefore I have seen your face, as though I had seen the face of God, and you were pleased with me.
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Jacob and Doubting Souls --A Parallel
... See how quickly the patriarch changes from Jacob into Israel; when his spirit if
revived, he becomes Israel. 28. ... There is no flattery on his lips. ...
/.../spurgeons sermons volume 42 1896/jacob and doubting soulsa parallel.htm

Chapter xxxiii
... The statement: "I beheld thy face as one sees the face of God," is not fulsome flattery
meant as if Jacob had been as glad to see Esau as one would be to see ...
/.../leupold/exposition of genesis volume 1/chapter xxxiii.htm

Psalm XIV.
... "With their tongues they have dealt craftily." Flattery is the ... is said, "There shall
come out of Sion He who shall turn away ungodliness from Jacob:" [494] for ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/augustine/exposition on the book of psalms/psalm xiv.htm

Fear Not
... We do not like it if it is labeled flattery; but we like it if it is ... what little
things we are, that we may claim this promise""Fear not, thou worm Jacob.". ...
//christianbookshelf.org/spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 3 1857/fear not.htm

1 Thessalonians ii. 12-Sep
... For if the blessed Jacob was buffeted night and day in keeping his flocks, much ... and
the way in which he acted, that he did not preach with flattery or vainglory ...
/.../homily iii 1 thessalonians ii.htm

The Prayer of Jabez
... When Jacob was surnamed Israel, he received his princedom after a memorable night
of prayer. ... Men are sometimes blessed in a very fulsome sense by flattery. ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 17 1871/the prayer of jabez.htm

A Faithful Friend
... it must not be labeled flattery; for we have a religious abhorrence of flattery
if it ... Jacob said when his sons went to Egypt, "Take the man a present, a little ...
//christianbookshelf.org/spurgeon/sermons on proverbs/a faithful friend.htm

A Faithful Friend
... must not be labeled flattery; for we have a religious abhorrence of flattery if
it ... Jacob said, when his sons went to Egypt, "Take the man a present, a little ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 3 1857/a faithful friend.htm

Paul Before Felix
... Its dignified, courteous beginning contrasts well with the accuser's dishonest flattery. ...
the worship of the God of Abraham and of Isaac and of Jacob, not the ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture the acts/paul before felix.htm

Matt. xxii. 15
... with an answer to the question, they look to puff Him up by their flattery, and
to ... read, I am the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob? ...
/.../chrysostom/homilies on the gospel of saint matthew/homily lxx matt xxii 15.htm

Resources
What does the Bible say about flattery? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about sincerity? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about honesty? | GotQuestions.org

Flattery: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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