Friendship: David and Jonathan
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The friendship between David and Jonathan is one of the most profound and celebrated relationships in the Bible, exemplifying loyalty, love, and covenantal commitment. This friendship is primarily documented in the books of 1 Samuel and 2 Samuel, providing a model of selfless devotion and mutual respect.

Background

Jonathan was the eldest son of King Saul, the first king of Israel, and a valiant warrior in his own right. David, the youngest son of Jesse, was anointed by the prophet Samuel to be the future king of Israel, chosen by God for his heart and faithfulness. Their paths crossed after David's victory over Goliath, a moment that marked the beginning of their deep friendship.

The Covenant of Friendship

The bond between David and Jonathan is first mentioned in 1 Samuel 18:1-4. The Scripture states, "After David had finished speaking with Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as himself" (1 Samuel 18:1). This profound connection led Jonathan to make a covenant with David, symbolizing his commitment by giving David his robe, armor, sword, bow, and belt. This act was not only a gesture of friendship but also a recognition of David's future role as king.

Loyalty Amidst Adversity

Jonathan's loyalty to David was tested as Saul's jealousy and hostility towards David grew. Despite his father's intentions to kill David, Jonathan remained steadfast in his support. In 1 Samuel 19:1-2, Jonathan warns David of Saul's plans, saying, "My father Saul intends to kill you. Be on your guard in the morning; find a secret place and hide there" . Jonathan's actions demonstrate his willingness to protect David, even at the risk of his own relationship with his father.

A Covenant Renewed

In 1 Samuel 20, the depth of their friendship is further revealed. David, fearing for his life, seeks assurance from Jonathan. Jonathan devises a plan to communicate Saul's intentions to David, reaffirming his loyalty. In 1 Samuel 20:16-17, they renew their covenant: "So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David, saying, 'May the LORD hold David’s enemies accountable.' And Jonathan had David reaffirm his vow out of love for him, for Jonathan loved David as he loved himself" . This covenant extended beyond their lifetimes, impacting future generations.

Final Meeting and Legacy

Their final meeting occurs in 1 Samuel 23:16-18, where Jonathan visits David in the wilderness to strengthen him in God. Jonathan reassures David of his future as king and acknowledges his own position, saying, "Do not be afraid, for the hand of my father Saul will never lay hold of you. You will be king over Israel, and I will be your second-in-command. Even my father Saul knows this is true" (1 Samuel 23:17). This encounter underscores Jonathan's humility and acceptance of God's will.

Jonathan's death in battle, as recorded in 1 Samuel 31, deeply grieves David. In 2 Samuel 1:26, David laments, "I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother. You were very dear to me. Your love for me was more wonderful than the love of women" . This lament highlights the extraordinary nature of their friendship.

Theological Significance

The friendship between David and Jonathan is often seen as a reflection of divine love and covenantal faithfulness. It serves as an example of how true friendship transcends personal ambition, familial loyalty, and even political power. Their relationship is a testament to the power of love and loyalty grounded in faith and commitment to God's purposes.
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1 Samuel 18:1-4
And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking to Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.
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1 Samuel 20:1
And David fled from Naioth in Ramah, and came and said before Jonathan, What have I done? what is my iniquity? and what is my sin before your father, that he seeks my life?
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1 Samuel 23:16-18
And Jonathan Saul's son arose, and went to David into the wood, and strengthened his hand in God.
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2 Samuel 1:17-27
And David lamented with this lamentation over Saul and over Jonathan his son:
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2 Samuel 9:1-13
And David said, Is there yet any that is left of the house of Saul, that I may show him kindness for Jonathan's sake?
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Friendship; Or, David and Jonathan
... SERMON V. FRIENDSHIP; OR, DAVID AND JONATHAN. 2 Samuel i. 26. I am distressed
for thee, my brother Jonathan: very pleasant hast thou ...
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Jonathan, the Pattern of Friendship
... The friendship of Jonathan for David comes like a breath of pure air in the midst
of the heavy-laden atmosphere of hate and mad fury, or like some clear ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture f/jonathan the pattern of friendship.htm

How David, Upon Saul's Laying Snares for Him, did yet Escape the ...
... Hereupon Jonathan exhorted him not to give credit to such his ... But David sware to
him that so it was; and ... was this, that he knew of the friendship and affection ...
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How David Brought under the Philistines, and the Moabites, and the ...
... CHAPTER 5. How David Brought Under The Philistines, And The Moabites, And The ... The
King Of Hamath; And Was Mindful Of The Friendship That Jonathan, The Son ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 5 how david brought.htm

Will the Knowledge that Some of Our Own are Lost, Mar Our ...
... Holy Scripture gives us a striking instance of this transforming power of
love, in the friendship of Jonathan for David. According ...
/.../boudreaux/the happiness of heaven/chapter xii will the knowledge.htm

Faithful unto Death.
... could not see his friend Jonathan, but they were faithful in their friendship, and
when at last Saul was slain in battle, and Jonathan also, David came to ...
/.../lathbury/childs story of the bible/chapter xxi faithful unto death.htm

David
... DAVID'S ANGER. SERMON IV. DAVID'S DESERTS. SERMON V. FRIENDSHIP; OR, DAVID AND JONATHAN.
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Of the Sovereign Degree of Union by Suspension and Ravishment.
... is said that: The soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David. [332] And it
is an axiom celebrated amongst the ancient Fathers, that friendship which can ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter iii of the sovereign.htm

Expositions of Holy Scripture
... A SOUL'S TRAGEDY. JONATHAN, THE PATTERN OF FRIENDSHIP. LOVE FOR HATE, THE TRUE
QUID PRO QUO. ... DAVID'S GRATITUDE. DAVID AND JONATHAN'S SON. ...
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Jesus and the Beloved Disciple.
... the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul, so at this first meeting
the soul of John was knit with the soul of Jesus in a holy friendship which ...
/.../miller/personal friendships of jesus/chapter vi jesus and the.htm

Resources
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