Guest: Rules for the Conduct of
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In biblical times, the treatment and conduct of guests were of significant importance, reflecting broader themes of hospitality, kindness, and community. The Bible provides various guidelines and examples regarding how guests should be treated and how they should conduct themselves.

Hospitality as a Virtue

Hospitality is a recurring theme in the Bible, often seen as a reflection of one's righteousness and obedience to God. In the Old Testament, Abraham's reception of the three visitors in Genesis 18:1-8 exemplifies the ideal conduct towards guests. Abraham hurried to meet them, offered water to wash their feet, and prepared a meal, demonstrating generosity and respect. This narrative underscores the importance of welcoming strangers and providing for their needs.

Instructions for Hosts

The Bible instructs hosts to treat guests with kindness and generosity. In Leviticus 19:33-34 , God commands the Israelites to treat foreigners residing among them as native-born, loving them as themselves. This principle extends to all guests, emphasizing the need for compassion and equality.

In the New Testament, hospitality is further emphasized. Hebrews 13:2 advises, "Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it." This passage suggests that hospitality is not only a duty but also a potential blessing.

Conduct of Guests

While the Bible primarily focuses on the responsibilities of the host, it also implies certain expectations for guests. Guests are to be respectful and appreciative of the hospitality offered. Proverbs 25:17 advises, "Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house, lest he grow weary and hate you." This proverb suggests that guests should be considerate of their host's resources and time, avoiding overstay or imposition.

Jesus and Hospitality

Jesus' teachings and actions further illuminate the biblical perspective on hospitality. In Luke 10:38-42, the account of Mary and Martha illustrates the balance between service and attentiveness. While Martha is busy with preparations, Mary sits at Jesus' feet, listening to His teaching. Jesus commends Mary for choosing "what is better," highlighting the importance of spiritual nourishment alongside physical hospitality.

Moreover, in Matthew 25:35-40 , Jesus identifies Himself with the needy, stating, "I was a stranger and you took Me in." This passage reinforces the idea that hospitality to others is akin to serving Christ Himself.

Cultural Context

In the ancient Near Eastern culture, hospitality was not merely a social nicety but a crucial aspect of survival and community cohesion. Travelers depended on the kindness of others for shelter and sustenance. The biblical rules for the conduct of guests and hosts reflect this cultural context, emphasizing mutual respect and care.

Conclusion

The Bible presents hospitality as a fundamental expression of love and obedience to God. Both hosts and guests are called to conduct themselves with respect, generosity, and gratitude, reflecting the broader biblical principles of love, community, and service.
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Proverbs 23:1-3,6-8
When you sit to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before you:
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Proverbs 25:6,7,17
Put not forth yourself in the presence of the king, and stand not in the place of great men:
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Luke 10:5-7
And into whatever house you enter, first say, Peace be to this house.
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Luke 14:7-11
And he put forth a parable to those which were bidden, when he marked how they chose out the chief rooms; saying to them.
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1 Corinthians 10:27
If any of them that believe not bid you to a feast, and you be disposed to go; whatever is set before you, eat, asking no question for conscience sake.
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Jesus' Feet Anointed in the House of a Pharisee.
... and attentions which would have been paid to an honored guest. ... The former implies
a disregard for the accepted rules of religious conduct, while the latter ...
/.../mcgarvey/the four-fold gospel/xlvi jesus feet anointed in.htm

Letter vii. Tact --Unobtrusiveness.
... are a great many things pertaining to the conduct of life ... And yet no rules were ever
laid down by which anyone ... some instances of lack of tact: A lady guest at a ...
/.../letter vii tactunobtrusiveness.htm

Chapter iv.
... from the same motives, to new rules of conduct ... to the religion, and corresponding
change of conduct, had before ... magistrate for admitting such a guest within his ...
//christianbookshelf.org/paley/evidences of christianity/chapter iv.htm

Ascetic.
... and to give to every man according to his conduct. ... 34) speaks of Basil's composing
rules for monastic life, and ... on the arrival of a distinguished guest as it ...
//christianbookshelf.org/basil/basil letters and select works/iii ascetic.htm

Centenary Commemoration
... convention in each State shall institute rules for their ... your business and an upright,
diligent conduct in every ... the uneducated, and a welcome guest at their ...
/.../centenary commemoration 2.htm

Letter Liv. To Furia.
... the dangers to which she is exposed at Rome, lays down rules of conduct for her ... very
night unless they had food, she determined that her guest should survive ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter liv to furia.htm

Letter Lii. To Nepotian.
... orders, is in years your father; who can conduct you from ... he builds up stage by stage
the rules of holy ... homely board, that with them Christ may be your guest. ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter lii to nepotian.htm

Kingo's Childhood and Youth
... The rules of the university required each student, at ... and counsel him in his personal
life and conduct. ... at these, Kingo soon became a welcome and valued guest. ...
/.../aaberg/hymns and hymnwriters of denmark/chapter three kingos childhood and.htm

Jewish Homes
... But in every town and village sanitary rules were strictly attended ... If the
guest-chamber on the roof, which could be ... him, to lead him in, and to conduct him ...
/.../edersheim/sketches of jewish social life/chapter 6 jewish homes.htm

During These Various Changes in the Lives of those with whom He ...
... I thought one of your rules was perpetual silence ... Who gives you the daily rule of
conduct which you all obey ... once to me, to me in Rome as my guest,"my HONOURED ...
/.../corelli/the master-christian/xxxv during these various changes.htm

Resources
Who was Oswald Chambers? | GotQuestions.org

What is the meaning of importunity? | GotQuestions.org

What is the meaning of the Parable of the Great Banquet (Luke 14:15-24)? | GotQuestions.org

Guest: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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