Character of the Renewed Heart: Tender
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The concept of a tender heart is a significant theme throughout the Bible, reflecting the transformative work of God in the life of a believer. A tender heart is one that is sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit, responsive to God's Word, and compassionate towards others. This characteristic is a hallmark of the renewed heart, a heart that has been regenerated and sanctified by the grace of God.

Biblical Foundation

The Bible frequently contrasts the tender heart with the hardened heart. A tender heart is open and receptive to God's instruction, while a hardened heart is resistant and rebellious. In Ezekiel 36:26, God promises, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh." This passage highlights the divine initiative in transforming a person's heart from one that is unyielding to one that is tender and responsive.

Attributes of a Tender Heart

1. Sensitivity to God's Word: A tender heart is characterized by a deep reverence for Scripture and a willingness to be corrected and guided by it. In Isaiah 66:2, God declares, "But this is the one to whom I will look: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, who trembles at My word." This verse underscores the importance of approaching God's Word with humility and a readiness to obey.

2. Compassion and Mercy: A tender heart is marked by compassion and a desire to extend mercy to others. Colossians 3:12 exhorts believers, "Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with hearts of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience." This passage calls Christians to embody the tender-heartedness that reflects God's own character.

3. Repentance and Contrition: A tender heart is quick to repent and seek forgiveness when it sins. Psalm 51:17 states, "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, You will not despise." This verse highlights the value God places on a heart that is genuinely remorseful and eager to be reconciled with Him.

4. Empathy and Understanding: A tender heart is empathetic, seeking to understand and share in the experiences of others. Romans 12:15 encourages believers to "Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep." This command reflects the empathetic nature of a tender heart, which is attuned to the joys and sorrows of others.

Examples in Scripture

Several biblical figures exemplify the tender heart. King David, despite his failings, is often noted for his tender heart towards God. His psalms frequently express a deep longing for God's presence and a sincere repentance for his sins. In 1 Samuel 24:5, David's heart is described as being "stricken" after he cut off a corner of Saul's robe, demonstrating his sensitivity to God's anointed.

Another example is the Apostle Paul, whose letters reveal a heart tender towards the churches he ministered to. In Philippians 1:8, he writes, "God is my witness how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus." Paul's deep love and concern for the spiritual well-being of others is a testament to his tender heart.

Cultivating a Tender Heart

The development of a tender heart is a work of the Holy Spirit, yet believers are called to actively participate in this process. Prayer, meditation on Scripture, and fellowship with other believers are vital practices that nurture a tender heart. Hebrews 3:13 advises, "But exhort one another daily, as long as it is called today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness." Regular encouragement and accountability within the body of Christ help maintain the tenderness of heart that God desires.

In summary, the tender heart is a reflection of God's transformative work in the believer, characterized by sensitivity to His Word, compassion for others, and a readiness to repent. It is a heart that mirrors the love and mercy of Christ, serving as a testament to the renewing power of the Holy Spirit.
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1 Samuel 24:5
And it came to pass afterward, that David's heart smote him, because he had cut off Saul's skirt.
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2 Kings 22:19
Because your heart was tender, and you have humbled yourself before the LORD, when you heard what I spoke against this place, and against the inhabitants thereof, that they should become a desolation and a curse, and have rent your clothes, and wept before me; I also have heard you, said the LORD.
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Prayer Born of Compassion
... compassion, the kind born in a renewed heart, which is ... striking attributes of the
Divine character: "The Lord ... concerned over them, and his heart was strangely ...
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"The Tender Mercy of Our God"
... purity separate from sinners as to his character, yet he ... Secondly, he shows his tender
mercy in that HE VISITS US ... to the heart, and in the renewed heart to the ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 32 1886/the tender mercy of our.htm

The Character of the Persons for whom this Rest is Designed.
... sufficiency of Christ; their will is renewed; they engage ... As an essential part of
the character of God's ... We should never have felt Christ's tender heart, if we ...
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Life and Character of John
... extreme old age, when his youth was renewed like the ... Does not the character of John
belong to this ... accumulated till the moment when the heart overflowed, and ...
/.../history of the christian church volume i/section 41 life and character.htm

A Faithful Witness
... Him in the conversation, in the tender, pitiful spirit ... first loved us." In the heart
renewed by divine ... It modifies the character, governs the impulses, controls ...
/.../white/the acts of the apostles/lesson 54 a faithful witness.htm

Love's Logic
... Love to God is as natural to the renewed heart as love to its ... to the guilty, his
holy, just, and righteous character are not ... I will not vex so tender a heart. ...
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Letter xviii. Marriage.
... can be formed between the carnal and the renewed heart. ... be a dark mark against any
one's Christian character. ... if they were fostered in the heart in childhood ...
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Letter iii. True Religion a Work of Grace in the Heart; but it ...
... planting well represents the fixed state of the renewed soul, as ... It is preeminently
lovely in the female character. ... The latter is the disposition of the heart. ...
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Christian Sympathy
... sympathy should ever be of the widest character, because he ... grace into the crystal
pool of a renewed heart it stirs ... Lord"a heart, a heart, a heart, a tender ...
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A More Particular view of the Several Branches of the Christian ...
... branches of the Christian temper and character, I shall ... before God, and must occasion
renewed resolution for ... as the Gospel prevails in your heart, "your spirit ...
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Resources
What does it mean that God looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7)? | GotQuestions.org

How could David be considered a man after God's own heart? | GotQuestions.org

Is it biblical to ask Jesus into your heart? | GotQuestions.org

Heart: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Character of the Renewed Heart: A Treasury of Good

Character of the Renewed Heart: Awed by the Word of God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Broken, Contrite

Character of the Renewed Heart: Circumcised

Character of the Renewed Heart: Clean

Character of the Renewed Heart: Confident in God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Desirous of God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Enlarged

Character of the Renewed Heart: Faithful to God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Filled With the Fear of God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Filled With the Law of God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Fixed on God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Honest and Good

Character of the Renewed Heart: Inclined to Obedience

Character of the Renewed Heart: Joyful in God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Meditative

Character of the Renewed Heart: Obedient

Character of the Renewed Heart: Perfect With God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Prayerful

Character of the Renewed Heart: Prepared to Seek God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Pure

Character of the Renewed Heart: Single and Sincere

Character of the Renewed Heart: Sympathising

Character of the Renewed Heart: Tender

Character of the Renewed Heart: Upright

Character of the Renewed Heart: Void of Fear

Character of the Renewed Heart: Wholly Devoted to God

Character of the Renewed Heart: Wise

Character of the Renewed Heart: Zealous

Character of the Unrenewed Heart of Little Worth

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: A Treasury of Evil

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Blind

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Carnal

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Covetous

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Darkened

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Deceitful

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Deceived

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Desperately Wicked

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Despiteful

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Divided

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Double

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Elated by Prosperity

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Elated by Sensual Indulgence

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Ensnaring

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Far from God

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Foolish

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Fretful Against the Lord

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Froward

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Full of Evil

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Full of Evil Imaginations

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Full of Vain Thoughts

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Fully Set to do Evil

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Hard

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Hateful to God

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Haughty

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Idolatrous

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Impenitent

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Influenced by the Devil

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Mad

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Mischievous

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Not Perfect With God

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Not Prepared to Seek God

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Often Judicially Hardened

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Often Judicially Stupefied

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Perverse

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Prone to Depart from God

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Prone to Error

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Proud

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Rebellious

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Stiff

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Stony

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Stout

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Studies Destruction

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Unbelieving

Character of the Unrenewed Heart: Uncircumcised

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The Heart: Harden not Against the Poor

The Heart: Harden Not, Against God

The Heart: He That Trusts In, is a Fool

The Heart: Issues of Life are out of

The Heart: Know the Plague of

The Heart: No Man Can Cleanse

The Heart: Pray That It May Be: Cleansed

The Heart: Pray That It May Be: Directed Into the Love of God

The Heart: Pray That It May Be: Inclined to God's Testimonies

The Heart: Pray That It May Be: United to Fear God

The Heart: Regard not Iniquity In

The Heart: Renewal of, Promised Under the Gospel

The Heart: should be Applied to Wisdom

The Heart: should be Given to God

The Heart: should be Guided in the Right

The Heart: should be Kept With Diligence

The Heart: should be Perfect With God

The Heart: should be Prepared to God

The Heart: should be Purified

The Heart: should be Single

The Heart: should be Tender

The Heart: Take Heed Lest It to be Deceived

The Heart: The Pure In, Shall See God

The Heart: we should Believe With

The Heart: we should do the Will of God From

The Heart: we should Keep God's Statutes With All

The Heart: we should Love God With All

The Heart: we should Love One Another With a Pure

The Heart: we should Return to God With All

The Heart: we should Sanctify God In

The Heart: we should Serve God With All

The Heart: we should Trust in God With All

The Heart: we should Walk Before God With All

The Heart: when Broken and Contrite, not Despised by God

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