Hand of Friendship
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The concept of the "Hand of Friendship" in the Bible symbolizes peace, reconciliation, and covenantal relationships. It is a gesture that signifies trust, alliance, and mutual support, often seen in the context of personal relationships, tribal alliances, and divine-human interactions.

Biblical Instances and Symbolism

1. Covenantal Relationships: The act of extending a hand in friendship is often associated with forming covenants. In the ancient Near Eastern context, covenants were solemn agreements that involved mutual commitments. The Bible reflects this cultural practice, where a handshake or the extension of a hand could symbolize the sealing of a covenant. For example, in 2 Kings 10:15, Jehu meets Jehonadab and extends his hand as a gesture of alliance: "When he left there, he found Jehonadab son of Rechab, who was coming to meet him. Jehu greeted him and asked, 'Is your heart as true to mine as my heart is to yours?' 'It is,' Jehonadab replied. 'If it is,' said Jehu, 'give me your hand.' So he gave him his hand, and Jehu helped him into his chariot."

2. Reconciliation and Peace: The hand of friendship is also a powerful symbol of reconciliation. In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul speaks of the right hand of fellowship extended to him by the other apostles, signifying acceptance and partnership in the ministry. Galatians 2:9 states, "And recognizing the grace that I had been given, James, Cephas, and John—those reputed to be pillars—gave me and Barnabas the right hand of fellowship, so that we should go to the Gentiles, and they to the circumcised."

3. Divine Friendship: The Bible also uses the imagery of God's hand to convey His friendship and support towards humanity. In Isaiah 41:13, God reassures His people of His presence and help: "For I am the LORD your God, who takes hold of your right hand and tells you, 'Do not fear; I will help you.'" This divine hand of friendship emphasizes God's commitment to His covenant people, offering them guidance and protection.

4. Human Relationships: The hand of friendship is evident in the relationships between individuals in the Bible. David and Jonathan's friendship is a prime example, characterized by loyalty and mutual support. In 1 Samuel 18:3, it is recorded, "Then Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself." Although the text does not explicitly mention a handshake, the covenantal language implies a deep bond akin to the hand of friendship.

Theological Implications

The hand of friendship in the Bible underscores the importance of community, unity, and love among believers. It serves as a reminder of the call to live in harmony with one another, reflecting the unity within the body of Christ. The gesture of extending a hand in friendship is not merely a cultural practice but a profound expression of the Christian virtues of love, peace, and reconciliation.

In summary, the "Hand of Friendship" in biblical terms is a multifaceted symbol that encompasses human relationships, divine interaction, and the establishment of peace and unity. It is a gesture that transcends cultural boundaries, rooted in the biblical narrative as a testament to the enduring power of covenantal love and fellowship.
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2 Kings 10:15
And when he was departed there, he lighted on Jehonadab the son of Rechab coming to meet him: and he saluted him, and said to him, Is your heart right, as my heart is with your heart? And Jehonadab answered, It is. If it be, give me your hand. And he gave him his hand; and he took him up to him into the chariot.
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Job 17:3
Lay down now, put me in a surety with you; who is he that will strike hands with me?
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Turn to Neither Hand.
... hand," [641] even He who alone is without sin, and is able to blot out our sins;
"but the ways on the left hand are perverse," [642] in friendship with sins. ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 57 xxxv turn to neither.htm

Whether Charity is Friendship
... On the other hand: it is said in John 15:15: "Henceforth I call you not servants
. . . but ... otherwise. Charity is therefore friendship. ...
/.../aquinas/nature and grace/article one whether charity is.htm

On Friendship with the World
... Have no friendship with the world ... Yea, if thy ungodly friend be dear to thee as a
right eye, or useful as a right hand, yet confer not with flesh and blood, but ...
/.../wesley/sermons on several occasions/sermon 80 on friendship with.htm

Friendship; Or, David and Jonathan
... went to David in the forest of Ziph, and 'strengthened his hand in God ... Seldom, indeed,
will there be seen in the world such perfect friendship between man and ...
//christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/david/sermon v friendship or david.htm

Whether the Love which is an Act of Charity is the Same as ...
... On the other hand: the philosopher says that "benevolence is neither friendship
nor love, but the beginning of friendship" (9 Ethics 5). Now we said in Q.23 ...
/.../aquinas/nature and grace/article two whether the love.htm

For Constant Christian Friendship.
... Hollow and unfaithful ever Is the friendship of the earth; Seemeth she a man to
favour ... did Thy hand such blessing Graciously bestow on me, Were such friend, Lord ...
/.../gerhardt/paul gerhardts spiritual songs/for constant christian friendship.htm

The Eye or Hand Allegorized.
... by birth, or from any habitual friendship, so to speak; whom we must not spare if
they are injuring our soul. For let us cut off from ourselves as a hand or a ...
/.../origen/origens commentary on the gospel of matthew/25 the eye or hand.htm

How this Bishop Foretold that his Own Death was at Hand to the ...
... had long been united with the man of God, Cuthbert, in the bonds of spiritual
friendship. ... I know of a surety that the time of my departure is at hand, and that ...
/.../bede/bedes ecclesiastical history of england/chap xxix how this bishop.htm

Eighth Lesson. Because of his Importunity;'
... if we are God's friends, and come as such to Him, we must prove ourselves the friends
of the needy; God's friendship to us and ours to others go hand in hand. ...
/.../murray/with christ in the school of prayer/eighth lesson because of his.htm

Jesus' Conditions of Friendship.
... touch, with whom he might not speak in public, or privately, or who were excluded
from the privileges of friendship with him ... "No man, having put his hand to the ...
/.../miller/personal friendships of jesus/chapter iv jesus conditions of.htm

Resources
What does it mean that we should not let our left hand know what our right hand is doing (Matthew 6:3 4)? | GotQuestions.org

How can I see the hand of God moving in my life? | GotQuestions.org

Why does Scripture emphasize the right hand of God? | GotQuestions.org

Hand: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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